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Once upon a time, this painfully honest pair were engaged. Now, they live on opposite sides of the world. Each week they get together and chat life, love, and how to be better.
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Feb 18, 2022
Being Frank With My Frankie
"I think when you feel safe with someone and you let out all of your insides, you really let out all of your insides. Like, once it started spilling you can't stop it. And that comes with the good, the bad and the ugly."
After a 4-year break, Being Honest With My Ex returns (without SJ). Frankie acts as interviewer, asking: where's Peter? Where's SJ? And what happened at the end of the podcast?
Edited by AJ Brandon. Full transcript. Mentioned this episode:
- Peter's Kickstarter campaign for Cartouche
- Peter's Kickstarter campaign for Robotopia
- The Reginald Method
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Oct 19, 2019
83 - Freelensers With My Ex
Peter guests on an episode of Freelensers (originally recorded December 2018)
No Feeling Is Final (SJ's award-winning or nominated podcast)
The Big Feels Club (keep up with SJ)
Jellybean Games (what Peter's been up to)
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Dec 12, 2017
Christmas Break With My Ex
We're on a break over Christmas! Maybe a bit beyond that as well, depending on how "new baby" treats Peter.
We'll be back next year!
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Dec 06, 2017
82 - Warming Up With My Ex 2
A compilation of The Warmup, episodes 6-12.
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Nov 28, 2017
81 - Two Wizards With My Ex
Peter guest-stars on a podcast about wizards hanging out. For more, visit tommclean.com/twowizards
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Nov 14, 2017
80 - Full Circle With My Ex
Peter and SJ were both interviewed for the call-in podcast Full Circle.
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Nov 09, 2017
79 - Warming Up With My Ex
A compilation of the first 6 Warmups.
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Nov 02, 2017
78 - First Date With My Ex
SJ and Peter walk the streets of Melbourne.
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Oct 24, 2017
77 - Calling My Ex A Cunt
In which Peter and SJ conclude their argument from the previous episode.
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Oct 17, 2017
76 - Gaslighting My Ex
In which Peter gets mad at SJ for the joke he made in the last episode.
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Oct 11, 2017
75 - Consent With My Ex Live
In which Peter is a sexy robot and SJ is sick of his shit.
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Sep 27, 2017
74 - Dharmas With My Ex Live
The first half of the second live show! SJ explains dharmas and Peter tells the tale of his broken penis.
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Sep 20, 2017
73 - Wank Chat With My Ex Live
Part 2 of the first Being Honest With My Ex: Live! The most Peter thing that Peter's ever said, public authenticity, and - of course - The Wank Chat.
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Sep 12, 2017
72 - Fashion With My Ex: Live
In which Peter and SJ recount their fashion experiments and blunders over the years.
Slideshow: https://imgur.com/a/eGQZa
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Sep 06, 2017
71 - Believing In Money With My Ex
In which Peter and SJ record in the same room, for the first time ever.
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Aug 30, 2017
70 - Being Honest With My Cousin
In which Peter interviews the ex he's had for the longest.
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Aug 26, 2017
69: Starving Artist With My Ex
SJ revisits the past!
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Aug 16, 2017
68 - My Superstitious Ex
SJ develops superstitious tendencies, and Peter makes fun of her for them.
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Aug 09, 2017
67: Korean Skincare With My Ex
SJ gets obsessed with Korean skincare products and Peter reroutes the path to his mountain.
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Aug 02, 2017
66: Weird Porn With My Ex
This week's episode includes incest, mind control, government conspiracies, and gangrene.
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Jul 26, 2017
65 : The Boyfriend of my Ex (extended edition)
This week we travel back in time to visit the extended edition of SJ meeting Peter's new partner.
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Jul 19, 2017
64: Talking Dirty to My Ex
Peter has an idea for a new podcast, and wants SJ to talk him out of it.
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Jul 11, 2017
63 - Food Poisoning With My Ex
SJ's salmonella tells her that she really, really doesn't want to be Peter.
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Jul 04, 2017
62: Surprising My Ex
Peter has news. SJ, miraculously, does NOT have a panic attack.
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Jun 27, 2017
61: Wasting Money With My Ex
What has Peter wasted the most money on?
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Jun 20, 2017
60: Body Image With My Ex
Peter and SJ talk about feeling sexy and comfortable in their own skin.
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Jun 13, 2017
59: Dieting With My Ex
Peter and SJ talk body image, dieting, and really large numbers.
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Jun 07, 2017
58 - sothisis.love
Check out Peter's new podcast at http://www.sothisis.love!
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May 31, 2017
57: Panic Attack With My Ex
In which Peter has news, and SJ has a panic attack.
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May 23, 2017
56 and Three Quarters: Ending a Hiatus With My Ex
Apr 25, 2017
Starving Artist: Becky Sui Zhen
Check out SJ's new podcast at http://www.starvingartistpodcast.com!
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Apr 10, 2017
Starving Artist - How I made $87,000 on my first Kickstarter
Check out SJ's new podcast at http://www.starvingartistpodcast.com!
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Mar 15, 2017
56 and a half: Unexpected Hiatus with My Ex
"Where have we been SJ?"
"I have been many places in my mind" *laughs maniacally*
In this mini episode we explain ourselves (and our absence), and talk unfathomable stress, fame, and the future of the podcast.
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Feb 19, 2017
56: Erotic Fanfiction With My Ex
Peter: “My first arousal was Monty Python, then Harry Potter slash fic, then incest bestiality”
This week: our first sexual experiences, cyber sexing as a 13 year old, and never being able to work in politics ever again.
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Feb 07, 2017
55: Managing Money With My Ex
“Fiscally conservative in the streets and socially liberal in the sheets”
This week: SJ quits her job, and no surprise, immediately regrets it.
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Jan 31, 2017
We are now LIVE ON KICKSTARTER!
Check out our Kickstarter here! https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/honoreastly/being-honest-with-my-ex-live-a-podcast-about-feeli
Also, we have a fancy new website: http://www.beinghonestwithmyex.com
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Jan 28, 2017
54: Getting Dumped With My Ex
“I think I have such a high opinion of you I don’t know why anyone would break up with you”
This week: both SJ and Peter got dumped. How / why could either of them get dumped? Listen in to find out!
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Jan 14, 2017
53: Being Honest With My Mortal Enemy
This week we talk to the author of an email that started like this:
I have been trying to continue listening to your podcast for months now. I am so enamoured with SJ but Peter is honestly a giant douchebag.
And ended like this:
The day that SJ does something alone, I am on board, but as of today I am unsubscribing from the show, entirely because of Peter.
Shit gets real.
Things discussed this episode:
Episode 47: Staying Friends With My Ex (the episode about getting the above email from Alice)
Episode 31: Poly-sposions With My Ex (part 2 of the trilogy about the mess Peter and SJ made of polyamory
Episode 20: Naked Photos Of My Ex (the episode that contains a reading of the one and only love letter Peter has sent)
Episode 42: Finding My Mountain With My Ex (the episode about finding your path and aggressive self-sabotage)
Episode 43: Having Kids With My Ex (the episode where Peter lays into Canada)
Episode 28: Making Money With My Ex (Peter gives SJ a pep talk on quitting your job and living creatively)
Episode 29: Getting Therapy With My Ex (on SJ’s troubles with the mental health system)
Episode 10: Behind the Scenes With My Ex (look honestly I can’t even remember what this episode was about!)
Peter’s other podcast, Let’s Write A Film
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Jan 05, 2017
52: A Year With My Ex
“I think one of the biggest changes as a result of doing this podcast is that you and I are so much closer than we were a year ago. We are probably as close as when we were dating if you ignore sex.”
It’s episode 52 of this weekly podcast, so this week is a year in review.
Things discussed this episode:
SJ’s #nofeelingisfinal campaign
SJ’s What The Actual Fuck video
Episode about getting hatemail about Peter (from someone who Peter interviewed on for the next episode)
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Dec 26, 2016
51: Running A Patreon With My Ex
"With the patreon I feel like I have all this opportunity and I’m just crumbling underneath it"
This week: creative terror and SJ’s private Patreon fears.
Things discussed this episode:
Jon Ronson’s So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed
Hello Internet
Dakota Access Pipeline Protests
Ira Glass - The Gap
So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport
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Dec 17, 2016
50: The Boyfriend of My Ex
This week: SJ sits down with Peter’s new partner to discuss love, exes and how shameless Peter really is.
Things discussed this episode:
Days Until app to count down to an event
Podcasting panel SJ did for Digital Writers Festival (warning: there were lots of technical issues with this one!)
Episode 20, when SJ read out the first (and only) love letter Peter has sent
Email Debt Forgiveness Day
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Dec 11, 2016
49: Surviving a Car Crash With My Ex
“The next twenty seconds were really interesting cause I was like “oh, I could die now. This could be it.””
This week: Peter’s car accident, and what SJ would’ve done if he’d died.
Things discussed this episode:
Speed limits: to check out speed limits in different countries check out this handy Wikipedia page. Turns out that SJ and Peter were both right on Australian speed laws., Anything over the speed limit by 3 km/h or more will get you a fine in Victoria, whereas it’s 7 km/h over in Western Australia. In other states it’s 10% over the speed limit.
Quora - the website that claims to have the answer to every question
Peter’s injury from car accident
Werner Herzhog’s film From One Second To The Next, on texting while driving. It’s 35 minutes long and you can watch it all on YouTube.
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Nov 30, 2016
No episode this week!
Peter was in a car accident!
(He's totally fine)
But it meant we decided not to put out an episode this week. We'll be in your earholes next week.
:)
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Nov 24, 2016
48: Happy Birthday To My Ex
“I don’t see you as the SJ I dated. You are my ex SJ, my friend who I used to be engaged to who I do a podcast with. I don’t like the SJ I dated.”
Big talks, plus it’s Peter’s birthday so SJ gives him the best gift ever and asks him The Birthday Questions.
Things discussed this episode:
Peter’s games that he’s Kickstarted: Dracula’s Feast and Scuttle!
Episode about Peter getting turned away at the US border
Episode about Peter’s Facebook wall
The Ferrett (quoting Jay Lake) on Bathtub Theory
Ira Glass: the gap
Alasdair Tremblay-Birchall’s new dad instagram
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Nov 17, 2016
47: Staying Friends With My Ex
SJ tells Peter of the horrible things she’s learned about him, and the pair try to decide whether or not they should stay friends.
Things discussed this episode:
Lena Dunham article
No One Likes My Ex
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Nov 13, 2016
46: Terrible Pet Ownership With My Ex
This week: the time Peter tried to placate SJ with rabbits, convenient veganism, and Peter realising he’s a bit of an asshole.
Things discussed this episode:
Gamergate video series
Video about hating Phill Phish
Video on what it is to be a good person
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Nov 05, 2016
45: Working From Home With My Ex
This week: the trials, tribulations and masturbatory habits of those who work from home.
Things discussed this episode:
Here’s the Millennial episode that made Peter cry
A short film that will definitely make you cry: Denali
The Ferrett on why there isn’t one technique that works for everyone
Neville Medhora’s to do list
Eat That Frog
Workflowy - the best list makey thing ever!
Focus keeper - SJ’s trusted pomodoro app
Pomodoro app - Peter’s trusted pomodoro app
Money shredding alarm clock
Gym pact
7 minute workout app
Neville Medhora’s problem solving checklist
Dracula’s Feast - there’s still a week to go!
Hello Internet - and here’s the episode about email management
Cortex - CGP Grey and Myke Hurley talking the methods and tools they use to be productive and creative
Mitchell and Webb sketch about working from home
This Is Your Song - project SJ did back in the day. Click the link to see SJ performing a song to Peter about his broken penis after they’d just met
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Oct 27, 2016
44: I Want An Apology From My Ex
“I’m not saying that I’m easy to date, I’m saying dating me does not in any way prepare you for having a kid.”
Peter insults SJ, and she makes the mistake of trying to get him to apologize.
Things discussed this episode:
Peter conflated two of Joe Peacocks posts: 1 you-just-cant-get-away-with-when.php">2 (also, it’s worth noting that Joe has disavowed a lot of the opinions and phrasings of his old writings)
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Oct 22, 2016
43: Having Kids With My Ex
“I have recurring baby-related nightmares. I lose them like a set of car keys.”
After a week surrounded by tiny humans, SJ unpacks all of her ideas about whether or not to have kids.
Things discussed this episode:
houses-are-just-glorified-tents-in-winter-20150608-ghj2ox.html">Australian Houses are Glorified Tents in Winter
Target figured out a teenage girl was pregnant...before her family did.
The Horrors of Children
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Oct 12, 2016
42: Finding My Mountain With My Ex
"I am really really talented at not achieving my goals."
In this episode, Peter reveals that he has been aggressively sabotaging himself for the last, oh, 8 years now.
Things discussed this episode:
Neil Gaiman’s Make Good Art commencement speech
Do women’s period’s sync? - "In light of the lack of empirical evidence for MS [menstrual synchrony] sensu stricto, it seems there should be more widespread doubt than acceptance of this hypothesis"
Vlog brothers videos on failure - here’s Hank’s video, and John Green’s response on failing to follow up his book The Fault in Our Stars
procrastinators-procrastinate.html">Wait But Why procrastination post (the best post on the internet). Here is a direct link to the cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/Eisenhower-Matrix.png">Eisenhower Matrix. You can also check out the TED talk on procrastination by Tim Urban, the writer of that post.
Episode 13 - Let’s Write A Film
Teach For Australia
Seth Godin - The Dip
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Oct 07, 2016
41: Social Enterprise With My Ex
“Fuck! I bought a food truck before I realised I hate hospitality.”
This episode: SJ’s embarrassing past as a boldly naive young person trying to save the world.
Things discussed this episode:
Little Bets, The Four Hour Work Week, The Art of Non-Conformity - all books about lifestyle design and design thinking (that I’m warning, can sometimes be distinctly missing an awareness of or to, social / political context)
That Sexy Show - a sex-positive comedy game show that we did back in the day
Who Gives A Crap - social enterprise toilet paper company
Shebeen - Melbourne bar and social enterprise
Conflict Kitchen, started by Jon Rubin (who’s work SJ really digs)
Streat - social enterprise in Melbourne working with homeless people
Be Bangles - I feel bad about coming down so hard on this project and looking like an asshole (and also a hypocrite) I guess we’re all just trying to find the best way to do the right thing really
The Most Good You Can Do by Peter Singer
Guy who has made a pledge to donate half his income
GiveWell.org - an organisation that does in-depth charity research to suggest what would be best to donate to
Dave Gorman - the man behind Are You Dave Gorman? And Googlewack Adventure
Global Fund for Women - organisation advocating for women’s rights
Sock company Odd Pears (turns out they do donate part of profits to charity!)
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Oct 01, 2016
40: The Facebook Wall Of My Ex
This week: the wild wild west of Peter’s Facebook wall.
Things discussed this episode:
Gamergate video series
Really great video on Phil Fish about internet celebrity
Previous episode: Shit’s Complicated With My Ex
Peter’s new board game: Dracula’s Feast
Video Sia made for SJ where she got her name wrong (SJ still cringes when she watches this)
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Sep 24, 2016
39: Burned Out With My Ex
"You don’t have capacity for a sandwich let alone complex emotional situations"
This week: burning out, being afraid of feelings, and how to cry well on a podcast.
Things discussed this episode:
Hip hop dance video that made SJ cry
The episode about SJ collecting her tears
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Sep 16, 2016
38: PhD In Shame With My Ex
“I have a PhD in shame, but I don’t even have a Cert II in happiness”
This week: shame, the creative driving force, and the dangers of true crime documentaries.
Things discussed this episode:
Review of Being Honest With My Ex from Always Listening
Amanda Palmer’s book The Art of Asking
Louis CK talking about feeling your feelings
Here’s the facebook write-up for the group process / social dialogue event that I talked about
Broadly doco about paid maternity leave in America (54 minutes) (also I find interviewer pretty annoying in this doco, but it’s important / interesting info)
Broadly doco about egg freezing and the future of fertility (28 minutes) (same interviewer, but I found this one much more watchable) (this one made me pretty angry / sad)
Ira Glass on The Gap between your taste and your skills
Making A Murderer
OJ doco series (very very good)
Jane The Virgin - the first season is seriously gooooood and fun and light!
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Sep 08, 2016
37: Back In Time With My Ex
In 2012, SJ recorded an interview with Peter for her radio show “Your Life The Musical”. We couldn’t resist sharing the audio of these younger and much smarmier versions of ourselves.
Songs used this episode:
Rock n Roll Nerd - Tim Minchin
This Year - The Mountain Goats
Step Right Up - Tom Waits
Everyday - Buddy Holly
The Broken Penis Song - Sarah Jane Haywood
End Of The Movie - Cake
In My Mind - Amanda Palmer
Don't bother trying to visit any of the links Peter talks about. You can read more about Your Life The Musical here, and This Is Your Song here.
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Sep 01, 2016
36: Voluntary Euthanasia With My Ex
If Peter was dying, would SJ help put him out of his misery?
Things discussed this episode:
SJ’s favourite show at the moment, You Can’t Ask That
Andrew Denton’s podcast about euthanasia, Better Off Dead
Relevant CGP Grey videos: The Queen is also the head of England, and technically God is in charge of the Commonwealth.How to Become Pope
The powers of the Queen
One of the best videos ever made: The History of Japan
-There’s much more to mortal sin than Peter covered. Further reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mortal_sin
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Aug 24, 2016
35: Proposing To My Ex
Peter and SJ tell the story of the worst thing he ever did to her: a surprise proposal in front of all her friends and family. Ew.
Things discussed this episode:
SJ wrote a (rather good)was-engaged-for-two-years-because-i-was-too-embarrassed-to-say-no-20160510-goqtmi.html">article about being proposed to.
While SJ was inhospital,she made this video. Peter saw it.
We tried to get the video online but ran into technical difficulties. But we promise: it’s coming!
Sympathy vs Empathy. (Turns out: Peter was right!)
This week’s outro was provided by Birthday Loyalty Club
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Aug 19, 2016
34: Becoming a Millionaire With My Ex
This week: SJ’s Patreon success, Peter’s insane aspirations, and how much the pair have grown since they started dating.
Things discussed this episode:
SJ’s Patreon - support the show! Get cool rewards! Be a better person!
CGP Grey - learn stuff! Enjoy a British accent! Seriously, learn so much stuff!
Peter’s porn Patreon - read porn! Get hard/wet! Have orgasms!
Majority is more than 50%, plurality is whichever individually has the highest percentage!
Amanda Palmer’s Patreon - listen to music! Support the precursor to Honor Eastly!
Pentatonix’s Patreon - listen to music! Acapella music!
matrix.html">The Procrastination Matrix - the single best post on the internet.
SJ’s first public Patreon post - includes gif of dancing.
The Canon on Kevin Smith - famous people do not grow up.
Out on the Wire: Dark Forest - growing hurts.
Holly Lisle on When To Quit Your Job - a bit out of date, but still fascinating!
Startup Podcast - business is all about feelings.
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Aug 12, 2016
33: Talking To Cats With My Ex
This week: feminism, atheism, AA, religion, and talking to your pets during sex.
Things discussed this episode:
SJ's new favourite podcast, Invisibilia
Wikipedia on the Effectiveness of Alcoholics Anonymous
Perhaps Peter's very favourite blog series: What Happened to Big Idea?
The Dark Side of Guardian Comments
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Aug 07, 2016
Mental Health With My Ex
A compilation of conversations we've had about mental health, assembled by fan of the show Ben Kuebrich - you can find his blog at neuroamer.wordpress.com. The music in the background is Sparklehorse's Dreamt For Light Years in the Belly of a Mountain.
The new episode will be uploaded on Wednesday/Thursday, which is going to be our regular release date from now on.
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Jul 31, 2016
32: Cheating On My Ex
“I definitely did something wrong. I betrayed the trust of the person that I love, and that’s a fucked up thing to do. I just didn’t do it as badly as you did.”
This week we sail our polyamory ship into the treacherous Cheating Sea. Neither of us come out unscathed.
Things discussed this episode:
Turns out breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic
Episode of This Feels Terrible, hosted by Erin McGathy, where she talks about her relationship with her first boyfriend, and the verrry long conversations they had when she didn’t want to leave and go home
Turns out it’s called Correspondence Bias or the Fundamental Attribution Error. Note, Jacqui (a patreon backer) linked me to this fascinating article about the difference in Correspondence Bias between East and West cultures. Give it a read!
Alain De Botton - contemporary philosopher. Check out The School Of Life YouTube channel, particularly the videos on relationships.
Old Man’s War by John Scalzi
Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, or for the quicker run-down check out the TED talk
Turns out it’s hard to know how many people cheat because well, no one wants to admit to it. Also, it’s hard to know definitively what constitutes cheating (an issue discussed this episode!)
Episode 20 of Being Honest With My Ex: Naked Photos Of My Ex
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Jul 24, 2016
31: Poly-splosions With My Ex
“I just lay down on the gravel and sobbed into the dirt” - SJ
This week we dive into way more dirty laundry than we realised as we unpack the gigantic mess we made of polyamory.
Things discussed this episode:
Polyvic - the Victorian Polyamory Community (they have monthly socials and discussion groups)
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
Kinsey scale of sexual orientation
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Jul 17, 2016
30: Polyamory With My Ex
This week: Peter was banned from the US because he’s too honest, and we talk polyamory!
Polyamory flag aka the ugliest / most non-sensical flag in the history of the human race (see pic below)
How romanticism ruined love from The School of Life - this one is SO GOOD!
What Nice Men Don’t Say To Women - one of the only School of Life vids that I’ve not really liked
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola (I did get the last name right!)
Your Relationship Toolbelt - Melbourne-based workshops and individual sessions on open / polyamorous relationships
Freaking FANTASTIC article about Trump and the historical relationship between classism and sexism
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Jul 11, 2016
29: Getting Therapy With My Ex Again
SJ talks her troubles with the mental health system and Peter is reasonably unhelpful.
Invisibilia episode The Problem With The Solution - holy hell it’s so good. Just don’t listen to this and listen to that instead
Article about people's breakthrough moments (turns out I have read this before!)
Neville Medhora - problem solving checklist (ugly graphics but gooood info)
Episode 4 - Getting Therapy With My Ex
Prevention And Recovery Centre (PARC) - here’s the list of them through Mind
Soteria - I totally said the wrong thing. Definitely check this stuff out!
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Jul 03, 2016
28: Making Money With My Ex
This week: quitting your job and living creatively. How do you go about it?
Things discussed this episode:
Marie Kondo - organisation consultant and creator of the KonMari method of decluttering. In finding this link I also found her interesting folding method
Comic book writer and artist Jessica Abel. The product spreadsheet I mentioned is at the end of this article (which is great btw)
Kickstarter Lessons
The Market Revolution by John Green on Crash Course US History
Shitty Robot Nation
wife-drought-9780857984289.aspx">The Wife Drought by Annabel Crabb
Lean In by Sheryl Standberg
Millennial the podcast
Startup by Gimlet Media (the first season is really really good!)
CGP Grey
Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss
Austin Kleon
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Jun 28, 2016
27: Arguing With My Ex Again
“I love that we can have these conversation but I also hate having them”
This week: part 2 of unpacking The Big Fight.
Things discussed this episode:
The story of a guy who bought a motel in order to watch his guests have sex. Super interesting read, but not for the faint of heart.
The video we were sent by Isabel about hospital, illness and incidentally, being grateful.
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Jun 18, 2016
26: Arguing With My Ex
“I think that’s the biggest fight we’ve had since we broke up”
This week they try to unpack that argument.
Things discussed this episode:
Stanford prison experiment, which was covered in Jon Ronson’s The Psychopath Test. Turns out there’s also a movie that was released in 2015 about it, here’s the trailer.
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Jun 12, 2016
25: Fucking Up Pronouns With My Ex
Peter falls in love, and it’s way more complicated than he imagined.
Things discussed this episode:
Turns out disingenuous is definitely a word
Here’s the episode where Peter talks about exclusively dating people who will like SJ
Australian comedian Corey White
Scott Adams - creator of Dilbert, and one of the most controversial blogs on the interwebs
Paul Graham - the top idea in your mind
Amy Webb - data analyst and author of Data: A Love Story. Check out her TED Talk where she talks about using data to find love
Peter’s most successful erotica story Limits
The timelapse of Peter editing this episode
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Jun 04, 2016
24: Feeling Unsexy With My Ex
SJ on the shame of losing your sexiness and Peter on the realisation that he’s never going to be Steve Jobs.
The Five Love Languages
SJ in the penguin store
Episode about living on the streets
Wait But Why post about musk-the-worlds-raddest-man.html">Elon Musk
The Sex Myth - book about the pains of thinking we’re not having enough sex
Slingshot - doco about Dean Kamen, the guy behind The Segway
Turns out that the guy who bought Segway Inc did actually fall off a cliff while riding a Segway
Agatha Christie’s Curtain
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May 28, 2016
23: Entertaining Flies With My Ex
This week: realising the government governs your life, entertaining flies, and what the hell is a millenial anyway?
The (really good!) article about redefining Millennials that Peter read
Wait But Why article about intelligence-revolution-1.html">accelerated technology
Democratic Media Please - a website run by Kyle, who covers over public advertising. There’s an interesting explanatory video on the front page.
Steve Roggenbuck - check out this video (which is my favourite and always makes me love the world), and if you’re a creative who sometimes struggles to go on, check out this one, oh god it gets me in the feels every time.
Check out Melody Sheep - We Are All Connected is one of my favourites
The Depths: The Evolutionary Beginnings of the Depression Epidemic
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May 22, 2016
22: Pouring Fucks Into My Ex
“At the end of our relationship, when you cried, I just couldn’t care. I had no fucks left to give.”
This week: a sombre episode about that sad moment when you run out of fucks to give the person you love.
Things discussed this episode:
Reasons To Stay Alive, a book by Matt Haig
Wait But Why article - is-picture-but-you-live-in-pixel.html">Life Is A Picture, But You Live In A Pixel
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May 14, 2016
21: Emotional Support From My Ex
This week: an episode that almost got deleted. Listen in to hear an awkward conversation about whether SJ is a shit friend.
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Things discussed this episode:
Peter’s Kickstarter (turns out SJ bought three copies of Peter’s game)
Reasons To Stay Alive by Matt Haig
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May 09, 2016
20: Naked Photos Of My Ex
“Why do I have to delete the naked photos I have of you?” Peter asked.
“WTF?!” SJ replied.
Also in this episode, SJ reads Peter’s first (and only) love letter. It is a surprisingly painful experience.
This is the part where we put in any links to anything we talked about, but this is the first time we've exclusively talked about ourselves!
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Apr 30, 2016
19: Collecting Tears With My Ex
SJ has been collecting her tears for over a year. Peter thinks this the weirdest thing she’s ever done.
The article that SJ read that made her want to mindedmag.com/001_the_springboard/">fly to Amsterdam to have a beer with the writer
A bit more info on the project where SJ tried to fall in love with people
Some writing on the collecting tears project by SJ
The notorious Reddit cum box story (you may not want to know what it)
Article about emotional labour that Peter mentioned
The final article on Daily Life about what SJ i-learned-about-breakups-by-doing-a-podcast-with-my-exfiance-20160426-gof89c.html">has learned from doing the podcast
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Apr 22, 2016
18: Life On The Streets With My Ex
If this episode were a high-school essay topic it would be:
Peter spent a month living on the streets of Melbourne, and it made him both broken and invincible. Discuss.
Dr. Professor Neal Portenza. Look, he doesn’t really have that much stuff online, but here’s is his slightly unnerving website
Here’s a pic of Josh Ladgrove’s fantastic suit
Sentinels of The Multiverse - the card game Peter’s friend Christopher made
The genius thing that SJ wrote about her sister
Flex by Ferrett Steinmetz - turns out Peter was right and he has asked SJ to read it at least 3 times. Also turns out Peter has way too much time on his hands if he wants to dedicate that much energy to proving himself right. (PS. he has a small penis)
Here’s one of Lena Dunham’s first short films (also turns out she didn’t invent Mumblecore)
Peter’s early awful writings, still online
bus-a-refreshing-solution-for-the-homeless-20160324-gnqgv2.html">Showerbus
Peter’s old, awful, rapey stand-up
MX article about Peter’s being homeless
Paul Graham essay about truth and optimism and happiness
Making A Murderer - documentary series about a specific case showcasing the failings of the justice system
Miranda July’s novel The First Bad Man (when the book was released you could also buy objects that were in the book itself. The store still exists)
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Apr 18, 2016
17: How I Met My Ex
How did a broken penis get SJ and Peter together? Find out this week!
Episode about Peter’s broken penis
Invisibilia episode about Maria Bamford and her mother (on that note, Maria Bamford’s comedy album, Ask Me About My New God!, is one of the best comedy I’ve listened to about mental illness. Get your earholes around that shit!)
That TV show Peter liked - Brooklyn Nine-Nine
Episode about Peter convincing professional actors to work for free on his projects and how the mental health system can make you sick
Fantastic Meanjin essay about contemporary feminism by Eleanor Robertson
Great doco about feminist movement in America in the 60s & 70s - She’s Beautiful When She’s Angry (also turns out SJ was right and the suffragettes were first wave feminism)
Another great article about the gender pay gap
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Apr 08, 2016
16: Having Opinions With My Ex
Peter has no filter. SJ has a bunch of filters. This time they discuss why.
Also included: SJ momentarily forgets that she ever went out with Peter. It's a lot of fun.
Things discussed this episode:
So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed by Jon Ronson. Also the guy I mentioned who was embroiled in a sex scandal is Max Mosley, you can read a bit about it on his wiki page
SJ’s instagram post about of Mary O’Hagan that made her anxious
The Wait But Why article on mammoth-let-peoples-opinions-run-life.html">Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think
If you’d like to go down the Scott Adams Is A Misogynist Douchecanoe, here’s a good link for that
Trust Me I’m Lying by Ryan Holiday. Seriously, read this book! Otherwise check out this much shorter post by him (which includes the Sasha Grey ad)
SJ’s anniversary post
Peter’s Kickstarter!!
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Apr 02, 2016
No Podcast This Week!
Heya guys! No podcast this week because Peter has exciting kickstarter stuff happening (visit scuttlegame.com for details) and tedious visa stuff happening. Also SJ way on board with a mental health week off! See y'all next week and please stop sending dick pics.
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Mar 26, 2016
15: Shit’s Complicated With My Ex
How did Peter manage to make several terrible TV shows on unbridled self-confidence alone? Was SJ really The Messy One? Does the mental health system make you sick? Find out this week with the fancy podcast for fancy people.
Things discussed this episode:
If you’re interested in perusing through Peter’s back catalogue of terrible TV shows you can check out Help!, NAP-Time, and here’s a fun behind the scenes video of The Map Shop
Here’s that picture of SJ drunk at a house inspection(this link is shamelessly put here so you can go follow her on instagram)
This is the Uni of California Student Cooperative housing place that I mentioned. It’s actually a really cool enterprise and you should check it out if you’re interested in that kind of thing.
If you’re interested in Intentional Peer Support I suggest reading some things by Shery Mead, the creator of IPS. Peer-Support.pdf">This article is about what it is and A-Personal-Retrospective.pdf">this article is about her personal experience.
Turns out people with a “serious” mental illness have a life expectancy 10-25 years lower than the rest of the population :(
If you haven’t seen David Foster Wallace’s commencement speech This Is Water please, please watch it. It’s an amazing way of describing what mindfulness is without the word mindfulness or any irritating inspirational bullshit (that being said I find it really inspiring)
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Mar 20, 2016
14: Having A Kid With My Ex
This episode the pair chat How Not To Propose, How Not To Get Un-Engaged, and SJ starts her hunt for a baby co-producer. Is it you?
Things mentioned this episode:
Chore wars - a online role play game where you can track household chores (and save relationships)
Sex At Dawn - check out the TED talk for an abridged version
Louis CK on how great divorce is
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Mar 12, 2016
13: Being Jealous of My Ex
This episode Peter gets his feelings hurt for the first time, SJ reveals why she’s so jealous and the pair do a call out for someone to draw a picture of SJ’s vulva.
This Feels Terrible - great podcast about love and relationships by Erin McGathy
Human Conversation - another podcast with Erin McGathy and Wayne Fedderman
Short doco on Australian paralympian and awesome dude Dylan Alcott
Studies into mice and addiction
Who cares for the mental health of artists?
South Park episode about Britney Spears changing her image (note this came out 3 years before Miley Cyrus performed at the 2013 VMAs with Robin Thicke and broke the internet)
Chris Sacca - big billionaire investor dude
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If you are particularly good at drawing vulvas please get in contact. We need a forensic vulva draftsperson!
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Mar 05, 2016
No Podcast This Week!
Hi Guys! No podcast this week because Peter = sick and SJ = v busy, but next week we will be all around your ear holes again!
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Feb 26, 2016
12: Getting It Right With My Ex
In this episode the pair discuss privilege in creativity, SJ considers an experiment in honesty on social media, and Peter looks at nude photos.
11-30175651.jpg">Awful selfie of SJ
Peter's webcomic (bleventy
iCousins 2.0 (and here’s the videos of Peter talking to an iPad and Peter surprising Gavin for his birthday) and here’s the Brother’s 2.0 Project by the Vlog Brothers.
What is iSnack 2.0?
That quote Peter couldn’t remember: "The secret of success is sincerity. Once you can fake that you've got it made."
I’m Special by Ryan O’Connell
SJ definitely meant hollow, not hallow
Millenial podcast - and damn is it good!
Startup podcast - also very very good!
Gimlet media - podcast company who create Startup, Reply All, Mystery Show and a bunch of other great shows.
Outro this week was brought to you by BK who’s a great artist, you can find all his videos here and follow him on twitter here. Maybe one day SJ will hear his beautiful voice.
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Feb 19, 2016
11: Being Vulnerable With My Ex
This episode the pair talk Peter’s questionable dirty talk, showing your genitals to strangers and how Peter caused SJ’s current creative existential crisis.
Warning: may not be fit for consumption by people who are uncomfortable around tears, if you are a middle-aged male doctor at a bulk-billing clinic, beware!
That fabulous tweet that was so good SJ said it twice
Peter’s dirty talk - which is turns out no one really cared about
Blog post Peter mentions about how no one is really lucky
Multi-potentialite - here’s a TEDTalk by Emilie Wapnick on Why some of us don’t have one true calling (upon looking up this properly SJ realised calling herself a multi-potentialite is perhaps a bit too generous)
The show SJ’s in starts March 16 on ABC TV (here’s the teaser)
Hans Solo Dad Joke Twitter - turns out SJ doesn’t know enough about Star Wars to find it funny
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Feb 11, 2016
10: Behind the Scenes With My Ex
In which we go behind the scenes, try to justify why SJ isn't the weirdest person in her family, and get fucked from the inside.
List of Presidents of the USA (fuck you Peter)
ofthe-world.com/capitals-of-the-world.html">Capital city of every country in the world and their major export (seriously, fuck you Peter)
The real facts that Peter fucked up about Dubai: before the GFC may-become-crane-capital-of-world-again-550182.html">25% of the world’s cranes were in Dubai. Also check out this link to see how Dubai grew from five skyscrapers in 1991.
Mister Money Moustache
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Feb 05, 2016
9: Embezzling Money From My Ex
This episode Peter learns that somewhere a bank-teller thinks he is the worst human of all time.
Things mentioned in this episode:
Sheryl Sandberg - chief officer of Facebook - her book Lean In
Wait But Why - here’s the post on life-partner.html">How To Pick Your Life Partner and procrastinators-procrastinate.html">Why Procrastinators Procrastinate
Shamus Young on why he doesn’t buy a lottery ticket
Amanda Palmer - The Art of Asking
Mailing List!! - sign-up for interesting articles and bonus episodes!
Our new twitter! - follow us for even more interesting articles and general tweetering
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Jan 29, 2016
8: Visiting The UAE With My Ex
Where SJ tells Peter exactly the kind of person he is (the kind that likes Disneyland) and the pair realise how uninformed they are about the United Arab Emirates, Nikola Tesla and Islamic veils.
Things mentioned in this episode:
manage.com/subscribe?u=17d986d32d45528a79585aaa5&id=e80582b3c4">OUR MAILING LIST - Sign up for bonus episodes!
Teen girls should masturbate (the article Peter was talking about)
Dismaland by Banksy
Turns out a skyscraper is any “continuously habitable” (whatever that means) building over 40 storeys high (according to Wikipedia)
This guide to islamic veils is much more informed than us
Turns out the Nikola Tesla elephant story is shrouded in misinformation. Sign up to our mailing list to get the low down on that!
Freakonomics podcast episode about why Norway has so many Tesla cars - seriously this episode is soooo interesting!
Infidelity Test Kit *sadface*
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Jan 22, 2016
7: No One Likes My Ex
In this episode we explain why SJ / Honor Eastly has two names and why nobody likes Peter.
Things mentioned in this episode:
That Sexy Show - comedy show that SJ and Peter made. WARNING: website very out of date
Some details on the Facebook real-name policy
Harmontown - a podcast by Community creator Dan Harmon
Pervocracy - amazing blog about sex, relationships and feminism! Here’s the july-11.html">Cosmocking article Peter references and the article about the change.html">author’s name change.
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Jan 15, 2016
6: Defining Success With My Ex
Where the pair try to decipher what success is and realise they have very different memories of their First. Big. Fight.
This is an extended hour-long "2015 in review" special episode where we go wildly off that topic but do deliver on the length. Enjoy.
Things mentioned in this episode:
Peter's erotica - in particular his stories The Elephant in the Closet, The Kindness of Strangers & Logical Fellatio.
Honor Eastly's mailing list - sign-up to stay in the know.Little Bets - a book about how breakthrough ideas emerge from small discoveries
Honor Eastly's New Years Anti-Resolutions post and her brother's fantastic response.
Peter's games.com/">board game company, business blog and daily Vine series.
Amanda Palmer - not sure how to sum her up. Musician/blogger/community maker who talks really openly about finances and creativity. Her book, The Art of Asking, is fucking great. Austin Kleon - a writer who draws. Just finished his book, Steal Like An Artist. It's disarmingly simple but incredibly powerful.
Patreon - subscription crowd-funding for people who make stuff. Find Peter's here. Find Amanda Palmer's here.
We also jokingly talked about linking to a Neo-Nazi website as a protest against the proliferation of offensive content creators but I don't actually want to link to shit like that, so I won't.
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Jan 08, 2016
5: Christmas Against Humanity With My Ex
In which the pair try to discuss Christmas but end up talking about the benefits of Tumblr porn and the moral issues that arise when playing "Cards Against Humanity".
Things mentioned in this episode:
Shut Up And Sit Down - Game Review website, here’s the Cards Against Humanity review.
Cards Against Humanity - Very controversially popular card game.
Bred By The Billionaire Tentacle - Peter’s best piece of erotica OF ALL TIME (that he read to SJ’s parents before proposing).
experiences-1772-180-books-counting-adventures-kindle-porn-author.html">Peter’s Cracked article about writing porn
The Imposter - really great doco. Don’t watch the trailer, just watch it!
Are You Thinking What I’m Thinking B1? - Australian kids show starring two giant bananas. Until I wrote that sentence, I never quite realised how weird that was.
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Jan 02, 2016
4: Getting Therapy With My Ex
In which SJ has a question about a big decision she has to make by morning and Peter learns a lot about the mental health system.
The cat poster the pair were talking about:
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Dec 26, 2015
3: Mourning Facebook With My Ex
The pair discuss how SJ avoids the timehole that is Facebook, why Peter hates cats and what it’s like to watch something die for the first time.
Things mentioned in this podcast:
Buffer - app for managing social media
Moment - app for monitoring how much you use your phone
Facebook Newsfeed Eradicator - an amazing Chrome plugin to stop Facebook from eating your life
AppSumo - daily deals website for software
SumoMe - tools to grow your web traffic (with good free options)
Goofy - Facebook messenger app for Mac
Telegram - messaging app
Ask.fm - anonymous messaging app
Yik Yak - location-based anonymous messaging app that was featured on SJ’s favourite podcast in this Reply All episode
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Dec 18, 2015
2: Genitalia-Based Medical Procedures With My Ex
In which SJ teaches Peter what a pap smear is and the pair discuss his adult circumcision.
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Dec 11, 2015
1: Introducing My Ex
In which the couple introduce each other, Peter tells SJ she isn't the ex he's loved the most and SJ finds her life purpose.
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Feb 18 | 01:05:33
Being Frank With My Frankie
Oct 19 | 00:52:13
83 - Freelensers With My Ex
Dec 12 | 00:00:42
Christmas Break With My Ex
Dec 06 | 00:47:17
82 - Warming Up With My Ex 2
Nov 28 | 00:20:49
81 - Two Wizards With My Ex
Nov 14 | 00:35:06
80 - Full Circle With My Ex
Nov 09 | 00:49:52
79 - Warming Up With My Ex
Nov 02 | 00:42:56
78 - First Date With My Ex
Oct 24 | 00:57:32
77 - Calling My Ex A Cunt
Oct 17 | 01:05:07
76 - Gaslighting My Ex
Oct 11 | 00:55:34
75 - Consent With My Ex Live
Sep 27 | 00:51:58
74 - Dharmas With My Ex Live
Sep 20 | 00:47:51
73 - Wank Chat With My Ex Live
Sep 12 | 00:36:06
72 - Fashion With My Ex: Live
Sep 06 | 00:43:09
71 - Believing In Money With My Ex
Aug 30 | 00:54:13
70 - Being Honest With My Cousin
Aug 26 | 00:35:23
69: Starving Artist With My Ex
Aug 16 | 00:49:59
68 - My Superstitious Ex
Aug 09 | 00:38:48
67: Korean Skincare With My Ex
Aug 02 | 00:52:14
66: Weird Porn With My Ex
Jul 26 | 01:11:42
65 : The Boyfriend of my Ex (extended edition)
Jul 19 | 00:34:38
64: Talking Dirty to My Ex
Jul 11 | 00:42:17
63 - Food Poisoning With My Ex
Jul 04 | 00:31:59
62: Surprising My Ex
Jun 27 | 00:55:57
61: Wasting Money With My Ex
Jun 20 | 00:37:16
60: Body Image With My Ex
Jun 13 | 00:36:24
59: Dieting With My Ex
Jun 07 | 00:34:38
58 - sothisis.love
May 31 | 00:58:45
57: Panic Attack With My Ex
May 23 | 00:42:54
56 and Three Quarters: Ending a Hiatus With My Ex
Apr 25 | 00:59:05
Starving Artist: Becky Sui Zhen
Apr 10 | 00:59:25
Starving Artist - How I made $87,000 on my first Kickstarter
Mar 15 | 00:29:25
56 and a half: Unexpected Hiatus with My Ex
Feb 19 | 00:40:01
56: Erotic Fanfiction With My Ex
Feb 07 | 00:47:02
55: Managing Money With My Ex
Jan 31 | 00:01:52
We are now LIVE ON KICKSTARTER!
Jan 28 | 00:46:04
54: Getting Dumped With My Ex
Jan 14 | 00:51:37
53: Being Honest With My Mortal Enemy
Jan 05 | 00:41:02
52: A Year With My Ex
Dec 26 | 00:48:26
51: Running A Patreon With My Ex
Dec 17 | 00:52:26
50: The Boyfriend of My Ex
Dec 11 | 00:44:34
49: Surviving a Car Crash With My Ex
Nov 30 | 00:01:01
No episode this week!
Nov 24 | 00:52:56
48: Happy Birthday To My Ex
Nov 17 | 01:05:28
47: Staying Friends With My Ex
Nov 13 | 00:54:13
46: Terrible Pet Ownership With My Ex
Nov 05 | 00:56:32
45: Working From Home With My Ex
Oct 27 | 00:34:11
44: I Want An Apology From My Ex
Oct 22 | 01:00:54
43: Having Kids With My Ex
Oct 12 | 00:47:25
42: Finding My Mountain With My Ex
Oct 07 | 00:49:49
41: Social Enterprise With My Ex
Oct 01 | 00:47:25
40: The Facebook Wall Of My Ex
Sep 24 | 00:56:42
39: Burned Out With My Ex
Sep 16 | 00:53:49
38: PhD In Shame With My Ex
Sep 08 | 00:56:13
37: Back In Time With My Ex
Sep 01 | 00:45:46
36: Voluntary Euthanasia With My Ex
Aug 24 | 00:58:25
35: Proposing To My Ex
Aug 19 | 00:52:31
34: Becoming a Millionaire With My Ex
Aug 12 | 00:50:40
33: Talking To Cats With My Ex
Aug 07 | 00:42:32
Mental Health With My Ex
Jul 31 | 00:58:50
32: Cheating On My Ex
Jul 24 | 00:55:51
31: Poly-splosions With My Ex
Jul 17 | 00:57:32
30: Polyamory With My Ex
Jul 11 | 01:02:58
29: Getting Therapy With My Ex Again
Jul 03 | 00:54:50
28: Making Money With My Ex
Jun 28 | 00:32:28
27: Arguing With My Ex Again
Jun 18 | 00:33:11
26: Arguing With My Ex
Jun 12 | 00:57:18
25: Fucking Up Pronouns With My Ex
Jun 04 | 00:50:35
24: Feeling Unsexy With My Ex
May 28 | 00:43:10
23: Entertaining Flies With My Ex
May 22 | 00:45:37
22: Pouring Fucks Into My Ex
May 14 | 00:38:23
21: Emotional Support From My Ex
May 09 | 00:49:54
20: Naked Photos Of My Ex
Apr 30 | 01:01:17
19: Collecting Tears With My Ex
Apr 22 | 00:49:08
18: Life On The Streets With My Ex
Apr 18 | 00:50:57
17: How I Met My Ex
Apr 08 | 00:46:20
16: Having Opinions With My Ex
Apr 02 | 00:04:18
No Podcast This Week!
Mar 26 | 00:44:54
15: Shit’s Complicated With My Ex
Mar 20 | 00:30:44
14: Having A Kid With My Ex
Mar 12 | 00:39:02
13: Being Jealous of My Ex
Mar 05 | 00:01:05
No Podcast This Week!
Feb 26 | 00:24:13
12: Getting It Right With My Ex
Feb 19 | 00:31:10
11: Being Vulnerable With My Ex
Feb 11 | 00:26:03
10: Behind the Scenes With My Ex
Feb 05 | 00:28:02
9: Embezzling Money From My Ex
Jan 29 | 00:28:40
8: Visiting The UAE With My Ex
Jan 22 | 00:27:46
7: No One Likes My Ex
Jan 15 | 01:00:26
6: Defining Success With My Ex
Jan 08 | 00:35:58
5: Christmas Against Humanity With My Ex
Jan 02 | 00:37:52
4: Getting Therapy With My Ex
Dec 26 | 00:32:52
3: Mourning Facebook With My Ex
Dec 18 | 00:31:51
2: Genitalia-Based Medical Procedures With My Ex
Dec 11 | 00:32:43
1: Introducing My Ex
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