Can you believe it's been TWO YEARS since we started this show, with a whopping 53 episodes?! In honor of our two year anniversary, and this much needed break (check our social media announcement for more on that), we will continue our bi-weekly Tuesday production schedule by replaying some of our former episodes. We hope to continue engaging new fans. And for our current fans? Maybe you'll hear something different and more relevant in our intellectual/shady banter. For this week's show, please enjoy a radio replay of HBIC's inaugural episode... Episode 1: Defining What We're Meant To Do.

Have you ever stared at a coworker of yours, thinking “how the hell have you not been fired yet?” Shimina and Paul discuss their experiences and strategies on how to handle employees who are holding back the growth of oneself and/or the organization. Sometimes these folks are fully aware of the “bad Koolaid” they are making, while others do not realize how much they are force feeding it down everyone’s throats. On the flip side, there are times you may feel seldom in your opinion on another’s poor performance. Your co-hosts discuss the caveats and multiple perspectives on this common issue in the workplace. No questions or games this week, we skip right to our bosses and bitches of the week. Topics include: Janet Jackson, Janelle Monae, Outside Lands, Aretha Franklin, Serena Williams, Anita Baker (tickets), OTRII (tickets). Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Superstitions.... where do they come from? Paul & Shimina do a deep dive into the topic with a help from this article in Essence Magazine: https://www.essence.com/holidays/black-history-month/black-superstitions-traditions-origins/ Note: We experienced technical difficulties with this week’s episode. So the first 10ish minutes of Water Cooler Talk is missing. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Ooooweee! Paul & Shimina have been through it! But in a good way, actually. Your co-hosts are in the thick of it… the crossroads at which one questions their personal decisions and life’s actions, but strangely enough, life is questioning those same decisions and actions for us. No topic for this one… we just ride the wave and freestyle from our hearts. Also, we give shout outs to San Francisco Mayor London Breed, Congresswoman Maxine Waters, comedian Michelle Buteau, and Kay Customz’s racially inclusive dolls. How to Let Go of the Need for Approval | Psychology Today - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-emotional-meter/201807/how-let-go-the-need-approval Kay Customz Creates Dolls with Vitiligo - http://www.thebuddy.me/artist-creates-dolls-vitiligo-kids-rare-skin-condition/ “Gourmanade” Incident with SFPD - http://www.ktvu.com/news/sfpd-gourmanade-incident-police-body-cam-video-released Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

It’s been a while, but we’re also pressed for time. So we are calling a brief stand up meeting to order! This week’s topic is on life transitions---when do you know it’s the right time to move on to the next opportunity, or event? And more importantly what internal or external resources are necessary to make these transitions? Are there certain transitions to avoid or not avoid? Your co-hosts navigate these questions and more in this week’s SUP. You can read more by referring to, “8 Tips for Navigating Life’s Transition,” on the Huffington Post (https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5006540). Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Psyche! Beyonce and Jay-Z are not this week’s guests on HBIC (I know, it’s devastating, but they’re on tour right now), but we are sharing the mic with our friend, colleague, and renaissance woman, Maiya Lanae! Paul could not help but think how appropriately aligned the content of The Carters’ debut joint project, “Everything is the Love,” was in comparison to the overarching themes of the HBIC podcast---career, life, and success. Maiya joins your co-hosts in dissecting the 9-track album, including the music video for “Apesh*t.” Maiya is a health educator by day, and a DJ by night. You can catch her as DJ Mai Girl two Fridays a month at KISS, her residency at 515 Kitchen and Cocktails in Santa Cruz, or at various events in and around the Bay Area. Look out for the launch of her podcast, The Hot Mess Health Show, in the fall. She joined the Beyhive in 1997, a member of one of the first cohorts. Oprah is RICH, BITCH! - https://moneyish.com/upgrade/oprah-just-became-the-first-black-woman-on-the-worlds-500-richest-people-list/ Blue Ivy Knows What’s Appropriate to Watch - https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/blue-ivy-cant-watch-video-of-beyonc%C3%A9-and-jay-z-in-bed-during-concert_us_5b2cbc1be4b0040e2741b939 BBC Africa features child, “DJ Swift” - https://www.bbc.com/news/av/world-africa-44574440/meet-the-10-year-old-dj-taking-ghana-by-storm Follow Maiya Lanae on Facebook (@djmaigirl) and Instagram (thatsmaigirl) Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul & Shimina share hosting duties with Karyne Levy! Karyne has 18 years of professional experience in journalism, focusing on content writing/editing/designing for companies such as CNET, NerdWallet, and Scribd. She also hosts a podcast with her wife, called The Gayest Show on Birth, where they share their IVF journey in real-time, as they await their first born child (details below). Karyne joins Paul and Shimina in discussing money and finances. They begin by discussing the sensitivities around money from a personal, cultural, and societal perspective. Comparisons are also drawn between how money is valued and associated with success across different countries and nationalities. The bosses conclude the episode by sharing tips, tricks, and resources on how to better manage daily, short-term, and long-term finances. Starbucks CEO Steps Down, A Black Executive Steps Up - https://michaelbaisden.com/starbucks-ceo-steps-down-a-black-executive-steps-up/ White Manager Pleads Guilty to Forcing Black Cook to Work for Years Without Pay - restaurant-manager-enslaved-black-employee.html">https://mobile.nytimes.com/2018/06/06/us/white-restaurant-manager-enslaved-black-employee.html Follow Karyne Levy on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/karyne.levy), Instagram (@karynelevy), and Twitter (@karynelevy). Her podcast, Gayest Show On Birth, can be found at https://www.gayestshowonbirth.com/ or on their social media: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/gayestshowonbirth), Instagram (@gayestshowonbirth), and Twitter (@showonbirth). Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

In this week’s episode, we invite a guest to the show… Adanta Ahanonu! Adanta is a young professional in both the tech industry and non-profit sector, with approx. 10 years of experience in management, leadership, and program development. Adanta recently moved to the Bay Area to launch and direct a new branch for her organization, Year Up, which is 1 of 26 sites. After only being in the Bay for a year, Adanta was recently named by “Women of Silicon Valley”--- an initiative that seeks to bridge the gender gap in the tech industry. The link to Adanta’s interview, as well as her social media links, can be found below. 10 Questions with Adanta Ahanonu - https://medium.com/women-of-silicon-valley/10-questions-with-adanta-ahanonu-8f96b67af84f Adanta’s LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/samalieadantaahanonu/ Adanta’s Twitter - @Adanta Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Considering the recent trending news regarding people calling the police on black people, Paul and Shimina delve into a discussion on implicit bias. What are the causes behind snap judgements? How do you, as an employee, protect and defend yourself from snap judgements in the workplace? And what are solutions and methods to creating a culture that fosters accountability based on one’s performance and actions, rather than an assumed behavior? Your co-hosts take a stab at these questions by speaking from their lived experiences. Countess Luann’s Arrest Video - http://www.tmz.com/2018/04/29/luann-de-lesseps-rhony-arrest-video-drunken-rampage-death-threat-cop/ Downside to Positive Stereotypes - https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2018/02/17/586181350/strong-black-woman-smart-asian-man-the-downside-to-positive-stereotypes?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_content=20180217 Native Students Just Trying to go to School - us-college-tour-native-americans.html">https://www.nytimes.com/aponline/2018/05/03/us/ap-us-college-tour-native-americans.html Caren gets Angry (AWW) - https://www.facebook.com/WokeFolks/videos/1134293523377662/ Some People Are Mad Because Issa Rae’s 3-Year-Old Book Says Black Women and Asian Men Should Date Each Other - https://thegrapevine.theroot.com/some-people-are-mad-at-a-3-year-old-passage-in-issa-rae-1825648702 My House on Viceland - https://www.viceland.com/en_us/show/my-house Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Emails… can’t live with ‘em, and can’t live without ‘em! Shimina references an article that talks about the benefits of setting parameters around sending/responding to emails in an office culture. What would happen in your office if everyone stopped sending emails after hours? Paul and Shimina discuss their qualms around email culture, and new approaches they have taken to manage work flows created by emails; they even share some of their pet peeves. Also this week, your co-hosts comment on Beychella, Janelle Monae, Cardi B, YouTube campus shooting, the men arrested at the Philadelphia Starbucks, Podcaster Aminatou Sow, Gaby Dunn, and Bill Cosby. What Happened When the Dean’s Office Stopped Sending Emails After-Hours - https://www.chronicle.com/article/What-Happened-When-the/243082 Gmail’s New Design - https://www.theverge.com/2018/4/12/17227974/google-gmail-design-features-update-2018-redesign Men arrested at Philadelphia Starbucks - https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2018/04/19/603917872/they-can-t-be-here-for-us-men-arrested-at-philadelphia-starbucks-speak-out Aminatou Sow - https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/4/20/17246784/book-publishing-fact-checking-sally-kohn-aminatou-sow-controversy Gaby Dunn: Bad with Money - https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/panoply/bad-with-money/e/54054043 Bill Cosby Convicted of Sexual Assault - https://www.colorlines.com/articles/6-black-feminists-speak-out-about-cosby-sexual-assault-conviction Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul brings up the topic of people trusting or not trusting one for their word, and the layers behind how we build trust with an individual. Where does that trust come from? Why does one person’s opinion have more weight than another’s? And of course, how is someone’s word perceived simply based on their position at work, their race, gender, or sexuality? Your co-hosts analyze this phenomena and pull examples from their professional and personal worlds. Columbia University Financial Aid aid-chief-columbia-teachers-college-kickbacks.html">https://www.nytimes.com/2018/01/11/nyregion/former-aid-chief-columbia-teachers-college-kickbacks.html Roxanne Gay article on Rosanne Barr - reboot-trump.html">https://mobile.nytimes.com/2018/03/29/opinion/roseanne-reboot-trump.html Krave Spring Break over Dinah Shore - https://intomore.com/culture/Why-The-Worlds-Biggest-Lesbian-Party-Is-Trying-To-Rebrand-Itself-As-A-Womens-Music-Festival/89654b7b90a64f30 Howard University Financial Aid Debacle - http://abc7news.com/education/protesting-students-stage-sit-in-take-over-university-building/3286794/ Laura Ingraham gets Served - https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/arts-and-entertainment/wp/2018/03/31/laura-ingraham-takes-an-easter-break-amid-david-hogg-controversy-and-advertiser-revolt/?utm_term=.aa9cb01f1603 Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina continue their discussion on the book, “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” by Don Miguel Ruiz. The last two agreements are, (3) Don’t make assumptions; and (4) Always do your best. In addition, your co-hosts talk Sterling K. Brown, Betsy Devos, explosions in Texas, and the HBO show, “Here and Now.” Betsy Devos Fucks Up - https://www.cnn.com/2018/03/12/politics/besty-devos-interview-analysis/index.html Austin Package Explosions - https://apple.news/AXvGXCwlPRT21hUYkVdxWkw Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina reflect on Marvel’s Black Panther movie! They also discuss the Scandal-How to Get Away with Murder crossover, life after retirement, and some bullshit going on in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. How to Get Away with Scandal - http://variety.com/2018/tv/news/scandal-how-to-get-away-with-murder-crossover-ratings-1202715953/ Life After Retirement - https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/retirement/this-is-what-life-without-retirement-savings-looks-like/ar-BBJt2jp?ocid=ob-fb-enus-280 Baton Rouge Bullshit - 1c03-11e8-ba78-839ee2f97bea.amp.html?__twitter_impression=true">http://www.theadvocate.com/baton_rouge/news/crime_police/article_7ee096a6-1c03-11e8-ba78-839ee2f97bea.amp.html?__twitter_impression=true Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod), and Instagram (@headbosspodcast). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort)

This week, Shimina brings up a book called, “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” by Don Miguel Ruiz. In Part 1 of this two-part series, we take an indepth look at the first two agreements: (1) Being impeccable with your word, and (2) Don’t take anything personally. Also this week, Paul & Shimina discuss “fake news” on the Black Panther movie, therapy for black girls, the Assassination of Versace tv series, and Queer Eye on Netflix! Fake News regarding Black Panther movie - https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/fake-stories-black-panther-attack-hoax_us_5a8857ebe4b05c2bcacb6d41 Dr. Joy Bradford: Therapy for Black Girls - https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

First off, Happy Black History Month. While they celebrate all things black and black-ish, Shimina and Paul take the time to explain things they are not here for any longer. It’s 2018, and it’s time to moooooove forward! Rose McGowan interviews with ABC’s Juju Chang http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/rose-mcgowan-alyssa-milano-meryl-streep-thoughts-hollywood/story?id=52751291 Rose McGowan on RuPaul’s What’s the Tee http://www.rupaulpodcast.com/episodes/2017/7/23/episode-107-rose-mcgowan 45 Ignores Congress On Russian Sanctions https://www.seattletimes.com/nation-world/trumps-stance-on-russia-sanctions-angers-both-congress-and-moscow/ Baltimore Police is Trippin’ https://www.theroot.com/baltimore-cops-kept-toy-guns-to-plant-just-in-case-they-1822546984 Grey's Anatomy http://m.eonline.com/news/911295/grey-s-anatomy-s-chandra-wilson-was-never-in-fear-for-bailey-s-survival-i-live-too-much-in-denial Tiffany Haddish On Drunk History http://ew.com/tv/2018/01/24/tiffany-haddish-drunk-history-episode/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain) Tiffany Haddish On Drunk History http://ew.com/tv/2018/01/24/tiffany-haddish-drunk-history-episode/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina are bosses who LOVE to travel. Take a listen, as your co-hosts share where they travel, their experiences, and various tips and tricks. Ellen Pompeo, TV’s highest paid woman https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/ellen-pompeo-tvs-20-million-woman-reveals-her-behind-scenes-fight-what-i-deserve-1074978 2018 Oscar Nominations http://variety.com/2018/film/news/list-2018-oscar-nominations-1202668757/ Trans Actor in Grey's Anatomy https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/greys-anatomy-transgender-storyline-explained-alex-blue-davis-interview-1075535 Bitch to Bank of America https://www.wsj.com/amp/articles/bankofamerica-no-more-free-checking-for-customers-with-low-balances-1516625715?mod=e2tw&__twitter_impression=true Niecy Nash SAG Awards nash-calls-dibs-on-reading-sterling-k-browns-sag-win.html">http://www.vulture.com/2018/01/niecy-nash-calls-dibs-on-reading-sterling-k-browns-sag-win.html Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina discuss the inevitable toxicity that seeps into office/work environments. How does one respond to toxic actions in the workplace? And what methods can one use to preserve themselves in a toxic wasteland? Your co-hosts share their experiences and opinions. Mary J. Blige - Hollywood Walk of Fame - j-blige-honored-with-star-on-hollywood-walk-of-fame.html">https://www.bet.com/music/2018/01/05/mary-j-blige-honored-with-star-on-hollywood-walk-of-fame.html Shonda Rhimes: How to Get Away with Scandal - https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2018/jan/04/how-to-get-away-with-murder-scandal-crossover-tv Fire and Fury - https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2018/01/05/opinions/much-of-wolffs-trump-book-rings-true-opinion-dantonio/index.html?__twitter_impression=true Logan Paul disrespect to Japan - http://m.eonline.com/news/904025/logan-paul-s-whole-trip-to-japan-was-pretty-disrespectful Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina close out the year by focusing on what’s ahead. Let’s be honest… despite having some well-deserved, celebratory moments and achievements, 2017 still gave us a run for our money. Your co-hosts look forward, and begin paving their vision for the year ahead. Paul and Shimina play more reindeer games by picking only ONE celebrity to go or stay. The episode closes out with the usual boss ass bitches, and bitch ass bosses of the week. Thanks for sticking with us or even for just joining us. Have a happy holidays and a happy new year! We'll be back on January 8. 50 Tough Questions You Never Ask Yourself, But Should - tough-questions-you-never-ask-yourself-but-should.html">https://www.inc.com/marla-tabaka/50-tough-questions-you-never-ask-yourself-but-should.html 2018 Grammy Nominations - http://variety.com/2017/music/news/2018-grammy-nominations-list-nominees-1202623881/ 2018 Golden Globe Nominations - http://variety.com/2017/film/news/golden-globe-nominations-2018-nominees-full-list-1202634435/ Papa John's CEO Steps Down Following Controversial Remarks On NFL - https://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2017/12/22/572779230/papa-johns-ceo-steps-down-following-controversial-remarks-on-nfl?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_content=2051 News Anchor Expertly Claps Back At Viewer Who Called Her N****r - https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5a280a68e4b044d1672679cf Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul has been intrigued by scientology, specifically through Leah Remini’s A&E show and the HBO documentary, “Going Clear.” It is said that people fall into scientology due to their desire to be a better person; however, scientology seems to take the concept of “self help” or self improvement to a detrimental level. Paul and Shimina explore the concept of “self help.” Why do we have it? Why do we need it? And does self-help ever go too far? When self-improvement is self-destruction: The 4 warning signs he-danielle-laporte-20170527-story.html">http://www.latimes.com/health/la-he-danielle-laporte-20170527-story.html Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

In honor of Thanksgiving, Paul and Shimina take a trip down memory lane and share their unique school experiences. Serena Williams and Alexis Ohanian Get Married https://www.essence.com/news/serena-williams-and-alexis-ohanian-marry-wedding African Americans Don’t Sleep as Well as Whites, an inequality stretching back to slavery http://www.latimes.com/opinion/op-ed/la-oe-reiss-race-sleep-gap-20170423-story,amp.html Former Google Engineer Claims That The Google CEO Once Mistook Her For An Administrative Assistant - https://blavity.com/erica-joy-baker-former-google-engineer-racism-gender-bias-at-company?utm_content=buffer2d8c8&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul & Shimina take a shallow dive into respectability politics--a social phenomena that allows people to approve or disapprove the actions or behaviors of a member within a community based on personal biases or anticipated negative reactions from society to said behaviors. How does respectability politics play out at work and in your personal life? Your co-hosts share their experiences. Respectability Politics - https://mediadiversified.org/2015/01/08/what-are-respectability-politics-and-why-do-we-subscribe-to-them/ http://bigthink.com/alicia-wallace/everyday-respectability-politics https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/11/respectability-politics-black-women/ Betsy Devos Stays Unprepared - https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2017/11/01/betsy-devos-secretary-education-profile-2017-215768 Nasty Former Univ of Hartford Girl - http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-41839501 Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Do things ever get too much in life, to the point where you numb your emotions to get through the day? Paul & Shimina talk about the idea of numbing and its effects on the self and our relationship with others--be it at work or in our personal lives. Your co-hosts also play a fun game called, “Dinner, Drinks, Bar fight!” Listen, and play along with us! Rose McGowan Tries It https://blavity.com/rose-mcgowan-knows-she-messed-up-n-word-comparison-apologizes-for-stupidity-lapse?utm_content=bufferac9ab&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer Lupita Nyongo tells the truth about Harvey Weinstein https://www.google.com/amp/deadline.com/2017/10/harvey-weinstein-responds-lupita-nyongo-sexual-harassment-op-ed-1202192376/amp/ Why we still teaching about Pilgrims? slavery-recreation-causes-school-district-apology.html">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4998398/Apparent-slavery-recreation-causes-school-district-apology.html Shonda Rhimes: 3rd black woman inducted into TV Hall of Fame https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2017/10/shonda-rhimes-tv-academy-hall-of-fame-inductee-list Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Stay in your lane… stop swerving! Have you encountered experiences in your professional and personal life, when people take the liberty to swerve in your lane? Shimina and Paul define this concept in their lives, provide examples, and potential solutions on how to respond to habitual lane crossers. Your co-hosts also play a fun game called, “For the Culture.” Listen, and play along with us! Little Richard Shenanigans http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/10/07/little-richard-says-hes-no-longer-gay-says-it-is-unnatural/ White Supremacy in Charlottesville...Again http://www.theroot.com/richard-spencer-and-his-tiki-torch-bitches-are-back-me-1819259689 U.S. Mass Shootings https://www.theroot.com/this-is-only-the-deadliest-shooting-in-u-s-history-bec-1819112938?utm_medium=sharefromsite&utm_source=The_Root_twitter Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Do you ever feel limited by the English language? Are you able to find the words that exactly define how you feel? Human emotions and experiences are expansive, and they sometimes take more than one English word to explain such emotions. Research shows that defining our feelings can help us better regulate our emotions and weaken negative emotions, but it’s not always easy to find the right word. Paul shares a list of emotions you may have experienced but couldn’t put into words. https://advice.shinetext.com/articles/7-words-for-emotions-youve-probably-experienced-but-never-knew/ Aaron Hernandez and CTE Story https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/patriots/2017/09/21/aaron-hernandez-cte-suicide-murder-new-england-patriots/690651001/ Piers Morgan's Obsession with the N-Word http://mashable.com/2017/09/21/piers-morgan-tweet-sorority-singing-kanye-west-lyrics/#fyExINzv1iqJ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul & Shimina celebrate their one-year anniversary (30 episodes) since starting Head Boss In Charge. Celebrate, laugh, and reflect as they honor today’s episode by discussing key pop culture moments since the year 2000, but in the context of where they were in their lives, how they responded, and how those moments personally influenced them, and the world today. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

This week Paul and Shimina discuss making mistakes at work, and how we recover from them. Your co-hosts explore mistakes in the context of their professional careers--both clerical and political--both big and small. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

People of color often get mislabeled as being intimidating. What does that even mean? Where does that come from? Paul and Shimina explore how intimidation precipitates in the workplace. They also discuss how certain traits may appear as intimidating, when more often than not, these traits are considered positive attributes in a leader. The following article is referenced in today’s episode: https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/2925/13-signs-you-have-a-strong-personality-that-might-scare-some-people/ Lil Duval on The Breakfast Club - https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2017/07/31/i-dont-care-she-dying-comedian-lil-duval-says-he-would-kill-a-sexual-partner-if-he-learned-she-was-transgender/?utm_term=.fe37a16bdcc4 AirBnb’s Response to protests and violence in Charlottesville, VA http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/ahead-far-right-wing-rally-virginia-airbnb-cancels-accounts-n790716 Uber's New Exec Bozoma Saint John on Sexism, Embracing Fear, and Bringing Her 'Whole Self' to Work - https://www.glamour.com/story/bozoma-saint-john-uber-chief-brand-officer Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

“Fear of missing out” (aka FOMO): the pressure to participate in all events, consume all types of media, or be in proximity of all experiences in order to feel a sense of fulfillment. This feeling is real! Paul and Shimina discuss the many shapes of FOMO and analyze how it may affect both the professional and personal life. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Therapy is often a taboo topic within the black community and various other racial groups. However, we feel that people are gradually feeling more comfortable in going to therapy and sharing their experiences. Paul and Shimina discuss the various perceptions of therapy, as well as obstacles, realizations, and the benefits. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

This week Paul and Shimina provide words of wisdom to their “colleagues” based on personal situations and experiences that are either recurring or one-offs throughout their professional lives. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Stand-up meeting time! As managers, Shimina & Paul interview people all the time. As it’s interview season, your co-hosts share their professional opinions on interview etiquette--from the standpoint of both the candidate and the employer.

Shimina explores the various factors that hold us back from making decisions or moves in our life that actually may be for the better. Factors include fear, lack of planning, making ends meet, criticism, confidence, and social constructs such as race and sexuality. Bill Maher apologizes on 'Real Time' over using racial slur: 'I did a bad thing' - http://money.cnn.com/2017/06/09/media/bill-maher-real-time-comments-racial-slur/index.html Turns out, the joke was on Kathy Griffin - http://www.miamiherald.com/opinion/opn-columns-blogs/carl-hiaasen/article155412344.html 18 Revelations From Comey's Senate Testimony About Trump And Russia - https://www.buzzfeed.com/davidmack/james-comey-statement-senate?utm_term=.ri3byd7NN5#.naRNPZAgg4 A timeline of the Trump-Comey saga - https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/06/10/politics/trump-comey-testimony-timeline-what-we-know/index.html Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul brings Shimina into a fun conversation regarding what makes us hot and bothered. This week, you’ll learn some common and maybe not-so-common things that are on our list of pet peeves--from interaction with society, to social media, airport culture, dating, and public transportation. Robert Caro Wonders What New York Is Going To Become - http://gothamist.com/2016/02/17/robert_caro_author_interview.php My Family's Slave - https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/06/lolas-story/524490/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Shimina brings up the topic of “emotional tax”--the weight of obligation that black people, and other minority groups, carry in order to be successful in the workplace. This mindset and level of consciousness is not a choice, but rather a way of living that other folks do not have to worry about. This weight sometimes translates into poor mental, emotional, and physical health. Paul & Shimina dive deep and share their personal stories related to this research. Emotional Tax: How Black Women and Men Pay More at Work and How Leaders Can Take Action - http://www.catalyst.org/system/files/emotional_tax_how_black_women_and_men_pay_more.pdf ACLU Issues Texas ‘Travel Advisory’ - http://thehill.com/homenews/state-watch/332579-aclu-issues-texas-travel-advisory Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

TLC said it first… what about your friends? Paul & Shimina kick back and talk about friendship etiquette or rather “friendiquette.” They even reflect on their own attributes, both strengths and weaknesses, as it relates to their personal roles in friendships or group environments. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

What’s Up With Millennials? This week, Paul & Shimina reflect on an interview with Simon Sinek (@simonsinek), where he gives us a fascinating view on Millennials in the workplace. Tangentially related topics include the generational divide, parenting, instant gratification, depression, technology, and empathy. Simon Sinek on Millennials in the Workplace - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hER0Qp6QJNU Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

How is professionalism defined in your industry? Paul & Shimina discuss professionalism and office culture. They also share their frank opinions on what’s considered unprofessional in the workplace. White man kills black man NYC - http://nbcnews.to/2okYYzh Democrats introduce MARALAGO Act - http://thehill.com/blogs/floor-action/senate/325651-dems-introduce-bill-to-publish-mar-a-lago-white-house-visitor-logs Zimbabwe Therapy Grannies - https://www.facebook.com/aljazeera/videos/10155325277218690/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

This week Paul and Shimina discuss when to walk away from situations or experiences that need to end. One of the most powerful things we own as human beings is the power of choice. Your co-hosts even take some time to convey experiences that they need to walk away from currently. Checkout Tami Roman’s @OfficialBonnetChronicles Instagram rant on Ben Carson - https://www.instagram.com/p/BRWT6f9jru9/ “Georgia couple gets prison for racist threats at child's birthday party” - http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/27/us/georgia-couple-confederate-flags-threats/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Our friend and head boss, Dynasti Hunt, takes the mic to share aspects of her career and advice as a Vice President of Human Resources. You can follow Dynasti on Twitter (@dynasti.hunt) and LinkedIn (linkedin.com/in/dynastihunt/). Also, check out her new leadership blog barraisedleaders.com, and get more resume building tips from her other website resumeslay.com. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina do something different this week! For the first time, we invite a guest to our show. Our colleague and head boss, Rosalind Cohen-Baruch, joins us to discuss her versatile career and transition from the non-profit education sector to the private sector, as a human resources professional. You can follow her on Twitter (@RosalindCB) and LinkedIn (linkedin.com/in/rosalindbaruch). Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Shimina introduces us to Jim Collin’s book, “Good to Great.” We dive deep into one of the book’s powerful metaphors about being on the right bus, as it relates to one’s professional career path. This is one of our favorite episodes to date! Checkout the book, “Good to Great” by Jim Collins - http://www.jimcollins.com/books.html Listen to the music of Black Violin! - http://blackviolin.net (Follow them on Twitter @BlackViolin) Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

An impromptu stand-up meeting is an order! Have you seen “Hidden Figures” starring Teraji P. Henson, Octavia Spencer, and Janelle Monae? If not, then you should. If you have, then watch it again! This fantastic, Golden Globe-winning, and Oscar-nominated film has been taking over social media by storm! Because this movie praises the achievements of 3 black women in a segregated workplace, Paul and Shimina had to take the time to analyze the prevalent themes in the film, and compare it to what we still experience in 2017 today.

A topic that’s been discussed many times, but ever-evolving based on current social trends and standards: Code switching is an act and phenomenon that manifests itself in the workplace, family interactions, and friend groups. Paul & Shimina take a stab at the topic as it relates to their personal experiences. Check out our friends at Minority Korner, a fun podcast that talks about pop culture, race, gender, and the LGBTQ community... with a twist of sweet and tart. http://minoritykorner.libsyn.com/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina ring in the new year by launching into a discussion on goal-setting. In this episode, the HBIC duo talks about establishing and evaluating their goals in and out of the workplace. Paul and Shimina also share their process of reflection in creating their goals, and why it’s important for them to do so periodically. On a different note, the end of 2016 left a sour taste in our mouths for many reasons. As a result, we had a plethora of “Bitch Ass Bosses” to call out at the end of the episode. Check out this NPR-sponsored podcast, “Hidden Brain,” hosted by Shankar Vedantam: http://www.npr.org/podcasts/510308/hidden-brain Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

As we are in the midsts of the holiday season, Paul & Shimina give a homage to their moms! Although we are our own people and make our own decisions, do we inevitably pick up our parents' personalities, traits, and habits? These bosses take a look at how their parents' behaviors and mentalities take form in their everyday lives. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Time for another stand-up meeting! When it comes to online conversations, it’s really easy for people to talk the talk, but not walk the walk. Paul & Shimina take a minute to discuss the pros and cons of using social media for meaningful (or unmeaningful) conversations, especially within a socially political context. More importantly, they give their two cents on how to best engage with an online audience.

Paul & Shimina share their views on human flaws. Flaws are the very things we focus on to improve ourselves, but can we get rid of all of them? Are all flaws bad? Paul & Shimina also explore some of their personal flaws. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Shimina has more to say on Cheeto Elect’s win. Paul has no time for basicness (aka mediocrity). We find that we constantly have to move through a work and social environment where mediocrity is not an option, in order to be successful and debunk stereotypes associated with our multiple identities. It’s unfortunate that we live in a world where people can still catapult their careers based on a mediocre repertoire. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

A lot of news has been going on in the past week after the announcement of the next POTUS. We have too much to get off our chests and it couldn’t wait for the next episode. So it’s time for a stand-up meeting (a SUP meeting)...

Paul and Shimina take an in-depth look at the pros and cons to putting ourselves first in an environment that constantly pressures us to challenge that priority. Are we truly selfish when putting ourselves first, or are we actually benefiting those around us when we put our needs before others? #AirbnbWhileBlack: How Hidden Bias Shapes The Sharing Economy https://goo.gl/fqUBAs Airbnb removes North Carolina host after he canceled black woman's room request and told her 'I hate n----rs:’ https://goo.gl/s3IsXS Airbnb Report on Discrimination & Inclusion: Work-to-Fight-Discrimination-and-Build-Inclusion.pdf">http://blog.airbnb.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/REPORT_Airbnbs-Work-to-Fight-Discrimination-and-Build-Inclusion.pdf Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul brings up the importance of voting and civic duty, and lightens the mood with a fun game. Shimina shares her observations and views on showing emotion in a professional work setting, as well as in some social situations. Have we reached a point in American culture when showing emotion is more acceptable? At the end of the day we’re only human, and in our opinion, we’re most successful when we show up as our true self. Voter Guide: San Francisco Leauge of Pissed off Voters: http://www.theleaguesf.org/voter_guides The Quickest Nonpartisan Voter Guide You’ll Find - Get Educated About California’s State Propositions: https://ballot.fyi Follow Luvvie Ajayi on Twitter (twitter.com/luvvie) and her website http://awesomelyluvvie.com. Her new book, “I’m Judging You,” is out in stores now. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Fake it til you make it? In our reality, no one knows everything. Paul & Shimina discuss the origins of that concept and how it manifests itself in work, relationships, and other areas of life. Is faking it til you make it a way of deception or a tool of confidence to get you to your end goal? Solange Shares Her Inspirations For A Seat At The Table: http://www.stereogum.com/featured/solange-shares-her-inspirations-for-a-seat-at-the-table/ Issa Rae’s new hit HBO show, “Insecure,” premieres on October 9: https://youtu.be/MubTJyWukp8 Check out Myleik Teele’s podcast, “MyTaughtYou”: podcast.htm">http://www.mytaughtyou.com/20/my-podcast.htm Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul lightens up a stressful week by showing you how to throw “professional shade” in the workplace. Shimina offers her two cents on the concept behind managing up and all other directions within an organization, including managing oneself. Also, Paul and Shimina explore how dynamics change between an employee and a supervisor when social identities, such as gender and race, are considered. 10 Lowkey-Shady Ways To Respond To Fucked Up Work Emails AND Still Keep Your Job: http://www.thisisyourconscience.com/2015/04/10-lowkey-shady-ways-to-respond-to-fucked-up-work-emails-and-still-keep-your-job/#sthash.r3BurPOX.dpuf Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

The inaugural episode of Head Boss In Charge (H.B.I.C) is here! Shimina takes an in-depth look at if she truly enjoys the day-to-day responsibilities of her job, and if it's sustainable for her personal/professional life. Paul offers his advice on when you know it's time to leave your job. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "Boss' Life" by Snoop Dogg (feat. Akon) "Bo$$" by Fifth Harmony "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)