What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood

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What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhoodactive

Publisher |: Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson

Media Type |: audio

Podknife tags |: Comedy,; Interview,; Parenting,; Personal Journals

Categories Via RSS |: Comedy,; Kids & Family,; Parenting

When you're a parent, every day brings a "fresh hell" to deal with. In other words, there's always something. Think of us as your funny mom friends who are here to remind you: you're not alone, and it won't always be this hard.
We're Amy and Margaret, both busy moms of three kids, but with completely different parenting styles. Margaret is a laid-back to the max; Amy never met a spreadsheet or an organizational system she didn't like.
In each episode of "What Fresh Hell" we offer lots of laughs, but also practical advice, parenting strategies, and tips to empower you in your role as a mom. We explore self-help techniques, as well as ways to prioritize your own needs, combat stress, and despite the invisible workload we all deal with, find joy amidst the chaos of motherhood.
If you've ever wondered "why is my kid..." then one of us has probably been there, and we're here to tell you what we've learned along the way.
We unpack the behaviors and developmental stages of toddlers, tweens, and teenagers, providing insights into their actions and equipping you with effective parenting strategies.
We offer our best parenting tips and skills we've learned. We debate the techniques and studies that are everywhere for parents these days, and get to the bottom of what works best to raise happy, healthy, fairly well-behaved kids, while fostering a positive parent-child relationship.
If you're the default parent in your household, whether you're a busy mom juggling multiple pickups and dropoffs, or a first-time parent seeking guidance, this podcast is your trusted resource. Join our community of supportive mom friends laughing in the face of motherhood!
whatfreshhellpodcast.com

People |: Margaret Ables (@margaretmables),; Amy Wilson (@amywlsn)
Country Of Origin |: USA
Produced In |: NY
Related Hashtags |: #freshtake,; #parenting,; #toddlerpurgatory,; #whatfreshhellcast
Frequency |: Daily
Explicit |: No

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855 Available Episodes (855 Total) / Average duration: 00:34:41

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855 Available Episodes (855 Total)Average duration: 00:34:41

Oct 04, 2024

00:48:04

We're so glad to be talking to Kendra Adachi again this week. Kendra is the host of the Lazy Genius Podcast and the two-time New York Times bestselling author of The Lazy Genius Way and The Lazy Genius Kitchen. In this interview, we discuss what Kendra calls "compassionate time management" and her newest book, The PLAN: Manage Your Time Like a Lazy Genius.

Kendra shares insights on productivity, pivoting in the face of unexpected life events, and the pitfalls of traditional time management. "The Plan" emphasizes a more holistic and compassionate approach geared towards women's realities. Its key principles include starting from where you are, accessing softness, and making small adjustments. We are so here for it!

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Oct 02, 2024

00:45:36

Amy's book Happy to Help: Adventures of a People Pleaser is coming in January 2025. Pre-order your copy!

Parenting is a series of everyday battles. But which ones are truly worth fighting? In this episode we discuss the Sisyphean nature of the overuse of the word 'like', to a cleaned-up playroom, to the unending struggle of getting tweens to wear pants—and which of these battles might be 1) winnable and 2) worth the work.

Some things really do matter for the long-term success of our kids (and peace of our households); some might be worth letting go in order to let our kids have that win once in a while. In this episode, we unpack how to tell the difference.

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

mom friends, funny moms, parenting advice, parenting experts, parenting tips, mothers, families, parenting skills, parenting strategies, parenting styles, busy moms, self-help for moms, manage kid’s behavior, teenager, tween, child development, family activities, family fun, parent child relationship, decluttering, kid-friendly, invisible workload, default parent, decision-making, decision fatigue, productivity

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Sep 30, 2024

00:44:22

What Fresh Hell Podcast is going on tour across the Northeast US this fall! Join us for a live version of the podcast and bring all your mom friends. We can’t wait to go back on the road! https://bit.ly/whatfreshhelltour

This Deep Dive series is titled "Things We've Learned After Doing This Motherhood Thing for a While." Listen to the whole playlist on Spotify.

What's your "wow, that was so me” story? What is something you did as a kid that exemplifies exactly who you are now?

Amy was taking charge at grownup parties as a six-year-old.

Margaret was getting her comedy censored in grade school.

Neither of these things, in retrospect, seem 1% surprising.

In this episode, we discuss some of our listeners' hilarious recollections of their younger selves, plus a few stories of our own– and a few more about our kids, who have also displayed their personalities early and often.

Whether you were a Halloween-candy-counter or a neighborhood Encyclopedia Brown, you'll probably recognize your younger self in this episode!

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

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Sep 27, 2024

00:39:17

American public policy rests on the premise that childcare is distinct from education. Dr. Dan Wuori, author of the new book THE DAYCARE MYTH, explains how and why we should rethink the education of very young children.

Dr. Dan Wuori is an early childhood educator and policy consultant, known across the globe for his social media feeds @danwuori, which pair daily lessons in child development with adorable video examples.

In this interview, Amy and Dr. Wuori discuss the importance of early childhood education and the misconceptions surrounding daycare. Dan emphasizes that every moment is a teachable moment for children and that their early development is crucial. He also highlights the need for stable and nurturing relationships with highly engaged adults in early childhood settings.

The conversation explores the impact of quality early childhood education on long-term outcomes and the economic benefits of investing in young children. Dan provides actionable takeaways for parents and policymakers, including visiting and observing early childhood environments, advocating for better compensation and support for early childhood professionals, and redefining terminology and policies to reflect the importance of early childhood education.

Here's where you can find Dr. Wuori:

danwuori.com
@danwuori on X and Threads
Dr. Dan Wuori on FB
Buy THE DAYCARE MYTH: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780807786482

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

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early education, child behavior, daycare, childcare, kids care, kids education, school, education policy

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Sep 25, 2024

00:50:24

There is no magic formula to making the perfect decision every time, but there are philosophical principles, or "razors," you can use to pare down your options and see your problem more clearly. These razors can cut through the clutter of complexity and help us see the forest for the trees. And while they weren't designed with parents in mind, they can come in pretty handy!

Starting with the most famous, Occam’s Razor, we discuss how paring away unlikely hypotheticals leads to the most accurate solutions.

Next, we delve into Hanlon’s Razor, which reminds us to avoid attributing malicious intent when there’s a simpler explanation. This principle can help us avoid unnecessary conflict and foster understanding, especially in relationships.

Then we discuss Hitchens’ Razor, which places the burden of proof on the person making the claim. This can be a valuable tool for evaluating arguments and avoiding baseless assertions.

We also explore Chesterton’s Fence, which encourages us to be cautious about changing things without understanding their original purpose.

But that's not all. Listen to the episode to hear the rest, and let us know your own rules for clearer thinking!

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Itamar Shatz for Effectiviology: "Hanlon’s Razor: Never Attribute to Malice That Which is Adequately Explained by Stupidity"
Farnam Street blog: Chesterton’s Fence: A Lesson in Thinking
Reallemon for Medium: Hitchens’s Razor and its Place in Debate
Kendra Cherry for Verywell Mind: How the Hawthorne Effect Works
Our episode on decision fatigue

Go to our Facebook group and tell us what rules and razors you live by!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/whatfreshhellcast

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

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Sep 23, 2024

00:47:50

This Deep Dive series is titled "Things We've Learned After Doing This Motherhood Thing for a While." Listen to the whole playlist on Spotify.

Have you ever figured out a thing and thought everyone must know about this? In this episode we discuss the things that we (and our listeners) have figured out about

how to pack
freezer organization
deciding once (this idea is from the Lazy Genius, and this Instagram thread is full of lazy genius)
making yourself want to clean a messy room
recognizing your best day
deciding where things belong
unloading a dishwasher
always knowing what’s for dinner
finishing what you start
snack stashes
making lists
and how to discern between good ideas for somebody, and good ideas for you

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

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Sep 20, 2024

00:43:01

As parents, we've probably heard the term "attachment style.” But what does it really mean? Eli Harwood, author of the new book RAISING SECURELY ATTACHED KIDS, discusses practical parenting strategies for creating secure attachments with our kids.

Eli and Margaret discuss:

How we define secure attachment and why it's important
The four different child attachment patterns
Why it's never too late to start repairing relationships with our kids

Eli Harwood is a licensed therapist who has been nerding out on attachment research for the past two decades and is on a mission to help make the world a better place, one relationship at a time.

Here's where you can find Eli:

https://attachmentnerd.com
@attachmentnerd on IG/TikTok/Facebook
#raisingsecurelyattachedkids
Buy RAISING SECURELY ATTACHED KIDS: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781632175465

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

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Sep 18, 2024

00:47:25

How can we empower our kids to cope with negative feelings without our help? Here's why disappointment is an important part of childhood and how to build scaffolding for their emotional regulation.

Amy and Margaret discuss:

How the purpose of having children has changed over the last century
Why disappointment is developmentally important
How to be a guide, not a fixer, for our kids

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Jim Taylor for Psychology Today: Parenting: Disappointment Is Good
Katie Hurley for PBS Kids Parenting: How to Help Kids Cope With Disappointment
THE GIFT OF FAILURE by Jess Lahey: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780062299253
Meghan Rabbitt for Parents Magazine: How to Help Kids Deal With Disappointment
RAISING RESILIENT CHILDREN by Robert Brooks and Sam Goldstein
Emily Edlynn for Parents Magazine: How Do I Help My Mad Toddler Express Anger in a Healthier Way?
Our Fresh Take with Jessica Lahey
Our Fresh Take with Katie Hurley

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

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Sep 16, 2024

00:49:31

This Deep Dive series is titled "Things We've Learned After Doing This Motherhood Thing for a While." Listen to the whole playlist on Spotify.

What did adulthood mean to you when you were growing up? Staying up late? Doing algebra every day? Stopping, dropping, and rolling at least once a week? We asked our listeners what they thought would come in handy or plague them daily when they grew up.

Amy and Margaret discuss:

"Oops! All Berries" Cap'n Crunch cereal
Chunky statement pieces
How to get the upper hand in "Jeopardy"

Here's the original thread in our Facebook group where we asked this question

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Sep 13, 2024

00:37:53

Kids sometimes lose their cool, and it can be easy to lose ours while trying to help them. Carla Naumburg, author of the new book HOW TO STOP FREAKING OUT, discusses why kids freak out, how we can help them, and how we as parents can keep our cool.

Carla Naumburg is a clinical social worker, and a mother. She’s the author of four non-fiction books, including her international bestseller, How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t With Your Kids, as well as You Are Not a Sh*tty Parent.

Carla and Amy discuss:

Why the point of Carla's book is not for kids to stop freaking out all together
Why kids (and all of us) are wired to occasionally freak out
How we as parents can keep calm when our kids are freaking out

Here's where you can find Carla:

www.carlanaumburg.com
@carlanaumburg on IG
@CarlaGeorge22 on Twitter
@cnaumburg on Facebook
Buy HOW TO STOP FREAKING OUT

We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website:

https://www.whatfreshhellpodcast.com/p/promo-codes/

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 04 | 00:48:04

Fresh Take: The Lazy Genius on Compassionate Time Management

Oct 02 | 00:45:36

Is This Battle Worth Fighting?

Sep 30 | 00:44:22

DEEP DIVE: Yep, That Was So Me

Sep 27 | 00:39:17

Fresh Take: Dan Wuori on "The Daycare Myth"

Sep 25 | 00:50:24

8 Ways to Make Better Decisions

Sep 23 | 00:47:50

DEEP DIVE: I've Figured Something Out...

Sep 20 | 00:43:01

Fresh Take: Eli Harwood on Raising Securely Attached Kids

Sep 18 | 00:47:25

Helping Kids Deal with Disappointment

Sep 16 | 00:49:31

DEEP DIVE: I Really Thought This Would Be a Bigger Part of My Life

Sep 13 | 00:37:53

Fresh Take: Carla Naumburg Tells Kids How to Stop Freaking Out

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