$10,000 bottles of wine! 15 hour workdays! All-night cocaine benders! Psychotic head chefs! It's Season 4 of Tales of Taboo!

This week, we're exploring the high-octane world of high-end dining: the kinds of establishments that (literally) inspire books like Sweetbitter and movies like The Menu, where reservations are impossible and Chef is spelled with a capital C.

I kick us off by telling MY most absurd tales as a diner in fancy restaurants: a college friend's outpatient rehab in Chicago, the development of a weird friendship with a 69 year old British man, doing edibles with famous restauranteurs at the Beatrice Inn...

Then (starting at 11:43), we hear from current and former employees on the other side. In New York, confessors include the former events manager at a 3 Michelin star restaurant in Flatiron, a former waitress at another 3 Michelin star restaurant in Midtown, a former hostess at The Standard and Bowery Hotel's restaurants + The Waverly Inn, a former champagne slinger for a downtown cocktail group, and a line cook at a Lower East Side restaurant owned by a very young celebrity chef. In London, confessors include the former sommelier at Daniel Humm's Davies and Brook + another unnamed 2 Michelin star establishment, and a former waitress at two different Michelin star restaurants in Mayfair and Shoreditch. Elsewhere in Europe, a former assistant manager tells tales about an abusive executive chef at a Japanese Michelin star spot that was the first in its country.

Fine dining is controversial and divisive. It's glamorous escapism with a very grim underbelly; a way to create community, yet isolate a huge number of people who cannot afford it; facilitate artistic expression and pump pretentious bullshit. These nuances are why this world is so taboo - and enticing - and deserves to be discussed. Welcome back.

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Tales of Taboo is produced and narrated by Ali Weiss. Follow Ali on Instagram, TikTok, & Twitter @aliweissworld, and share your own confession (on or off the record) at confessions@aliweissworld.com. Audio production by Isabel McMahon & Chris Stathopolous. Theme song by Chris Stathopolous. Cover photo by Erika Flynn. Cover art by Kristen Montenegro.

It's the last episode of Season 3! Can you believe?! What an honor to end it by interviewing one of the most brilliant and unique individuals I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. According to his professional bio, Adrian Dannatt is an actor, editor, curator, writer, artist and obituarist. I'd rather just call him a Bon Vivant: a collector of experiences, art, and people. He's also perhaps the only person on the planet less afraid of "stranger danger” than me. I met Adrian after stumbling into a showing of his personal art collection at a gallery on the Lower East Side. He was this fascinating mix of dapper and disheveled, extremely English, and had zero qualms about marching up to me, nitpicking my outfit, and immediately testing the bounds of my sense of humor. An unconventional friendship was born. The banter continued 2 years later in my podcast studio, where we bonded over - amongst many subjects - our mutual failures (as a wannabe actress who’s a podcaster and a former child actor who’s now only locally famous), lack of ambition, and obsession with “young, strange deadbeats who are attractive and brilliant”. We also have a wild multi-generational dialogue about fame and overexposure, social media, sleeping with famous people, death, "bussies," aging, how to be an interesting person, and why I should think of my podcast as the “crappy B movie” on the path to more long-term success. Buy Adrian's book "Doomed and Famous." It's really good. https://www.sequencepress.com/products/doomed-and-famous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I recorded this episode back in the spring of 2022. I felt so inspired by, at peace with, and safe in my new relationship (which I was then 6 months into) that I spontaneously felt compelled to talk about dating in my 20s, and candidly analyze many of the mistakes, failures, and instances of hurt that led to attracting healthy love at 28. That relationship has since come to an end, but my 'non-toxic dating' era has not - I am permanently changed. <3 By admitting (taboo!) to a long history of getting cheated on, dating addicts, misusing apps, having few boundaries, being a 'pick-me girl', and prioritizing all the wrong, surface-level things, I hope to resonate with even one person who is currently struggling from low self-esteem, is frustrated with dating, or feels like they'll never find their person. You will; you may even find more than one ;-) Here’s to more love, more vulnerability, and more connection in 2023. Happy New Year Angels. GOT A ROMANTIC OR TERRIBLE DATING STORY? THOUGHTS ABOUT HOW TO ATTRACT GREAT LOVE? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production. Cover photos by Erika Flynn. Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There’s a narrative jammed down our throats year after year, incessantly, everywhere we go, that the holidays are supposed to be “the most wonderful time." Ironically, such a narrative often ends up reminding us (or forcing us to acknowledge) the things we do NOT have, and the ways in which life has disappointed us or not met our expectations. This is especially true when it comes to family members, who are placed at the center of all the songs, movies, and rituals. The truth is, way more people have dysfunctional families than they do the type to run 5Ks together and eat chestnuts around a fireplace. MOST families are dysfunctional, so the fact that there's extra pressure to appear perfect in December is...kind of insane! In stark contrast to standard Christmassy content, our anonymous confessors tell us raw and honest holiday stories about disownment and abandonment, divorce, death, missing and incarcerated siblings, alcohol and drug-abusing parents, extramarital affairs, mental illness, and loneliness. One confessor also recalls getting wasted and kissing her uncle, and another describes finding out her father in law had installed spy cams in his ex-wife's house to catch her with her foreign lover... THIS is what The Season is all about! Happy holidays, my Angels. I love you very much. GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production. Cover photos by Erika Flynn. Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When Whitney Port agreed come on the pod, 13 year old me - and late 20s me, tbh - pinched herself. An objective icon of the 2000s/2010s, Whitney was one of the only women on reality TV who built a wildly successful brand off of poise, elegance, and intellect - things that don't traditionally equate to great ratings within narrative nonfiction. Not the overt and degenerate type of taboo we've come to expect on this show, perhaps, but a fascinating taboo nonetheless. Whit and I went deep on the serious AND juicy stuff, including: -Major secrets from both of her TV shows, like the casting process, being TRICKED into filming for The Hills, fake friendships, and how refusing to compromise her morals may have led to the cancellation of The City -Her double life as a USC student AND celebrity/socialite on the rise, aided by the freedom of pre-cell phone camera fame -Debilitating anxiety over public image, and what it's like to surrender your autonomy to producers -(Almost) hooking up with Leo DiCaprio! -Her TMZ scandal -Staying relevant in the shifting social media/reality TV landscape — and, refreshingly, her resistance to fame. Listen to my guest slot on Whitney's podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/with-whit/id1462706458?i=1000567955167. GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production. Cover photos by Erika Flynn. Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you think of when you hear 'sex club'? Predatory men? Deviant behavior? An unhinged, unsanitary, Ancient Roman-style orgy? I would liken it more to highly participatory immersive theatre - a contained place to become a different person for the night, or the person you secretly wish you could be. With a definitive start and end and (often) a price tag, the transactional element allows for very real physical, emotional, even spiritual experiences, with less real-life consequences. This week, we hear from both participants AND performers at sex clubs and fetish parties in Australia, Berlin, New York City, Spain, and the UK - including myself! To kick us off, I share my own Tales of Taboo about the uniquely safe space they offered me for self-discovery at an insecure period of my sexual life. (I discuss this more in-depth on last season's bisexuality episode, too.) Then, our anonymous contributors regale us with stories of fabled clubs like Berghain, Haven, House of Love, Kit Kat Club, NSFW, Playscape, Skirt Club, SNCTM, Torture Garden, and Wonderland. Their experiences range from The Good, like niche fantasies coming to life in Eyes Wide Shut-esque settings, sleeping with famous soccer players, and exploring the kinky, adventurous possibilities that exist within environments placing consent front and center...to The Bad, like getting stuck in the middle of circle j*rks or feeling lesser-than as BIPOC, queer and alternative-presenting people...and The Complicated, like being fetishized as a pregnant woman, developing body dysmorphia as a Dominatrix, and getting stuck in the middle of an incestuous glory hole threesome at a gay sauna! Our contributors also have fascinating insight into monogamy, the nature of jealousy and cheating, and what it really requires to achieve sexual liberation. For more information about V, the fire performer confessor at 33:08, visit https://www.thehivefire.com/ or https://www.instagram.com/Thehivefire. Her business is the world's first all-female fire breathing collective! GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. "Degenerate" sweatshirts and thongs are available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production.  Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jason Moody (https://twitter.com/JasonMoodyxxx) is an adult film star I met at the PornHub Awards afterparty in 2018. It's been a long time since I initially released our interview on my old podcast Health Is Hell (I die at the way we talk about this "new platform called OnlyFans!"), but Jason's worldview and wisdom are just as poignant as ever. Join us as we laugh and flirt our way through his life story - leaving Israel at 15, joining the army, selling women's shoes in China, traveling through Cambodia, and eventually landing in LA to pursue his porn dreams - and dissect tons of stereotypes and secrets surrounding the adult industry. Then, Jason answers YOUR submitted questions about the casting process, mental health, happiness, relationships, sex and love, and so much more. The M.O. of this show is always to find meaning in unexpected places, but who would've thought one of the wisest men I've ever had the pleasure of meeting would also have a 9 inch d*ck?! GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production. Cover photos by Erika Flynn. Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you think of when you think ‘porn star’? Party girls with f*cked-up childhoods? Sexual trauma? Misogyny and abuse?  This week’s contributors, both anonymous and on-the-record, dismantle those stereotypes HARD by creating and participating in adult content that empowers them, provides them with bodily autonomy...and makes them very wealthy. We’ll hear from Marykate Moss (formerly Mackenzie, IG & Twitter: @marykate_moss), a Hustler covergirl whose videos have over 100 million views on PornHub; (19:03) a BBW performer using ‘body worship’ to re-frame how men see and treat fat bodies; (26:37) an erotic artist who took the plunge into porn during COVID (and became a master at online brand-building in the process); (35:22) Alice Callipyge (IG: alicecallipyge), a former teacher who dreamt of more income and a place to explore sexual fantasies; (46:34) and Amanda North (IG: amandanorthstar), a current sex therapy student with complicated feelings towards the adult industry she used to be a part of. Whether mainstream power players or small independent creators, they all have equally valuable insight into relationships, fetishization, safety, wealth management, the path to sexual expression and liberation, and creating the self you’ve always wanted to be - online and off. Marykate's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/marykatemoss Alice's OnlyFans: https://onlyfans.com/adorable_alice Amanda's film "Moist": https://vimeo.com/ondemand/moist GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram, via DM. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production.  Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What’s it REALLY like to manage a school shooting? Are students with special needs a "lost cause?" How does under-funding actually affect students and teachers? Are celebrity children as entitled as we think? Confession: I recorded the intro you're about to hear ages ago, before receiving any submissions (NOT a usual occurrence but alas, I had taken my Concerta and was feeling extra productive). I thought I'd be curating a lighthearted inquiry into the lives of teachers, proving those authority figures we feared and revered as kids were fundamentally just humans trying to figure it all out. This episode became MUCH more than that - it's a juicy, shocking, enlightening and at times downright brutal look into the realities of educational systems in the U.S. and abroad. My intro does not accurately reflect how honored and humbled I am to help tell these stories - but it does show, as a graduate of a 'hippie' NYC private school, how much I needed to hear them. Our anonymous contributors are or were teachers in Canada, Kentucky, Los Angeles, New York City, London, Seattle, Texas, and Utah, at schools ranging from the uber-elite (think: children of world-famous athletes, musicians, and tech entrepreneurs) to Title 1 public institutions housing hundreds of refugees from Africa and Syria. They share perspectives about: -being a white teacher for a predominantly black student body -teaching students with cognitive disabilities, as well as emotionally and physically violent behavioral issues -how to manage school shootings and lockdowns -establishing authority over (and gaining respect from!) rich, entitled children -the day-to-day reality of under-funding -social climbing amongst teachers in the private school system -tempestuous parent-teacher relationships -refugee crises in the U.S. On both sides of the wealth spectrum, our teachers also have valuable insight into effective leadership, gaining a child’s trust, how to shape young minds….and why middle schoolers shouldn’t be allowed to wear Moncler. A piece of wisdom from a contributor: “I truly feel that students want to be heard and need to be heard, and if you are a good listener, you can encourage them to speak.” GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me! Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production. Cover art photos by Erika Flynn. Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I have a confession to make: I’ve never watched Vanderpump Rules. (Shock, horror, I know.) But Katie Maloney and I met when I was a guest on her podcast (listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/youre-gonna-love-me-with-katie-maloney/id1516710301?i=1000559075815) and hit it off right away. Then, I started seeing endless stories about her divorce from longtime partner (and fellow OG cast member) Tom Schwartz, and interviewers asking her the same invasive, insensitive questions over and over, and I knew I had to get her into my studio to do things VERY differently.  I promised to only ask Katie about things that most people don’t. So, we went deep on:  -her unorthodox journey from waitress to TV personality (and being a waitress ON TV) -spending over 10 YEARS growing up in front of a camera  -the emotional sacrifices- and damage - of becoming famous for your personal life -how personalities can be manipulated by editors and producers  -Hollywood fame vs reality TV fame -personal safety in the age of social media surveillance -reinvention and staying relevant  -internet bullying and the fraudulence of ‘body positivity’ online A piece of wisdom from Katie: “There’s some people who are like, “I’ve never liked her.” But that’s just because you have terrible taste. If you don’t like me, there’s something wrong with you.” GOT A SECRET TO GET OFF YOUR CHEST? Email ali@aliweissworld.com. Degenerate MERCH is available for purchase on my Instagram - DM me. Tales of Taboo is part of the Eve Podcast Network and a Forever Dog Production. Cover photos by Erika Flynn. Follow Ali on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@aliweissworld Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/ Follow Tales of Taboo on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talesoftaboo Follow Tales of Taboo on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talesoftaboopod/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices