When was the last time you had a sex talk with a parent? This week, we are sharing a hilarious clip from podcast Sex Talk With My Mom, a favorite from our Pleasure Podcasts network. Cam Poter and his mom KarenLee Poter have a weekly sex talk to make the most uncomfortable conversations comfortable. On their comedy show, they talk about everything that a mom and son don’t typically talk about, from smoking hash under a glass to anal mishaps. In this clip, they share about the best orgasms of their lives. Check out the full episode on the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast: Episode 422 The Best Orgasms of Our Lives. We promise you will be highly entertained :)

What is the difference between fetish and kink? Why are some penis-owners into wearing women's underwear or clothing? What about foot fetishes, "littles" play and wearing diapers, bellybutton fetishes, humiliation play and more? Why are they into it? And why do you love your job working as The Adorable Domme?

About our guest: Mae Ling, aka Miss Mae Ling is the Adorable Domme. She is an international Dominatrix, fetish content model/producer who creates custom butt plugs. With her performance art background combined with kink and BDSM, she has taught workshops and performed around the world on the art of connecting with people with and without the use of words. Bringing fun to the strict BDSM realm, she guides others on how to play again. To learn more visit missmaeling.com

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What is Surrogate Partner Therapy (formerly known as Sexual Surrogacy)? Is it anything like Helen Hunt in the movie The Sessions? Is it all about sex or is there more to it? How does working with a Surrogate Partner help people? And how can people find or work with a Surrogate Partner?

About our guest: Lou Sanfillipo (she/her) is a human of several hats in the world of healthy sex. She has been an active surrogate partner since her training in 2015 and is also a licensed therapist. Lou is excited about her transition to private practice where she can also supervise Surrogate Partner Therapy for her esteemed surrogate colleagues. She is dedicated to advancing the field of SPT through her work with the EMBRACE Resource Group and is particularly passionate about increasing diversity in the field. A self-proclaimed sex nerd, Lou is always seeking knowledge through books, trainings, and interpersonal connections. To learn more go to embracespt.org 

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What is “normal” when it comes to sexuality? What is the Orgasm Gap and why is it a thing? Why is the power of the clitoris still such a mystery for people? Is it common to not be in the mood all or most of the time? Is it true that vulva owners naturally have a lower sex drive? What do hormones have to do with all of this? And what's the truth about queefing, squirting, and "butt lightning"? Repeat guest Dr. Jolene Brighten answers all this and so much more.

About our guest: Dr. Jolene Brighten is a hormone expert, nutritionist, scientist, and thought leader in women’s medicine. She is board-certified in naturopathic, endocrinology and trained in clinical sexology. Dr. Brighton is the author of Is This Normal, a nonjudgmental guide to creating hormone balance, eliminating unwanted symptoms, and building the sexual desire you crave. A fierce patient advocate, and completely dedicated to uncovering the root cause of hormonal imbalances, Dr. Brighton, empowers women worldwide to take control of their health and their hormones through her website and social medical channels. Dr. Brighton is an international speaker, clinical educator, and medical advisor within the Tech community. To learn more visit drbrighten.com

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Repeat guest Susan Bratton joins us to talk all about bigger clits and dicks - not just for esthetic purposes, but also for enhanced pleasure, increased orgasms and optimized health. Susan shares the latest pleasure product technology available - all of which you can do from your own home and without a trip to the doctors office! Prepare to have your minds, clits and dicks blown with this playful yet informative episode.

About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long. She’s created hundreds of techniques that transform “having sex” into making love and is the world’s most well-respected sexual biohacker.

Susan is co-founder and CEO of two companies: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and sexual regenerative therapies and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. 

A best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan frequently appears on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC as well as being the #1 downloaded episode guest on myriad podcasts.

You can find The Susan Bratton Show® at BetterLover.com, her personal shares on Instagram @susanbratton, and her lust-for-life supplements, FLOW and DESIRE at The20store.com. You can also find all the products we talked about in the episode and so much more at aprilamy.com

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Sarah Juree shares her story about being a single mom and teacher living in poverty who started working on OnlyFans and was then fired after someone exposed were with "revenge porn". Her life entirely changed. At first it was painful, challenging, and heartbreaking, but eventually Sarah found healing through her erotic work on OnlyFans and rediscovered her sexual confidence and love for being a self-employed sex worker. Tune in to learn more about her powerful story.

About our guest: Sarah Juree, 41, is a teacher, mama of twins, and digital content creator for OnlyFans. She moved from Arizona to Indiana at age 9 and remains a Hoosier. After her 13 year marriage ended, she found herself a single mom living in a poverty cycle as a teacher. She worked many side jobs including: teeth whitening, sublimation business, nutrition and exercise coaching, and reading tutoring. Despite her best efforts, her hard work failed to get her out of the poverty cycle. A local friend was mentoring women on how to create content for OnlyFans as an income stream. Her boss encouraged her to start a page and sell her panties on it. She created an account; a local blogger found out and distributed her photos across social media platforms. He got her fired from her teaching job and she lost a career of almost 20 years. Her story quickly became national and international news. She has been on the Dr. Phil show, Vice Media, The New York Post, Daily Star, Barstool Sports and a guest on dozens of podcasts. She recently became the host of the Circle City News Podcast out of Indianapolis to discuss sex work and break the shame and stigma around being an OnlyFans model. She now has a platform to discuss sacred sexuality and how OnlyFans empowers women. She is breaking generational cycles of alcoholism, drug abuse, domestic abuse, obesity and poverty for herself and her children. She is manifesting her most beautiful self by reclaiming her body and sexual energy and empowering women to do the same. She is blessed and unstoppable.To learn more visit sarahjuree.com and email her at miss.sarahmgmt@gmail.com">miss.sarahmgmt@gmail.com 

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Why is creativity and playfulness important in sex? What are "sex games" and how do they help inspire hotter sex? Can we play sex games with ourselves or only with our lovers? How can sex toys add more play into the mix? And what are the top five things most people should know about sex?

About our guest: Alice Child (she/her) is a Sydney based Somatic Sexologist, Sex Educator and Coach, certified with the Australian School of Somatic Sexology. She believes everyone deserves a happy, healthy, safe and fulfilled sex life, and has a passion for opening up conversations, confronting taboos, and creating inclusive spaces free of judgment. She works with couples, individuals and groups, exploring diverse topics of sexuality, intimacy and pleasure.In 2020, she founded Vulva Dialogues to normalize conversations about sex and empower individuals to learn more about their bodies and sexual health. Vulva Dialogues has brought sex-positive workshops, talks, and events to thousands of people globally, working with companies such as Lover, Lucy Lube, NORMAL and Future of Sex. To learn more visit vulvadialogues.com and her IG @vulvadialogues

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Hot power couple Ahmir and Basirah of Both Sides of the Bed podcast join us to talk all about how they discovered their sexually adventurous sides and how you can, too. We discuss everything from how to tap into your kinky side, what it means to be a dom or sub, non-monogamy, man squirt, and so much more!

About our guests: Ahmir and Basirah are lovers, creatives, and all-around "Freaky" people who love just about everything having to do with sex, love, connection & kink.

Ahmir is a sex enthusiast who loves to talk about his sexual experiences and passion for sex and has the desire to shift how people view sex, pleasure and relationships as a whole. 

Basirah is a Board Certified Sexologist and Relationship Coach with the desire to provide people with the tools and language needed to receive deep connection, strong intimacy and better sex.

Their Podcast “Both Sides of the Bed” is all about getting both the masculine and feminine perspectives of all things sex, love and relationships and how to make them stronger. To learn more visit bothsidesofthebed.tv

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Is a tight pussy a better pussy? How does tightness of the vaginal canal affect both health and pleasure? Are tight cocks a thing? How do tight cocks impact performance in the bedroom? Repeat guest Jenny Putt, PT, shares the ins and outs of pelvic floor health, as well as a number of life-altering tools to bring more pleasure into your life.

About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure. 

She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtpt

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What does it mean to live a life led by desire? How does this enhance sex, relationships, and everyday life? What are some of the ways to start living a life led by and full of desire? The hosts of the Desire On Fire podcast share all this and more.

About our guests: Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. They’ve worked side by side with some of the top Sexuality + Intimacy teachers in the world. 

These women are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, programs and international sisterhood community, they’ve taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships.

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What are some of the reasons vulva owners experience pain during sex? What can people do at home to have less pain, as well as with a specialist utilizing the current medical technology? What are the best sex positions for someone experiencing pain? And how can couples get out of a rut or dry spell? Dr. Bahlani answers all this and more.

About our guest: After completing her residency in OB/GYN at New York Presbyterian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, Dr. Sonia Bahlani pursued a fellowship in the urology department working with pioneers in pelvic pain. Training in both areas gives her a unique, comprehensive foundation and has allowed her to treat women with a variety of urologic and gynecologic pelvic pain syndromes. Through her training, Dr. Bahlani is able to take a holistic view of common women’s health issues. She takes a compassionate, patient-centric approach and listens to her patients to gain a deep understanding of their challenges. This allows her to develop a personalized, comprehensive treatment plan aimed at addressing the issue from all angles to improve their quality of life beyond what they thought possible.

In her efforts to bring the topics of pelvic pain and women’s sexual health out from behind closed doors and find real, proven solutions for those in pain, Dr. Bahlani continues to be involved in research and has presented at numerous conferences, as well as being published in top national and international journals. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Romper, LifeHacker, and the Dr. Oz Show. She is author of the newly released book “ Dr. Sonia’s Guide to Navigating Pelvic Pain—Result Oriented Strategies for Better Quality of Life” now available where all books are sold. To learn more visit www.pelvicpaindoc.com

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What does it mean to be a Daddy? How can someone embody or role-play their hot inner daddy energy? Does it always involve dominance? How does dirty talk come into the mix of daddy dynamics? What are some top tips for upping my dirty talk game? And what if I’m shy but want to be more sexually vocal and verbally express my sexual desires? "Daddy" Mischa shares all this and more.

About our guest: Mischa Byruck (He/him) is a sexual integrity coach. He guides people to live their sex lives in line with their values. He is the founder of Evolve.Men, where he coaches, teaches and writes on gender and sexuality. He is an ICF-certified coach, with training in abuser counseling, facilitation, antiracism, trauma, gender, consent, men’s work, and sexuality. He teaches workshops on phone sex, dirty talk, daddy kink, and is the consent education partner for Bonobo Network, the Bay Area’s premiere sex-positive community organization. He’s also been an erotic model and appeared in amateur porn. Previously, he founded forLove, a virtual erotic events company, ran partnerships for DataKind and Code for America, worked in international development, and started a large-scale disaster relief organization. He holds a BA from Columbia and an MPA from NYU. Learn more about Mischa at Evolve.Men

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What is long arousal and how does it differ from orgasm? Can everyone experience it? If so, how? What are arousal arcs? How can understanding and cultivating these practices lead to liberating, pleasure-filled erotic bliss? The legendary Pamela Madsen answers all this and so much more.

About our guest: Pamela Madsen, a Somatic Wellness Coach with a Master's degree in Education, has coached hundreds of women and couples on their own personal journey back into their bodies. Pamela founded Back to the Body, Inc and The Back To The Body MethodTM, now in its twelfth year. A pioneer in fertility and sex advocacy, she also was the Founder and first Executive Director of The American Fertility Association. Pamela is a veteran speaker, educator, and has been a blogger for The Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and more. She is the author of Shameless: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Still Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner (Rodale, January 2011). Pamela has appeared on Sex with Emily, Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Buzzfeed, 60 Minutes, CNN, The New York Times, O Magazine, USA Today, and more. She is also the co-creator of Everybody Squirm, objects for sensory experiences.

She is a fearless advocate for women’s health and integrated sexuality who leverages her raw honesty and well-informed wit to help strip the stigma from women’s wellness, female desire and pleasure, body image, and infertility. To learn more visit https://backtothebody.org

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This episode is a fun "Smash-Up" containing clips of six of Shameless Sex podcast's favorite episodes from 2022. We love all of our episodes and guests, and we could only choose a few, so here is a little sneak peak that is near and dear to our hearts (and genitals) :)

1. #295 How to Talk Dirty - With Sexpert Lola Kat - Listen here or here
2. #271 How to Have the Best Sex of Your Life! - With Layla Martin - Listen here or here
3. #286 A Sex-Hacker's Guide to Anal Sex - With Kenneth Play - Listen here or here
4. #267 Spank Me! Choke Me! (But Learn These Tools First!) - With Orpheus Black - Listen here or here
5. #287 Flirting, Dating and Casual Sex - With Rachel Wright, LMFT - Listen here or here
6. #293 Fetishes, Porn and Sex Toys - With Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire - Listen here or here

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What makes a deeply connected relationship work? Can couple's continue to have the best sex of their lives in long term relationships, and if so, what are some of the tools or creating and maintaining a fulfilling sex life? How does commitment including marriage affect things? What are some of the ways people can grow and nourish partnerships whether or not they "put a ring on it"?

About our guests: Jef combines transformational coaching with emotional mastery, psychological integration, shadow work, and energetic attunement. 

He is a meme lord and a master level practitioner and teacher of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporates shadow integration and cognitive science into the methodology that he now trains practitioners in. 

He guides people in a process of intentional patterns of thought that invite internal unification, profound personal empowerment, and deep energetic/emotional hygiene. His vision is one of collective healing, harmonization and integration that is self replicating, just like a meme.

Check out Jef’s work at mosjef.co and peep his memes on Instagram @mos__jef

Fabienne is a Sex and Intimacy coach who specializes in helping penis-owners develop mastery over themselves through the window of their sexual energy, offering them the insight and perspective of a well-studied woman with a pussy.

She helps people have better sex lives, helping them embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience. 

Her mission is to help people of all genders come into more understanding and respect of each other so that we can all evolve together while getting our needs met and having great sex. 

Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick, and for $300 off Fabienne and Jef's upcoming course use code SHAMELESS.

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How does pressure show up in relationships, and why does it hinder pleasure, connection and arousal? How does pressure operate differently in new encounters vs long term relationships? What are some helpful tips to start turning the pressure valve down - both within the self and when engaging in intimacy with others? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more.

About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love/intimacy

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How can I have amazing orgasmic anal sex? How does surrender and awareness come into the mix? How can I enhance my orgasmic potential as a receiver, and how can I up my anal sex game as a giver? Repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon share all this and so much more.

About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.

Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. 

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What is the difference between internal and external orgasms and why are internal orgasms generally more difficult to achieve for many vulva-owners? How does foreplay and erogenous zones fit into all of this? And how do you personally define foreplay? What are some of the top sex-hacking tips for bigger, better, more frequent internal and external orgasms?

About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com 

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Why is expressing or playing with fantasies beneficial for relationships? What are some ways we can share fantasies with partners? What can we do if our partners are not comfortable with what we share? And what if we actually want to turn the fantasy into role-play? What are some ways we can actually start to explore our fantasies?

About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced intimacy & relationship coach, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the 3-month online course “Awaken Your Desire” that helps women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine through yoni egg practices, emotional alchemy, meditation and psychoanalytic tools. Naomi is the host on the “Divine Couples” podcast, where she explores conscious sexuality through monologues and guest interviews. She holds an MA in Conflict Management & Resolution and a BA in Psychology and studied esoteric practices, treatments and philosophies with various gurus worldwide. Naomi’s passion is helping others heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit divinecouples.com

Download her free Ebook for couples at awakenyourdesire.com/free-ebook

Online course for women January 11th, 2022 - Awaken Your Desire

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What is BDSM, and how does “sensual kink” fit into the mix? Why is communication so important in kink, and how can people improve their erotic communication skills? How can people begin to dip their toes into the world of sensual BDSM? Also, what is the orgasm gap, how does it show up in BDSM, and what are “lifestyle events” all about?

About our guest: Sir Marvelous, is a well-known and highly respected Pleasure Coach and Professional Sensual BDSM Dominant. Based out of the NYC area, he has 10 years of practice and owns and operates a Dungeon in New Jersey. Specializing in introducing and de-stigmatizing BDSM, his mission is to help close the orgasm gap by teaching people how to have and give stronger and more frequent orgasms, while tapping into the sensual side of BDSM.

Sensual BDSM can completely transform how people experience intimacy by increasing connection, arousal and sensitivity. Sir Marvelous has performed at numerous sex positive events, has numerous reviews from private clients all over the country, and has spoken on expert panels. Most recently, Sir Marvelous was a featured speaker at the BDSM Panel for Kandi Burruss at the Bedroom Kandi 10th Annual Convention in Atlanta. For more information, Sir Marvelous can be reached at ​Marvelous Things Entertainment, LLC:

Email: Bookings@sirmarvelous.com

Webpage: liinks.co/marvelousthings

Instagram: @Sirmarvelous & @Sirmarvelouskinks

Twitter: @Sirmarvelous5

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What is flirting? Is it just something single people do or can we flirt with our partners as well? What if someone feels like they are “bad” at flirting? How can they learn to become more confident and up their flirting game? What are some tips for flirting whether single or partnered? And how does non-sexual touch play into all of this?

About our guest: Euphemia is a full spectrum pleasure coach and bestselling author of Slow Pleasure. 

Their work aims to support people to flourish and feel pleasure. Even despite our collective crisis of pace and disconnection. They’ve been featured in Elle, Cosmopolitan, Vice, Harper’s Bazaar, and multiple national radios and newspapers.

‘Slow Pleasure’ is both the name of Euphemia’s best-selling book and their theory of change. By learning to access the full spectrum of pleasure, drip by drip and microdose by microdose, people can feel their own aliveness and reestablish a nourishing connection to self, others, and the land. Euphemia understands pleasure and somatics to be a journey of creating moments to pause, listen and remember, rather than ‘fix’ or accumulate knowledge. To learn more visit euphemiarussell.com

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Today, we’re sharing a preview of a new podcast we’re enjoying and think you will, too. On Come As You Are, educator and bestselling author Dr. Emily Nagoski answers questions about sex with the latest science. You’ll get a modern guide to sexual wellbeing, backed by groundbreaking research about desire, anatomy, orgasm and much more. In conversation with her producer, Emily debunks cultural myths and flips the script on everything you thought you knew about sex and sexuality. In this preview, Emily answers a listener question about losing the motivation to have sex and introduces us to a concept known as the "dual control model,” which offers a simple but radical shift in the way we think about horniness. Click here listen to Come As You Are, or visit https://podcasts.pushkin.fm/caya?sid=shameless

What is penis enhancement all about? Is it about size or performance, and why would someone want to enhance their penis? Are there any dangers to penis enhancement? What are the statistics for positive results? And what are some of the key points penis-owners should know about testosterone and how it affects the body? Dr. Brandeis shares all this as well as his new research on the P-Long Study and P-Long protocol.

About our guest: Dr. Judson Brandeis is a graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine. Dr. Brandeis helps men everywhere feel great, look good, and have better physical intimacy.

Over the course of his 25-year career as a board-certified urologist, he has performed thousands of surgeries and pioneered surgical robotics. In 2019, Dr. Brandeis decided to follow his true passion and opened BrandeisMD, a national leader in technology and sexual medicine innovations.

As a sexual medicine expert and educator leading courses all around the country, he approaches the subject of male sexual wellness with enthusiasm and an ability to explain complicated topics in ways the listener can understand. Dr. Brandeis is intimately familiar with the challenges men face as they age. Helping men meet these challenges and optimize their health inspires his commitment to clinical research, compassionate patient care, and education of other physicians. To learn more visit brandeismd.com. To buy the book visit: thetwentyfirstcenturyman.com

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What is erotic hypnosis? How does it help people as sexual beings, as well as in other aspects of their lives? Can it really inspire them to overcome issues and habits so they may create their best lives? And how is erotic hypnosis related to BDSM and working with a Dominatrix? Mistress Carol shares all this and more (and even does a brief demo on air!).

About our guest: Mistress Carol is a Dominatrix, Erotic Hypnotist, and Clinical Hypnotherapist at EroticHypnosisForMen.com. She is an expert in controlling your mind and taking you deep into the sensual experience of hypnotic trance and fantasy. Her sessions have been celebrated as some of the best in the industry, with her provocative and controlling voice that welcomes one to surrender into hypnotic submission.

With an intellectual interest in psychology and the mysteries of the subconscious mind, Mistress Carol has been practicing hypnosis and creating erotic trance sessions for over ten years. As a sensualist, she takes pleasure in creating a dream-like environment where one may be immersed in fantasy, lost inside her control, sexually dominated, as she blows your mind. She thrives on pain and pleasure, domination and submission, control and surrender, and passion and desire. With a bit of a mischievous streak and a playful manner, Mistress Carol enjoys the dynamics of tease and denial, taking you to the edge of agony and lust, then leaving you aching for more. 

Professionally, Mistress Carol is also a clinical hypnotherapist and works within the community, supporting individuals with overcoming issues and habits so they may create their best lives. She has helped many to overcome anxiety, stop smoking, lose weight, and conquer their own personal limitations.

Mistress Carol is the creatrix of Erotic Hypnosis for Men, a lair of wicked enchantment and depravity, which features a captivating variety of recorded erotic hypnosis sessions available for online purchase. Mistress Carol also offers live online sessions for one-on-one trance experiences and distance training on many sexually inspiring topics, and she was Featured in book “the heart of the dominatrix” by Inanna justice.. You may also find her older, discounted sessions at My Hypnotic Domains, or visit her at LoyalFans.com/MistressCarol where you can enjoy her subscribers-only VIP content.

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What does swinging entail, and how does someone know this lifestyle is for them? Is swinging for people of all ages (well, 18 and up)? How can people both dip their toes into and navigate the world of swinging? How can swinging go awry, and what are some options for working through these hurdles? And what is the difference between swinging and sex parties?

About our guest: Kiley is a millennial non monogamous swinger activist and sex worker from Cleveland, Ohio. Over the course of the past 18 months Kiley has taken social media by storm helping break stigmas associated with the non monogamous lifestyle. She uses her platform for good and has started working with organizations like The Woodhull Foundation, The Swinger Society and is part of the PR committee with The National Coalition For Sexual Freedom. Kiley wants to continue fighting for sexual freedoms via her platform and on a local level. She hopes her efforts will help de-stigmatize the non monogamous community. To learn more visit sexyswingerchic.net

TikTok: @sexyswingerchictalks 

Twitter@sexyswingerchic 

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What is narcissism and borderline personality, and how can they cause to others? How can someone recognize if they are dating someone with narcissistic tendencies? Why are certain people drawn to them, and why do so many find it har to leave what feels like a toxic relationship? What are some coping skills or strategies that can help a person finally leave, as well as tools for the healing process after experiencing so much emotional abuse? Repeat guest Kate Loree shares all of this and more. 

About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities, author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships, and cohost of the podcast Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. Kate Loree has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, Playboy Radio, as well as many podcasts. To learn more visit KateLoree.com.

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What is Cuckolding and why are people into it? How does Cuckolding differ from Hot-Wifing? How can people embrace their inner Cuck? And how does male-chastity fit into the mix? Dr. David Ley shares all this and more.

About our guest: David Ley is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He's the author of several books and research articles on sexuality, including his first book, Insatiable Wives: Women who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, which was the first book to examine the cuckolding and hotwife phenomenon. With Dr. Justin Lehmiller and Dan Savage, he published the first psychological study of the cuckold fantasy. Dr. Ley is a frequent guest in media around the world, with appearances in the New York Times, CNN and Time Magazine, as well as Hustler and Playboy magazines. To learn more visit davidleyphd.com

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Repeat guest and Urologist Dr. Justin Dubin joins us once again to teach us all about the wonderful world of vasectomies. How do vasectomies actually work, and what does the procedure and healing process look like? Who should consider a vasectomy? What are the success rates? Are they bad for the body? What if someone wants to get their vasectomy reversed? What does this procedure and healing process look like, and what are the success rates? Oh, and is botox for the balls really a thing? Tune in for this fun episode to discover why Dr. Dubin is a huge fan of vasectomies (and we are too).

About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson, his urology residency training at the University of Miami, and more recently his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University. Dr. Dubin is a Men’s Health specialist at Memorial Healthcare System in Hollywood, Florida. He's passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health.

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Repeat guest and expert Forrest Andrews joins us for a pre-Movember episode to talk all about prostate health, pleasure, how penis-owners can have a Super O AKA mind-blowing full-bodied multi-orgasmic experiences, prostate toys, the purpose and art of enemas, and so much more.

About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros’ incredible line of products go to aneros.com

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What is audio eroticism & erotica? What is an auralism kink and is Audio Hypnosis Erotica part of this? What are the benefits of incorporating erotic content into your lifestyle, and how can erotica be incorporated into a relationship to improve sexual intimacy and emotional connection? Be sure to listen all the way through for a sexy snippet from erotic aural erotica master Lala.

About our guest: Lala is the founder of Lala's Bedtime Tales, a sexual wellness and liberation brand. She is a sexuality and sexual health advocate, audio erotic podcast host, and an erotica writer. Lala started Lala's Bedtime Tales to create a safe and judgment-free space for individuals to learn about sexual health and how to feel sexually empowered in and out of the bedroom. Lala's Bedtime Tales is a sexual wellness digital platform that inspires you to take control and ownership of your sexy by mixing education with entertainment. Through Lala's Bedtime Tales, she offers erotica and romance literature, sexual health and wellness education from licensed medical professionals, and healthy relationships & intimacy advice from sexuality experts. Lala's mission is to de-stigmatize women's sexuality as a dirty thing and encourage and educate women on ways to enjoy their sexual pleasure and feel confident and sexy in their sexuality. Lala is a firm believer that sexual health education is a human right and everyone deserves knowledge about sexual wellness, consent, and pleasure because sex should never be mentally or physically painful but a fun, beautiful, and intimate act.

Links:

· Lala’s Bedtime Tales Website: https://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/

· Lala’s Bedtime Tales Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5YmouZTiUYHdrPwsw3Ro9V

· Lala’s Bedtime Tales Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lalasbedtimetales/

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What are some of the signs you should break up in relationships, as well as the top tips for navigating them with as much success and ease as possible? What if you know you should break up but feel like you can’t do it? How can people cope with a breakup - especially when they are feeling so much sadness, loss, anger and/or grief? Is "conscious uncoupling" or closure conversations available to everyone? And what can breakups teach us as valuable tools in moving forward? Repeat guest Dr. Aly answers all this and more.

About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. Dr. Aly is champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure and helps her clients experience pleasurable sexual interactions and nourishing romantic relationships. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at TurnON.love

For info on Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse, starting January 2023, visit TurnON.love/intimacy 

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What exactly is Dirty Talk? What are the benefits using it to spice up sex? What are some tips for folks who want to up their dirty talk game, and how can people who are desiring to engage in more Dirty Talk talk ask for this from their partner? Sexpert Lola Kat teaches all of this, and even shares a reading in her sensual voice.

About our guest: Lola Kat Yonder is a Sex Positive - Body Positivity Advocate & Sensual Storyteller: She remarks she grew up in the adult industry, 13+ years & counting: including 8 years as a sensual product consultant & small biz marketing director, commercial hostess, & content creator for luxury adult retail; along with 5+ years of experience in sensual voice performance. Colleagues have dubbed her the Wordsmith & the Vanna White of Vibrators.  

In the past, Lola performed 16 years as a classically-trained Church vocalist, as well as contributed 6+ years in senior healthcare. She has evolved from her conservative roots by embracing sexual openness emphasizing intimate education.

She has also competed to model for the Next Face of Torrid 2015, and walked the runway at multiple Body Positivity Empowerment events in Baltimore & NYC; & maintained an active presence on the adult conference circuit, attending events such as Exxxotica & AVN.

Lola’s passions include music, fashion, voiceover, queer positivity, sex toy exploration and empowerment. Her mantra is Style, Makeup, & Masturbation in the Pursuit of Self Love, Intimate Connections, and Positive Mental Health. You can find her commercial work with keywords 'Spice2nite Show' on YouTube, and modeling/ body positivity on @thecoybox on IG

A lifelong learner, she is currently interested in living powerfully as an accomplished woman with adult-ADHD, for which she has started a consultant page ADHDsensual.com. Also learn more about her work at lolakatyonder.com

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What is the definition of a Cougar? Why do people have such a hard time with female led age gap relationships, when male led age gaps are seen as no big deal? What is so appealing about older women to younger men, how can older women stop second-guessing their desirability, and what are some tips and tricks to help fuel women’s sexual response at any age? Repeat guest Dr. Sarah Hill answers all this and so much more.

About our guest: Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and professor with expertise in women, health, and sexual psychology. Her work has been written about in outlets like the New York Times, the Economist, and The Guardian, and you can see her featured in the Netflix documentary, The Principles of Pleasure. Most recently, Dr. Hill has been using her expertise as a consultant with Cougar Life, a dating website for those seeking female-led age gap relationships. To learn more go to sarahehill.com

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What is a fetish, and how can people work with their fetishes in a safe, pleasurable way? What does it mean to be “master fetish trainers”? And how can we approach porn, sex toys, and our consumption of the erotic industry with more awareness, sex-positivity and inclusivity? Master Fetish Trainers Jet Setting Jasmine and King Noire share this and so much more.

About our guests: Jet Setting Jasmine is a licensed clinical Psychotherapist with a strong emphasis on Intimacy Post Injury and Intimacy Post Illness. She is the owner and lead therapist of full-service therapy practice, Blue Pearl Therapy. Jasmine is an international sex educator and Master Fetish Trainer.

King Noire is an accomplished writer, artist, MC and global activist using the proceeds of his album ‘Music Is My Weapon’ to build a school, fresh water well and medical clinic in Guinea Bissau, West Africa. He has used his position as an adult performer and Master Fetish Trainer to develop an ethically sound molded toy in partnership with Lust Art; raise consciousness around Kink safety for people of color; and offering sex education to audiences ranging from college students to medical providers.

Jasmine and King are the co-owners of three-time award winning Royal Fetish Films and together have over 20 years of experience as adult entertainers, directors and producers. The duo’s love of the arts, film and sex education are combined to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to explore their sexual boundaries. Their work on the Decolonization of Sex & Porn and Politics has been featured in Huffington Post, Rolling Stones, Paper Magazine, VICE, Playboy, Forbes, Business Insider, Cosmopolitan, BBC, Psychology Today and more. To learn more visit Royalfetishxxx.com and Jetsettingjasmine.com

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Sex and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon join us once again to talk about sex positions and the art of orgasmic, pleasurable penetration. Learn why it's helpful allow the vulva owner (or any receiving orifice for that matter) to move towards the giver to build up desire. Also why there's a time and place for “pushing it real good" (shout out to Salt 'n' Pepper), top tips for mind-blowing penetrative sex, how to continue play without a hard cock, and so much more.

About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support. Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based The Davon Method. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.

Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. 

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The title tells it all, but this episode is all about our current top sex toy recommendations when it comes to anything anal including pegging products, plugs, beads, anal pleasure and safety, and positions. Happy Anal August and on to Shameless Sextember!

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What is the pelvic floor about and how is it related to sexual pleasure (and orgasms!)? Why is the idea of having a tighter pussy generally BS? How can people heal or improve their pelvic floors? And what's the truth about "popping cherries" (AKA first time penetration)?

About our guest: Jenny Putt is a pelvic floor physical therapist and sex educator among many other letters that go after her name. She believes talking about sex, poop, pee and genitals shouldn’t be deemed awkward or inappropriate and that the world would be a better place if people were more connected to their pelvic floor and had access to more pleasure. 

She specializes in the pelvic floor health of perinatal individuals with in-person and virtual services across the continuum of preconception through pregnancy, delivery and postpartum recovery. To learn more visit www.jennyputtpt.com or checkout her IG at @jennyputtpt

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In this fun in-person interview we chat with Alexis Lauren Ware all about becoming WET - not necessarily the way Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion describe it, but more so about how we can (re)connect with our genitals, “reclaim” our wetness and turn-on, and live a life of feeling WET both in and out of the bedroom. I mean, who doesn't want that?

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About our guest: Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify power in service to love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, Kundalini Yoga teacher, Human Design enthusiast, ThetaHealing® expert/instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach.

Alexis Ware, L.Ac., founder of Sovereign University, is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach.

Alexis Ware is an energy expert and life strategist who specializes in restructuring subconscious belief systems to amplify love, connection, creative expression and deeper enjoyment of life, sex and relationships. Alexis is a licensed acupuncturist, ThetaHealing® expert & instructor of 12+ years and a sex, desire & intimacy coach. university.com">sovereign-university.com

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We've all heard about the power of transcendent and cervical orgasms (AKA the A-Spot), but how are they obtained? What do they feel like, why are they life-changing, and what are the tips and tricks for having more powerful, transcendent internal orgasms?

About our guests: Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth. Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator while Dr. Willow is a Chinese & Functional Medicine Doctor, and Taoist Sexology Teacher. When these two devotees of love come together they blend and weave the ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra for the modern lover with humor, insight and wisdom. To learn more visit sexreimagined.com. Also visit:

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In this playful episode we interview Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT all about flirting, in-person and online dating, relationships and casual sex. Whether you are single, non-monogamous, or want to learn how to navigate the dating field, this episode has plenty of gems to offer you.

About our guest: Psychotherapist Rachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern relationships, mental health, and sex. She is an experienced speaker, group facilitator, educator, therapist, coach, and on-camera mental health and relationship expert.

With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel Wright has worked with thousands of humans worldwide, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe, was dk.facebook.com/SHAPEmagazine/videos/mytake-rachel-wright/900458553704034/">SHAPE Magazine’s Sex + Relationships Coach, and created the virtual workshop series What You Wish You Learned in School: Sex Ed and is currently one of mindbodygreen’s article review experts. She also recently did a show at Green Room 42 in NYC called “One Night Stand: A Night for Sexier & Healthier Broadway.” (Check out the review in BroadwayWorld here.)

Rachel has been featured widely in the media, including on Cheddar TV, as a regular contributor to SHAPE, INSIDER, mbg, InStyle, The Dipp, Well & Good — plus Cosmopolitan Magazine, PIX 11 (NYC), Women’s Health, NBC News Radio, Huffington Post, CTV (Canada), and hundreds of other outlets. 

Rachel lives in New York and loves live theatre so much. You can probably find her in PJs eating gluten-free food with one of her partners if she’s not working! Learn more at www.rachelwrightnyc.com or connect in her cozy corner of Instagram, @thewright_rachel

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It's almost one of our favorite months - Anal August! And to celebrate we are interviewing repeat guest and sex expert Kenneth Play all about anal sex. Kenneth shares his top tips and "hacks" for making anal sex more fun, relaxing, pleasurable, and even orgasmic. You don't want to miss this one. And be sure to check out our YouTube Channel to get a visual of some of the techniques he shares, as well as our Instagram for short clips from this episode.

About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth is also the author of one of our favorite books, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”. To learn more visit kennethplay.com 

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While we love Masturbation May, April decided it's time to start celebrating Jerk-Off July. In this episode we discuss why it's good for you, our own experiences with masturbation, and tips and tool to up your self-pleasure game.

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How does sexual confidence for penis owners show up in sex and enhance the way they tend to their lovers, specifically ones with pussies? Why do so many men feel like they need to push their sexuality down in order to be a “safe person”? How can they find their sexual power in a safe way? What can they do to uncover parts of their sexuality they’ve been burying and how can they integrate them? And how can penis owner’s learn how to have more full-bodied orgasms?

About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick

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What are the attachment styles and how do they impact relationships in general, especially non-monogamy? How do people know if they are non-monogamous? What’s the difference between fantasy and innate needs or desires? How do people’s unresolved attachment injuries get triggered within non-monogamy and how can they work with this once it’s triggered? What are some tools, and do they also apply to monogamous relationships? Lastly, what are some top tips for navigating both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships?

About our guest: Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships.

In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003.

She co-hosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker.

Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com.

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In this episode we talk all about masturbation AKA 'batin, why it's beneficial to have a masturbation practice and how to develop one, and ways your solo-sex can also lead to more pleasurable and connected sex with partners.

About our guest: As a sex and relationship facilitator, Mike creates transformational group experiences to support people in their journey of sex, intimacy, and relationship. Mike is kinky, queer, and poly, and they live in an intentional community in Seattle called Confluence that serves as a practice ground for personal and relational growth. Mike loves offering free insights about sexuality, connection, and personal growth on their website mikemantell.com

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In this playful episode we talk all about what most doctors call erectile or sexual dysfunction (ED), but we prefer the term erectile control issues, and you will learn all about why we reframe it this way in this episode. Dr. Dubin also explains the statistics on erectile issues, his research with porn performers and the correlation between porn and erectile control, tips for working around this, as well as whether or not blue balls are a real thing.

About our guest: Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men’s Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health.

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Layla Martin joins us once again to take back the word slut and own it as an empowering tool for becoming the ultimate sexy badass that is uniquely you in the bedroom. Whether you want to learn to worship a slut or goddess, or you want to dive deeper into that powerful part of you, Layla has plenty of juicy tips and tricks you won't want to miss.

About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram.

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In this episode we interview award-winning adult model, performer, sex educator and disability advocate GoAskAlex all about her experience in the adult film/porn industry. Alex got her start in 2014, and then a few years into her career she had a life-changing surgery resulting in a permanent disability. Alex shares her journey towards self-love and acceptance, as what it's like as she continues to work in adult film.

More about our guest: GoAskAlex is an adult model, onscreen performer and sex educator with the distinction of being the industry’s first-ever ostomate since receiving a life-changing surgery in 2019: “my small intestine was diverted out through my abdomen, and I now wear a permanent medical device.” The auburn-haired British Columbia, Canada native - who launched her adult career in 2014 as a webcam model and online companion - has since taken the opportunity to use her high-profile platform to advocate for disabled and underrepresented bodies in adult media. GoAskAlex currently sits atop the 1% of content creators on OnlyFans, is a top attraction over at SuicideGirls.com and sells her original video clips on top sites such as ManyVids. iWantClips and Clips4sale. She has since been featured in XBIZ Magazine, posing for the cover as the trade publication’s first-ever model with an ostomy, as well as Hustler E-Magazine to promote her inspiring Disabled Sex Workers Calendar. She also won 2020’s XBIZ Cam Award for Best Inked Model and 2021’s XBIZ Best Cam Model. To learn more visit goaskalex.com

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Ava Rose is a 32 year old musician, research analyst, media expert, activist, trauma survivor, and former retail manager who is just starting to work as a gender/sexuality/relationships coach in Northern California. Creatively, she describes herself as a ‘former suburban feral child’ who escaped an abused upbringing, coming out with ‘titanium bootstraps’ and a rebellious passion for finding balance & beauty in the personal investments and media entertainment we sometimes overlook or receive passively.

Three decades of toxic instability in her home life culminated in a total disconnect from most of her family & friends during the height of the pandemic. Ava has spent the last two years recovering on the sidelines, transitioning (with minimal access to local care/support), writing new music, building up her self-owed business with ever- expanding professional qualifications, and learning to absolutely embrace the person that—for so long—she hadn’t been allowed to fully explore. With a genuine appreciation for the ‘cultural melting pot,’ a loud passion for progress, a humble spirit, and a bit of a sharp wit, Ava aims to live the best life she can as an ‘out’ transgender, pansexual artist/consultant/comforting shoulder, and to support the communities she most identifies with. Although she’s much happier, healthier, safer, and more complete in herself, today, Ava looks to an even brighter future in bridging her great passions—Music, Advocacy, Humanism, Catharsis, and a bit of Sarcasm—helping to break the echo chambers we often perpetuate in our own thinking, decluttering our contemporary lives, raising the bar in our entertainment, and getting back to the political business of ‘pursuing happiness’ for each, every, and all persons. To learn more visit silagency.com

What does being a sub mean, and how does this show up in sex? What if someone who identifies as a sub and wants their partner to be more dominant in the bedroom, how can they approach this? How can submissive folks stay in their identity or role while still initiating sex with their partners? Master teacher and return guest Orpheus Black addresses all this and so much more.

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About our guest: Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness, the way strong modern men wish it to be. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. He does it all with the earnestness of a therapist, the knowledge of a guru, and the charisma of a stage performer. 

With a helpful practice steeped in spirituality and intimacy, Orpheus is a living bridge between healthy sex and enlightenment. Through a balanced integration of Afro-Buddhism, psycho-sensuality, and Taoist teachings popularized by the martial arts, his light-hearted lessons have become sought after internationally, even as counsel to the experts in his field. As a result, many today look to him as the “coach’s coach”. For groups, couples and individuals looking for a deeper exploration of self, shadow, kink, dominance and submission Orpheus Black regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and offers private coaching sessions.

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This episode is all about how to add more hotness and newness into your relationship. From exploring non-monogamy to kink to role-play, or just adding a little spice to your monogamous lover-ship, Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey has something to teach you.

About our guest: Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey is a clinical psychologist, sex/intimacy coach, author, speaker and podcast host based in London. With more than 30 years helping people create and sustain meaningful and exciting relationships, Dr. Bisbey specializes in GSRD (gender, sexuality, relationship diversity), is consensual non-monogamy and kink BDSM knowledgeable and helps traumatized people to move from victim to survivor and back into life.

On a mission to create an open dialogue about sex, relationships, and self-expression, Dr Lori Beth is the specialist relationship therapist guiding couples on Open House: The Great Sex Experiment (Firecracker Films, Channel 4) and the host of the popular podcast The A To Z Of Sex®.She’s also a passionate speaker, dynamic workshop/retreat facilitator, and sought after expert in the media on the topics of sex, relationship style, intimacy, and trauma.

Dr. Bisbey is the author of Chopping Wood, Shaping Metal & Other Erotic Stories, Dancing the Edge to Reclaiming Your Reality: Essential Life Skills for Gaslighting (and Trauma) Survivors and Dancing the Edge to Surrender: An Erotic Memoir of Trauma and Survival, and identifies as a queer consensually non-monogamous leather woman, and is in a full-time authority transfer-based relationship with her husband. To learn more, visit DrLoriBethBisbey.com.

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Why is monogamy so hard for so many long-term partnerships? What are the “new models” for monogamy, and how can both monogamous and non-monogamous partner/s work together to recreate the relationship as a means for better sex and connection? 

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About our guest: Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a licensed psychotherapist, Board Certified Sexologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist. She is a TEDx speaker and the host of The Trouble with Sex podcast. Her books include Getting the Sex You Want,  The New Monogamy, and her latest Open Monogamy. She is executive director of the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and has been a featured expert in NY Times, Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour Magazine, Cosmopolitan, RedBook, MSNBC, Men’s Health, Woman’s Day, and has been a source for Time Magazine. 

Dr. Nelson draws on her 30 years of experience as a relationship and sex therapist to provide advice and tools for finding one’s place on the “monogamy continuum,” having honest and respectful communication, making relationship agreements, and more. To learn more or buy her book go to drtammynelson.com

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We have a Never Have I Ever__! event coming up May 24th 530-630pm PST. Not only will Amy and April be there, but we are also giving away free passes to Amy's online Orgasm 101 class.

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Why is it so common for vulva-owners to experience pain during penetrative sex, and what are some of the solutions? What about hemorrhoids? Can people with hemorrhoids still explore and enjoy anal sex? And if so, what can they do to make it more pleasurable? 

Trigger warning: We talk a lot about bowel movements AKA poop in this episode. But hey, everybody poops, right? 

To learn more about our guest: Dr. Meredith Brezinski is a pelvic health and orthopedic physical therapist located in Portland, Oregon. Meredith provides one-on-one, in home, concierge physical therapy services which eliminates the stress of commuting to an appointment, hiring childcare, and worrying about sharing the intimate details of your story with an entire clinic. Dr. Meredith knows that every person has a story to share and having time with your provider is often the piece that is lacking in our traditional healthcare system. Meredith will help you determine the root cause of your symptoms, develop a plan for relief, and help you get back to what is most important - living your best life!

Meredith also serves as the Director of Pelvic Health for Concierge Physical Therapists, a nationwide company, that offers all in home services to their clients. We have therapists in 14 different states in the US and continue to grow to more locations. If you are interested in finding a therapist near you, you can find out more info at www.conciergephysicaltherapists.com.

Meredith received her Doctorate of Physical Therapy at University of Colorado Anschutz Medical Campus in 2016 following her Bachelor of Science in Exercises Physiology at West Virginia University in 2013. She has completed numerous courses specific to pelvic health through Herman and Wallace Pelvic Rehabilitation Institute. 

Meredith loves everything outdoors and can be found hiking, backpacking, on the water, or hanging out with her dogs Luke and Leia. She lives with her husband Will in Portland Oregon.

If you would like to contact Dr. Meredith, you can reach out with these links below!

Website: www.drmeredithbrezinskipt.com

Instagram: @dr.meredithbrezinskipt

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In this fun in-person recording we collaborate with two badass women - Natasha Root, the creator of the successful Fan's Utopia site where she sells porn performers used panties, sex toys and more - as well as Kenna James, an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. While our main intention was to focus on the porn industry as well this lucrative business Natasha has created, we also somehow end up getting a free Anal 101 lesson as well. Enjoy!

About our guests: Natasha Root is a Los Angeles Native and fashion executive-turned-entrepreneur. She is currently the Owner of the popular platform, Fans Utopia, which connects fans with their idols on a deeper level, while also enabling adult talent to earn the money they deserve.

She began working nearly two decades ago at her dads autobody shop, which instilled her the go-getter attitude that has led her to where she is today. Prior to starting Fans Utopia, Natasha was a model, and held positions at Capitol Records, designing clothes for band’s tours, and a cobbler company where she repaired high-end fashion goods.

As a former director of a cobbler company, she handled all business operations and quickly learned the ins-and-outs of product design and fashion. At 34 years old and nearly two decades of work experience, her unique background and go-getter attitude lead her to create her own ecommerce platform, Fans Utopia. She was no stranger to the porn industry, having grown up and lived in LA her whole life. Once she had an idea to start a platform to bring together their fans and idols there was no looking back. She brings to Fans Utopia decades of experience working in client service, fashion, and entertainment to the company.

She turned what started out as a local, LA-based startup into an international company in no time. As the Owner of the company, she continues to lead all business operations and works closely with adult talent worldwide.

She’s been featured in several times in Goop and well-known fashion blogs. To learn more visit https://fansutopia.com/

Kenna James is an award winning adult star and model, as well 2016’s Penthouse Magazine Pet of the Year. You can purchase items from her most famous scenes and live streams at fansutopia.com, and to see all of Kenna’s work visit kennasjoint.com. For her social links visit: 

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Episode #258 was all about how to give blowjobs and handjobs (on/with) penis-owners, and now it's time for Alicia and Erwan Davon to join us once again to give us all the juicy tips on how this applies to vulva pleasure. They talk about everything from their top techniques for manual stimulation to oral stimulation to how to have extended orgasms along the way. 

Note: We had a bit of a technical issue so we apologize if the audio quality is not top notch :/

About our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon have become the go- to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support.

Erwan is the founder, senior teacher and president of San Francisco based Erwan Davon Teachings. Together with Alicia, who has a Masters in Psychology and training as a therapist, they specialize in supporting singles in getting into passionate and successful relationships, and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of romance and intimacy.

Based in the SF Bay Area, Erwan and Alicia provide a high end boutique service that gives their clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. They offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. 

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To work directly with them, Text 415 308 9580 or click this link: https://erwandavon.com/consult/

Follow them on Instagram at @davonmethod

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Sex Educator and Sex Hacker Kenneth Play returns to teach us his top sex hacks from fulfilling fantasies to curating a mind-blowing 90 minute orgasmic experience to multiple orgasms, unlocking erogenous zones, being a great lover no matter what size you are, and so much more. You definitely do not want to miss this one, and be sure to check out his new book Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence.

Also, join our free Shameless Sex community on Discord! This week we are hosting a fun Meet 'n' Greet event (online) where we share sex stories from challenges to celebrations on Thursday, April 21st at 530pm PST: https://discord.gg/nvXqTEcBTg

About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. After his 15 years of experience as a personal trainer, he leveraged the best of the fitness education model to re-envision sex education, and has now helped millions of men gain sexual competence through rapid skill acquisition. His newest course, Sex Hacker Pro, features 70+ videos and over 12 hours of content, and was described by AskMen as having “at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several.” He partnered with Dr. Zhana Vrangalova to conduct the world’s largest scientific survey on female ejaculation. He has guest lectured on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. He cofounded Hacienda, a sex-positive community space which empowers sexual exploration through hands-on sex education workshops and events. Go get Kenneth’s latest book, Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence now at kennethplay.com/book and be sure to checkout his sex hacker pro course at kennethplay.com 

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Return guest and badass sex-ed priestess Layla Martin joins us to talk all about how to have the best sex of your life. Listen to learn why she says "If you want to f**k a Goddess then you have to know you're a God". 

Be sure to check out her upcoming offerings:

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To check out her 21 Day Erotic Confidence Challenge, click here

About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram.

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What are the different types of erotic blueprints? How might each one show up in sex and relationships - both as superpowers and challenges? And how can folks to utilize their erotic blueprints in their daily lives in the bedroom and beyond? 

About our guest: Julianne is a women’s life and health coach, Erotic Blueprint Master Coach, Certified Somatic Sexologist Practitioner, and Certified Holistic Health Counselor. Her innovative Goddess Approach Methodology focuses on healing the mind, body, and soul so that women’s bodies not only become safe, but pleasurable, places to be. 

Her journey from physical and emotional abuse and disordered eating to the eventual choosing to come into love for herself gives her a unique foundation for helping women cultivate a healthy relationship with food so that they can reclaim their health and love their bodies. Ultimately, she helps women heal at deep levels so that they can strip away the stories that aren’t serving them, remind them of the lost parts of their souls, and remember the truth of who they are in their wholeness.

To learn more visit:

https://www.instagram.com/juliannevaccaro/

https://www.instagram.com/direct/inbox/

https://www.juliannevaccaro.com/

https://www.instagram.com/trppodcast/

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This episode includes a raw yet playful discussion of all the things we wish we knew about sex from our teenage years, to our 20's, to our 30's and soon to be 40's. We shamelessly share everything from our first sexual experiences to some of the not so great ones, to the tips and tools we've learned along the way where great sex and deep connection are now the standard (but with the understanding that we will be forever learning and growing). 

We both share our love and appreciation for getting our start in the field of sex-positivity by working at Amy's mother-daughter owned pleasure boutique purepleasureshop.com. Need some new toys or sexy goodies? Go support Amy's awesome mama by visiting the site, and be sure to use code SHAMELESSSEX for 15% off. 

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In this bonus episode we learn all about what it means to “maximize pleasure for for you”, as well as ways people can bring their personal pleasure game to the next level from both a burlesque star's and sex therapist's perspectives. 

To learn more, be sure to check out their offerings including their upcoming April 2nd, 2022 InToPleasure Virtual event here: intopleasure.com

About our guests: Michelle L’amour is an international burlesque star and empowerment advocate. She is the creator of InToPleasure and host of the podcast Look Down There. She has been featured on America’s Got Talent, MTVs Amazingness, Playboy and Sex Life on the Epix Network. She believes in life, liberty and the pursuit of pleasure. Nicoletta von Heidegger is a Sexologist, podcaster, educator, and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) based in Los Angeles. Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her MEd in Human Sexuality from Widener University. Nicoletta is currently pursuing her PhD in Human Sexuality from Widener. Nicoletta sees clients virtually and at a ranch where she also offers equine facilitated/ assisted psychotherapy. Nicoletta believes in embodied practice and is certified in levels I and II of The Trauma Resiliency Model as well as Level 1 of PACT. When not working with clients, Nicoletta creates and hosts the growing hit podcast Sluts & Scholars and teaches educational seminars and classes to help others learn about sexual and mental health.

One of the more common answers we share when addressing your sex questions is to go get support with a (sex) therapist or coach. But we realize taking that next step is not always an easy process. Return guest Keeley Rankin, M.A. and Sex and Relationship Coach joins us to answer everything from why it's helpful to work with a (sex and relationship) therapist or coach, to where to find them and the questions you should ask to see if they feel right to you, as well as red flags to watch out for, addressing and working around financial issues, and more. 

About our guest: Keeley Rankin received her master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. She’s trained in  Hakomi Therapy and trainings.com/r-cs/">Recreation of the Self. She specializes in facilitating deep erotic connections for couples and has been featured in media outlets such as the Huffington Post and Oprah Magazine as an expert in male sexual struggles where she created a Premature Ejaculation Mastery Video Course for men to learn to last longer in bed from the privacy of their own home. To learn more visit keeleyrankin.com

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Repeat guest Orpheus Black joins us to discuss everything from the differences between BDSM and Fetish, to tools and tips for spanking, face slapping and chocking - all with a great emphasis on pleasure, play, safety and consent. 

His expertise and relatable way of teaching will likely inspire you to want to learn more via his upcoming 2-part course on "The Erotic Art of Spanking" happening online April 2nd and April 9th, 2022. Space is limited so sign up ASAP at orpheusblack.com and be sure to use code SHAMELESS25 for 25% off

About our guest: Orpheus Black is a public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary with expertise in kink. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and he has been recognized by news resources like Mashable.com, Playboy, Marie Clair, and Ebony. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com

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Certified Sexologist and world renown educator Destin Gerek joins us once again to teach us all about penis-owners can learn to up their sexual confidence and skills - resulting in the high probability of becoming one of the best lovers their vulva-owning partners has ever had. Not only does he dive into the qualities of what makes a great lover, he also shares plenty of tips, tools and practices that you can begin to implement in your life whether you are single, dating or long-term partnered. In other words, if you are a penis-owner/man who is, has or will be having sex with vulva-owners/women, we strongly suggest you listen to this episode. Oh, and be sure to take him up on his offer to give you more FREE content by clicking here: evolvedmasculine.com/shameless

About our guest: Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves”. Destin is also an international speaker and host of the podcast, "The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power, & Success".   His innovative lens is the result of more than 20 years of academic rigor and direct study -- including 7 formative years traveling the world living and teaching as his provocative alter ego, ‘The Erotic Rockstar’. He has taken the most potent aspects of his bold life experimentation and integrated it into his iconic body of work, directly supporting thousands of men to have better sex, deeper connections to their masculine power, women, and themselves. Destin is also is the creator of the groundbreaking and life changing 12 week Sexual Self Mastery Training Program. To learn more visit evolvedmasculine.com/shameless

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Dear friend and Shameless Sex Podcast's "resident sex therapist" Dr. Nan Wise returns to teach us all about how to talk about sex with our (sexual) partners while answering sex questions sent in from listeners. Dr. Nan makes those intimidating conversations fun, sexy...even easy! 

About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and behaviors in relation to sex and other aspects of human experience. Having returned to academia to pursue a Ph.D. in cognitive neuroscience, she is now a cognitive neuroscience researcher at Rutgers University-Newark.  She is the author of the book Why Good Sex Matters and has contributed her expert opinion to outlets such as National Geographic, The Atlantic, Time, Glamour, Women’s Health Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, Romper, and Bustle. To learn more visit askdoctornan.com

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Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando -  two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame.  With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. 

About our guests: Hard or Soft Podcast is hosted by Tahoe and Orlando -  two men who candidly speak about their exploration in the world of sex. The goals of these conversations are to offer the typically taboo perspective of men being open with their sexuality while simultaneously providing a safe place for women to understand men more, and for men to feel comfortable exploring in this realm without shame.  With new episodes every week, the hosts engage in educational, and honest conversations with a wide variety of interesting and unique guests. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. 

The only sex positive podcast that also has an active Only Fans. Hard or Soft is pushing the envelope in more ways than one and developing new and healthy beliefs around sex for their community.

Through their own personal journeys, the men have encouraged their audience to release the old traditional ideas of sex and approach sex, love, relationships and accountability  with open arms, and new understanding. To learn more listen to Hard or Soft Podcast on your favorite podcast app. 

https://www.instagram.com/tahoe_tv/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/hardorsoftpod/?hl=en

https://www.instagram.com/wh_orlandoroye/?hl=en

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What are the most common sex and relationship issues sex coaches are seeing these days? What are the tools to work through these common issues that may lead to better connection and great sex? Sex Coaching Pioneer Dr. Patti Britton answers all this and more. 

About our guest: Dr. Patti Britton has over 40 years of expertise as a clinical sexologist, author, and sex coach. Patti teaches professionals keys for helping their own clients/patients/ students find solutions to their sexual roadblocks. She is an entrepreneurial wizard who shares insights on how to create a thriving private practice—one that is anchored on a commitment to service. She is true spirit of generosity, and has a drive to manifest social change for a sexually healthy world. To learn more go to sexcoachu.com

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Return guest Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋", joins us to talk about f*cking. Why are so many vulva-owners not enjoying penetrative sex? How can folks learn to be a master f*cker - both as a giver and receiver? We also talk about positions, techniques, toys and so much more. 

About our guest: Susan Bratton, "Intimacy Expert to Millions💋" is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long.  She is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality.  A best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. Susan has been featured in the New York Times and on CNBC and the TODAY show as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, Fox and NBC. You can find The Susan Bratton Show® at BetterLover.com, her personal shares on Instagram @susanbratton, and her lust-for-life supplements, FLOW and DESIRE at The20store.com.

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What are some of the most common issues penis owners are facing when it comes to their sexual health and performance? What advice are the top 50 doctors sharing on working with these shifts? What new medical sciences and technologies are available to "the 21st century man"? Dr. Brandeis answers all this and so much more. 

About our guest: Dr. Judson Brandeis is a graduate of Brown University and Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, with Urologic Surgery residency at UCLA and a post-doc fellowship at Harvard, today he specializes in the emerging field of sexual health and medicine. Dr. Brandeis helps men everywhere feel great, look good, and have better physical intimacy.

Over the course of his 25-year career as a board-certified urologist, he has performed thousands of surgeries and pioneered surgical robotics. In 2019, Dr. Brandeis decided to follow his true passion and opened BrandeisMD, a national leader in technology and sexual medicine innovations.

As a sexual medicine expert and educator leading courses all around the country, he approaches the subject of male sexual wellness with enthusiasm and an ability to explain complicated topics in ways the listener can understand. Dr. Brandeis is intimately familiar with the challenges men face as they age. Helping men meet these challenges and optimize their health inspires his commitment to clinical research, compassionate patient care, and education of other physicians. To learn more visit brandeismd.com. To buy the book visit: thetwentyfirstcenturyman.com

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What is semen retention and how it relates to sexual mastery (and multiple orgasms!)? Why would someone want to learn to do it? What are some simple tools that penis owners can use for sexual mastery? 

About our guest: Fabienne is a California based Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men and other penis-owners develop sexual mastery, offering them the perspective and insight of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She guides people to use their sexual energy with integrity and intention to get more in touch and in love with their authentic selves and sexual expression. Fabienne loves to create, explore, and play with the form she has arrived in. Her mission is to be a loving witness to each person's strange, creative, beautiful selves, and to support others and herself to continue to heal in order to step into a freer form of self-expression and celebration of life. Find out more about Fabienne’s work at fabienneannick.com or on Instagram @fabienneannick

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Edward is passionate about teaching powerful practices to help embody true leadership with clarity, presence, and authenticity from the bedroom to the boardroom. He holds a 2nd degree black belt in Aikido and is a senior instructor of Sheng Zhen Meditation. With this unique combination of martial arts, movement, and meditation he has helped thousands of people relax their bodies, quiet their minds, and embody the wisdom of an open heart full of love. He is the founder of Knot Love, an open-hearted approach to erotic rope play. He also providers leadership coaching through Willey Leadership. His 8-week men’s self-leadership program Awaken the Leader Within begins Feb 22nd. Also, register for his free online workshop Essential Self-Leadership Skills For Better Sex on Feb 10th at 5pm PST here: https://mailchi.mp/3cb6ebe9eecc/self-leadership-for-better-sex

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This episode is packed with all kinds of goodies on how to navigate modern day relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, or wanting to add a third, the hosts of the Multiamory Podcast offer tools and tips on how to deepen connection, sharpen communication skills, and do relationships in a way that works for you as a unique sexual being. 

About our guests: Jase, Dedeker, and Emily, created the Multiamory Podcast in 2014 because they were tired of the same old toxic dating advice. They offer new ideas and advice for multiple forms of love: everything from conscious monogamy to ethical polyamory and radical relationship anarchy. They combine the knowledge from their years of personal experience with the best information available and present it in a way that’s entertaining, thought-provoking, and easy to apply to your relationships to. They have been featured in Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Vice, as well as offering talks at large-scale companies such as Google. Learn all about Multiamory at multiamory.com.

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Alicia and Erwan join us once again to talk all about oral and hand pleasure for penises. They share their three top techniques for manual and oral stimulation, as well as plenty of other juicy tips on how to be a great giver. Be sure to check out Alicia and Erwan's upcoming online Valentine's Day Pleasure Course by clicking here 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others. Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more visit pleasurecourse.com

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We are so excited for this interview! Barbara Carrellas is Amy's favorite Tantra teacher as she beautifully blends sex, intimacy, BDSM, and Tantra in a way where everyday folks truly can access ecstatic orgasmic bliss. We talk all about how to think and breathe ourselves into orgasm, as well as the power of breath in orgasmic potential. 

Note: We had some audio issues so we had to switch over to Zoom for this recording. Please be gentle with us. The interview starts at minute 14. 

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About our guest: Barbara Carrellas is the founder of Urban Tantra®, an international community, a philosophy, and an inclusive sacred sexuality practice that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now in its second edition, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving. Her books, workshops, and lectures are an eclectic mix of sexual and spiritual practices designed to encourage readers and participants of all genders, sexual orientations and sexual preferences to expand their capacity for both pleasure and spiritual fulfillment. She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine, and was presented with a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. Barbara is a proud graduate of the Coney Island Sideshow School with a double major in fire eating and snake handling. To learn more visit: barbaracarrellas.com

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In this episode we interview the creators of Bonobo Network - a sex-positive community that hosts sex parties, as well as educational workshops, retreats, potlucks, happy hours, discussion groups, online mixers, interviews, and so much more. We talk all about the ins and outs of sex parties, the importance of safety and consent, and how connection and community serve to create more aliveness in our everyday lives. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16.

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About our guests: William is the founder and co-organizer of Bonobo Network. In 2014, the San Francisco Chronicle named William Winters the "de facto king of the East Bay polyamory scene." He's been working to earn the title ever since.

William’s perspectives on non-monogamy, often through the lens of his own relationships, have appeared in Love-The-highs-lows-and-endless-trade-offs-6153504.php">San Francisco Magazine, KQED's Forum, the of-love-27625.php">San Francisco Chronicle, and the marriages-non-monogamy.html">New York Times. He has facilitated conversations about polyamory and sexuality in settings including university campuses, political conferences, living rooms, festivals, Burning Man, and beyond. He lives with his wife and their stupid cat in Oakland, CA.

Misha Bonaventura co-produces Bonobo Network with William. Alongside William, she is passionate about supporting sex positive community and helping people create more pleasure for themselves. She teaches and consults individuals and communities to develop their consent culture with a harm reduction and transformative justice lens. Her private practice, Clearing Conversations, focuses on conflict resolution and communication coaching and she loves supporting the sex positive community of the Bay Area and beyond in creating sustainable, long-term relationship building.

To learn more about Bonobo Network, visit bonobonetwork.com

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What’s the problem with striving for 50/50 fairness in modern day marriages and relationships? How does an 80/80 approach lead to more connection and far less conflict?  What does “the way you do life is the way you do sex" mean, and what 80/80 tools can couples apply to their relationships to inspire more intimacy and great sex? Nate Klemp, PhD answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about how to talk to a partner about keeping it casual. 

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Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 22. 

About our guest: Nate Klemp is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. Along with his wife Kaley, he is the author of the newly released The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage (Penguin Random House). He is also the coauthor, with Eric Langshur, of the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing and is a regular contributor for Inc. Magazine, Fast Company, and Mindful. He is also a founding partner at Mindful, one of the world's largest mindfulness media and training companies. Nate holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University. To learn more visit 8080marriage.com

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What is “mind-blowing sex”? What gets in the way of having it? How can folks begin to move from "okay" or "good" sex to MIND BLOWING life-altering sex - not just from time to time but as a regular part our lives? The incredible Layla Martin shares all this and so much more. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. 

About our guest: Layla Martin is a visionary rebel who teaches on sexuality, relationships, and self-love to people across the globe. Her devoted study of Tantra for 18+ years along with her sexuality studies at Stanford University have informed her unique teaching process and the creation of her proprietary VITA™ Methodology. Her programs have taught over 12,500 women, men, and non-binary people her method of using breath, sound, movement, meditation, and energy awareness to awaken their sexuality and reclaim their power and worthiness. She is a thought leader who combines mystical practices with the most up-to-date scientific approaches to transformation to enable radical liberation, rapid change, and outrageous pleasure. Her highly effective programs, tools, and practices empower you to experience exquisite sex, shameless self-love, and incredible depths of intimacy. She’s the founder of the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA™) and the creator of the VITA™️ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification, the VITA™ Sacred Sexuality Initiation, and other programs. She’s shared her work with over 135 million people through her YouTube channel and has a weekly email audience of 375,000+ people. If you want to experience epic sex, legendary love, and your most magnificent self, visit Layla’s website and follow her on Facebook and Instagram.

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The holiday's are here and it's cold outside (at least where we live), so why not keep it hot by adding more pleasure into the mix? In this episode we share a number of sexy gift ideas that will inspire more eroticism and connection in your life including some that won't cost you a dime. We also share our top sex toy gift ideas for this holiday season. 

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Return guest Dr. Alison Ash joins is to talk all about fantasies: What kind of things do people most commonly fantasize about? What if we fantasize about someone other than our partner? Are fantasies and actual role play (acting them out) the same thing? Also, how can we up our fantasy game whether alone or with a partner?

We also answer a sex question about jealousy over a partner's past sexual partners. 

Want to skip for the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. 

About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of TurnON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for.    

As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. 

Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love

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Well this was a fun one. Our dear friend and Somatic Healer Ian Stratton joins us to talk all about how we can become our best selves in all fields including in relationships, with purpose and passion, and within our own being. Stay tuned for a playful yet informative episode. 

We also answer a sex question about helping a partner deal with "premature ejaculation" shame. 

About our guest: Our friend Ian Stratton is a man on a mission to help liberate others from trauma and unconscious programming, bringing their passions to life. He does this through his training as a somatic counselor, ethical use of psychedelics, and his latest offering and creation - a deep-dive program called Altared. To learn more visit santacruzmedicine.com and Altared.life

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Ams and Kat from the 2HotWives podcast tell us all about their adventures opening up their longterm marriages and then venturing out into "the lifestyle". From everything including MMF and FFM threesomes to sexy house parties and swinger resorts, they share all about their experiences and even offer a few tips on how to do so lovingly and ethically. 

We also answer a sex question about load and ball size. 

Want to skip to the interview. Fast forward to minute 16.

About our guests: Ams and Kat, hosts of the 2HotWives podcast, are on a mission to create a community where like-minded women can explore their sexual interests and embrace great sex as the ultimate in self-care. Both are deeply committed wives and mothers, exploring sex on their terms. Now, they have a podcast together and talk about open marriages, kink and BDSM, meeting couples to play with, seeing their partners with someone else, and the joy that phenomenal sex brings to their lives. To learn more visit 2hotwives.com

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What is the prostate all about? Where is it located, how is a prostate orgasm different from other orgasms, and how can toys help? Also, what are the health benefits of using prostate massagers such as Aneros? Return guest and prostate expert Forrest Andrews answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: I love my partner but I want more sex than she does and I feel like a scumbag...what should I do about this? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 21.

About our guest: Forrest Andrews is the Product and Business Development manager of Aneros. Forrest's relationship with Aneros began in 2002 and he has played an important role in the evolution of the company and their products ever since becoming their sole product tester and a consultant for the development of new products. Between 2003 to 2012 he mentored many hundreds of men helping them transition to new levels of sensual awareness through prostate massage. To check out all of Aneros’ incredible line of products go to aneros.com

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In this episode we talk about squirting, gushing, g-spots and so much more with sex educator and (soon to be) author Kenneth Play. Kenneth shares the biology behind how it works as well as plenty of tips and tricks on how to do it (whether you are the giver or receiver). If you've ever wondered about squirting then you definitely do not want to miss this one. 

We also answer a sex question about losing/lowering libido after menopause. 

If you want to skip to the interview, fast forward to minute 22. 

About our guest: Kenneth Play is an international expert on female pleasure who was named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ & Men’s Health. Kenneth has been featured by more than 100 media outlets including The New York Times, Nightline, Cosmo, Playboy, Vice, and Huffington Post. Kenneth’s forthcoming book, “Beyond Satisfied: A Sex Hacker’s Guide to Endless Orgasms, Mind-Blowing Connection, and Lasting Confidence”, will be released in 2022. To learn more visit kennethplay.com and use code SHAMELESS for 50% off his sex hacker pro course or play.mykajabi.com/offers/a2b9tpZT?coupon_code=SHAMELESS"> click here to redeem

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Why is productivity valued above pleasure, and how does this harm sex and relationships? What about those folks who say “I just don’t have time (for sex/connection)? How can busy folks (and parents) add more pleasure into their daily lives? 

We also answer a sex questions about how to fulfill your bisexual partner's fantasies. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: Lisa Welsh is a Sexual Empowerment and Pleasure Coach who helps people to overcome sexual shame and insecurities so that they can step into their true orgasmic nature. She started out as a life coach, and gradually moved into the realm of sexuality after discovering the healing impact of reclaiming this part of her own identity. Lisa’s life used to revolve around her to-do list. As a busy mum with massive body image issues and no time for herself, sex started to feel like another chore to complete. She learned to put on an act to make her partner feel good and get it over as fast as possible. Eventually Lisa was forced to admit that she was losing ‘herself’ and decided to turn inward to remove the barriers she had erected over the years… she dedicated years to reading, learning, self-study and personal experimentation to re-stoke that fire in her belly and now she guides women to do the same. To learn more visit www.inbedwithlisa.com

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"Sexting" culture is pretty huge right now, so we decided to invite Kyer Wiltshire - one of our brilliant photographers who specializes in capturing the Natural Beauty through the lens of being nude in nature - to share all about DIY erotic photography whether you want to take a  sensual photo of yourself at home or outdoors, or for material to send to a lover. We also chat about tips on lighting, props, positions, angles, as well as how taking sensual or nude photos of ourselves can help us love our bodies even more.  About our guest: Kyer began taking pictures as a teenager, documenting my outdoor lifestyle, backpacking, and climbing in the Pacific Northwest. Later he lived in Spain, Latin America, and Thailand. He is based in Santa Cruz, California, and Bali. Kyer’s photographic focus has been on yoga, weddings, portrait, travel, and event photography. He has also published four books. His first book is Tribal Revival: West Coast Festival Culture, a gorgeous coffee table book that was published in 2009. His second book is Hot Spring District. It’s a photo essay of Truth or Consequences, a funky artists enclave and hot springs in southern New Mexico. His third book is Tirta Gangga. In the spring of 2016, I photographed the Royal Water Palace of Tirta Gangga, the water gardens, ceremonies, and dance performances that took place there.

His 4th book - called Natural Beauty - was released in 2021, and it represents his finest work. It celebrates the nude female form together with Mother Nature and the progress women have made around personal choice and individual sovereignty. Follow him and get sneak peak of his celebratory masterpiece on Instagram at  @kyernaturalbeauty as well as @kyerweddings

To buy his beautiful book visit kyernaturalbeauty.com   To learn more about his other professional offerings visit kyerwiltshire.com

Well this was a fun one. World renown comedian Lisa Lampanelli has joined forced with Nick Scopoletti and Beau McDowell to create the Losers With a Dream Podcast. Lisa is 60, celibate and couldn't be happier to be done with the deeeaakkk. Nick is dating, finally over blondes and loves women who ask for what they want. Beau is in love and still frustrated that his testosterone forces him is masturbate everyday. Note: This podcast is a mix of playful (sometimes mildly harsh) comedy and vulnerable real talk about sex and relationships. Be prepared to laugh and feel all the feels. 

We also answer a sex question about getting put in "the friend zone". 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. 

About our guests: Comedians Beau McDowell and Nick Scopoletti suck at dating, suck at jobs, and suck at most things in life. But they’re great at talking about their feelings and taking advice from their mentor, the former Queen of Mean Lisa Lampanelli. Losers With a Dream releases an episode every week and can be found on all the podcast apps. And be sure to follow @lisalampanelli on Instagram

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In this super fun and informative episode with Sexpert Sunny Megatron we talk all about kink and BDSM, why learning more strategic "soft skills" are key, as well as plenty of playful and sexy tips and tricks on bringing more kink into your erotic life. 

We also answer a sex question: Is it okay to go outside of my marriage if my partner isn't satisfying my sexual needs? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. 

About our guest: Sunny Megatron is a sexuality & kink educator and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, SEX with Sunny Megatron, plus co-hosts the AASECT Award winning American Sex Podcast and Open Deeply Podcast. 

Sunny is a Certified Relationship Coach and American College of Sexologists International Certified Sex Educator plus was voted XBIZ 2021 Sexpert of the Year and Kinkly’s Sex Blogging Superhero of 2017. She’s been featured by outlets like Cosmo, Playboy, Buzzfeed, and CNN, plus is a contributing editor of XBIZ Premiere Magazine and a regular columnist for Sexual Health Magazine. Her first book, Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Erotic Play will be released in 2022. 

In her sell-out sex and kink workshops, Sunny’s unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping people become their authentic, sexual selves by learning to overcome shame and shed inhibitions. As a lifestyle BDSM enthusiast, her work focuses on demystifying non-normative sexual practices, amplifying erotic intelligence, and ending stigma.

LINKS 

sunnymegatron.com

twitter.com/sunnymegatron

tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron

instagram.com/sunnymegatron

facebook.com/sunnymegatron

Americansexpodcast.com

opendeeplypodcast.com

patreon.com/americansexpodcast

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Why and when does passion go out the window in so many long-term relationships? What are some tips and tools for lovers/couples to revive it? 

We also answer a (graphic) sex question about what to do about upset stomach/bowels from "finishing inside" after anal sex. 

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About our guest: Naomi Slater is an experienced love & intimacy coach, host of the “Divine Couples” podcast, yoga teacher and bio-energy therapist. She is the creator of the online course “Awaken Your Desire” - helping women reclaim their wild and powerful divine feminine. Naomi’s passion is guiding women and couples to heal their relationships and reclaim their power, pleasure and passion. To learn more visit ​​couples.com/">divine-couples.com. To sign up for her free masterclass go to awakenyourdesire.com

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How can partners get through conflict and come back to being in a loving, connected place? How can partners help each other with their triggers? And what if the triggered person triggers you? Relationship expert and author Jayson Gaddis answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: What do I say when my partner asks me what I want but I have no idea, and how can I learn to orgasm through penetrative sex? 

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How can penis-owners step into their dominant power both in and out of the bedroom (without turning into "toxic masculinity")? What are the four most impactful keys to helping folks develop their personal masculine? And what are some fun/juicy tips for listeners who want to bring more kink into the bedroom? Orpheus Black - BDSM expert and three-time leather title holder with 20+ years of experience in the Dom world answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about "dirty talk". 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. 

About our guest: Orpheus Black is a Los Angeles-based public speaker, teacher, thought leader, and somatic visionary who specializes in the application of ancient wisdom in modern day settings. Orpheus aims to propel the intellectual and sensual evolution of masculinity both by challenging men to reconnect with its roots and by inviting them to embrace manhood in its fullness. In this role, he shares insights, offers tools, and speaks against societal norms of shame and repression. Orpheus regularly provides guided lessons at world famous staples in the S&M community and he has been recognized by news resources like Mashable.com, Playboy, Marie Clair, and Ebony. To learn more visit orpheusblack.com

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Autism is Antonio Myers’ super blessing in so many aspects of his life including sex and relationships. Antonio is "good, naked and unashamed", loves positive personhood, and lives by "love your neighbor as yourself", and "do no harm". 

Antonio identifies as Pansexual in that his sexual and romantic attraction to others is not based on sex or gender, as well as Pangender where his gender identity is not limited to one gender and may encompass many genders at once. He is ethically non-monogamous and has overcome physical and sexual abuse from folks who harmed him because of his Autism. Antonio also identifies as kinky, sexual, sensual, shapeshifter and energetic from Jaiya's Erotic Blueprints 

Antonio is a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, and disability advocate. He’s a Unitarian Universalist, a Progressive Liberal, and is about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, as well as economic, social, cultural rights and freedoms. He does servant leadership with boundless optimism and Oneness/Wholeness. 

Also be sure to check out Antonio's new book A Grandmother’s Unconditional Love - a life-changing book about unconditional love, deliverance and healing power that has been manifested in the life of an amazing, brilliant, loving autistic young man.  At the tender age of 2 the doctors told his parents that he would never be able to walk or talk. Today he is thriving, walking, talking and transforming lives. He is called Antonio Hope Myers because he gives people hope by sharing his story living with autism, being bullied in school as a child, dealing with trauma, depression and anxiety, and how he defied all odds and is living life victoriously and is an inspiration to people all over the world. To buy his book follow this link: https://linktr.ee/Tonio_softheart199

Also Antonio's socials and other offerings: 

Instagram: @highlypraiseworthygracemayor 

Podcast: TonioTimeDaily

Why are kegels important? Is there such things as doing too many kegel exercises? And for folks who have or are going to have a baby - what should they be concerned about regarding their pelvic floor? What changes should they be aware of? How does sex change? How long do you really have to wait to have postpartum sex? And what options are out there for more pleasure before, during and after having a baby? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Brooke Cates is the Founder & CEO of The Bloom Method, a pre and postnatal fitness method, redefining exercise for the modern mom. Brooke created The Bloom Method with a desire to empower women through movement before, during and after their pregnancies. Recognizing gaps in both the mainstream and pregnancy fitness worlds, she created a fitness method that consists of diastasis recti rehabilitation and prevention exercises, labor training, functional exercise movements and innovative core techniques that are designed to keep women strong and thriving through pregnancy and motherhood. In 2018, Brooke launched the first ever Pre and Postnatal virtual fitness studio making the education, tools, and innovative fitness classes of The Bloom Method accessible to women everywhere. Brooke is a Certified Personal Trainer, Pre & Postnatal Corrective Exercise Specialist, Diastasis Recti & Core Rehabilitation Specialist and Pre & Postnatal Holistic Health Coach. To learn more visit thebloommethod.com

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Erica and Milah of Good Moms Bad Choices joins us to talk about everything from talking to their kids about sex and why it's important to say "vagina", how smoking weed makes them better people/parents, what it's like being a sex podcaster and navigating the dating world, and the importance of being bad. 

"Whether you like threesomes on the weekend or smoking weed, you should be able to do whatever the fuck you want as long as it is not negatively affecting your child and your spirit”.

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. 

About our guests:  If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored and outspoken sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like and breaking life's archaic stereotypes. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! In fact, this audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. From guests like social Activists, Shaun King, to Porn Star parents, every week Good Moms deliver personal perspectives and voices that inspire and empower. Erica and Milah's sometimes "bad choices" keep this weekly podcast as entertaining and unpredictable as life itself. To learn more visit goodmomsbadchoices.com or listen on your favorite podcast app

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Why do a lot of vulva-owners experience painful sex? What can they do about it both holistically and via working with a medical professional? What about penis-owners who experience some form of "sexual dysfunction"? And how do the O-shot, P-shot, Femiwave and Gainswave work? Dr. Eisenbrown answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: Am I addicted to sex? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15.

About our guest: Dr. Eisenbrown is a private practicing urologist who is board certified in both Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery (FPM-RS).  Her practice is dedicated to restoring pelvic health in women. This includes all types of incontinence, but also includes reconstructive surgery for prolapse, female sexual dysfunction, stone disease, recurrent urinary tract infections, and all general urologic problems.

Dr. Eisenbrown graduated at the top of her class at the University of Florida in 1997.  She completed her general surgery and urology residency training also at the University of Florida in 2002. She became one of the first urologists in the country to become dual board certified in both urology and female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery in 2014. Although she is fully trained and all aspects of urology, her practice from the beginning has focused on female pelvic health issues.

Dr. Eisenbrown is a #1 best selling author of several books. Her newest book “Sometimes I laugh So Hard the Tears Run Down My Legs” was written to help educate women about this very common problem.  Her Earlier book “Why Does Sex Hurt” is written for women who suffer from painful intercourse. This, unfortunately, is also very common, but grossly undertreated so women suffer needlessly. Both are available in print or kindle on Amazon. To learn more visit https://www.dreisenbrown.com

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What does it mean to be a Feminine Dominatrix - both as a lifestyle and/or as a profession? What is the difference between physical and psychological punishment, and why might someone be into this? How does it serve them? What can everyday folks learn from FemDoms in terms of boundaries and how to be more dominant in the bedroom? And how do fetishes fit into FemDom work? Mistress Eva answers all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question: I'm a vulva owner and I can't orgasm from penetrative sex. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. 

About our guest: Eva Oh, aka Mistress Eva, is an International Dominatrix of Chinese-Burmese-English-Irish descent, and grew up across Asia, Australia and Europe. Her unique career began in 2012, when she left an unfulfilling corporate job to train at Sydney’s renowned Salon Kitty’s dungeons. She has since held select arrangements (and keys) from Berlin to Cape Town, London to Singapore, Dubai to New York – and back.

 Mistress Eva holds a deep enthusiasm for slave training and total power exchange; currently based in Bali, Indonesia, she runs an online slave training playground, YouWillPleaseMe.com, and tours the world for select engagements only. 

In addition to her work as a BDSM trainer, Mistress Eva also hosts the #teakink web series and SafeWord Podcast. She has also been featured high-profile media outlets such as VICE, Slutever, DAZED, Washington Post, Sinical Magazine and Kink Queens. To learn more, visit oh.com/">Eva-Oh.com

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What does the research say around why people want or choose non monogamy? How does someone know which relationship style is right for them? And what are some tips for folks who want to "open smarter"? 

We also read a testimonial from Dr. Shawn about how to navigate anal sex and hemorrhoids. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guest: Zhana Vrangalova, PhD, is a NYC-based sex and relationships consultant, speaker, and writer passionate about elevating society’s conversation about sex and relationships. She was born and raised in Macedonia, a small country in Southeast Europe, where traditional gender and sexual norms clashed with her own alternative sexual desires and interests, and inspired her to pursue a career of understanding and helping sexually adventurous individuals and couples live authentic, healthy, and ethical lives.

Dr. Zhana has a BA in psychology from the University of Saints Cyril and Methodius, and a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Cornell University where she studied how nontraditional sexual lifestyles (casual sex, nonmonogamy, and nonheterosexuality) affect psychological health and wellbeing. She currently teaches Human Sexuality courses at New York University, and hosts the global Uncensored conversation series. Her new online course, Open Smarter, helps people make smarter decisions about their relationship choices using their unique relationship personality. Join her weekly conversations on Instagram @DrZhana or visit DrZhana.com

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Return guest Samia Burton joins us to talk all about how to up your blowjob game. She even covers topics such as how to strengthen the receiver's (penis-owner’s) orgasm, as well as how to prolong their erection. 

We also answer a sex question: My wife likes anal sex but I'm not into it. How can I learn to like it? 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 13. 

About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous MouthMasterclass,  DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com

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Last week Erik Everhard taught us all about how to have great anal sex from a penis-owner's/top's perspective, so this week we are coming in hot from a bottom's perspective (AKA the person being penetrated). Happy Anal August everyone!

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Return guest, author, coach, porn star and adult film director, Erik Everhard, joins us to teach us all about anal sex from a top's (the one doing the penetrating) perspective. Happy Anal August everyone!

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. 

About our guest: Erik Everhard is one of world's top male porn stars, having starred in and directed over 3,000 films. Erik is a professional coach and one of the most decorated adult performers of the 21st century. He is a leading authority on sexual and mental techniques which can empower men and bring them success in the bedroom as well as in all other aspects of their lives. In addition to his wealth of practical knowledge, he holds a Masters level certification in Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP). To learn more visit erikeverhard.com

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Tim Lagman is a certified sex educator with the American College of Sexologists International and pleasure advocate based in Toronto, Canada. He began his sexual journey through escorting where he worked with a number of clients from different backgrounds and all walks of life ranging from couples, individuals, poly relationships, and everything in between. 

Tim then went to study at Durham College where he received his diploma in Business Management specializing in the music industry and graduated with honors. In his free time, Tim likes to volunteer and give back to the community through outreach in Toronto’s LGBT scene providing sex education and harm reduction resources to the public. It is his mission in life to make sex fun and funny as he loves to make people laugh and believes in the curative powers of laughter. Sex is already a sensitive and touchy subject..."We might as well laugh at the fart noises!". To learn more visit sexedwithtim.com or follow Tim on social media:

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What makes a great lover? How can both couples and singles up their sexual mastery skills? Return guests and dream couple Erwan and Alicia answer all this and more. 

We also answer a sex question about kegel balls/vaginal beads. 

Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18.

About our guests: For over 25 years Erwan and Alicia, who joined Erwan in 2003, have been working successfully with singles and couples, teaching their signature process – the Davon Method to hundreds of students in groups, retreats, and individual sessions and helping them create the relationships of their dreams. Erwan and Alicia have a unique approach to relationship coaching that combines their educational backgrounds in psychology and sexuality and aspects of Zen Buddhism to provide a holistic method to effectively improve connection with the self and others.

Erwan and Alicia have been together for almost 20 years and over 10K students have participated in their work since 1995. They have demonstrated their signature sensual technique, Extended Orgasm, for over an hour in front of 100 people. Their specialties are supporting singles in getting into turned on and intimate relationships and helping couples take their relationships to new heights of passion and intimacy. Erwan & Alicia offer all of their coaching and classes online and support students all over the world. To learn more visit pleasurecourse.com or:

• Book your free Love Life Consultation with Alicia- text her school at 415 308 9580 OR click this link to set it up https://erwandavon.com/consult/
• Sign up for The Pleasure Course, their 2 day online course where they dive deep into the Davon Method & the 5 key skills for a successful relationship: https://erwandavon.com/events/

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