Seher is a photographer, writer, and community facilitator- depending on who you ask, and depending on what she is feeling passionate about. To put it simply, you’ll find Seher somewhere at the intersection of art, culture, media, healing, social impact.

2016 was a deep personal and healing year. Experienced betrayal from a close relationship, and the energy healer she was working with encouraged her to work through not just that pain, but ancestral abuse patterns that were still showing up. So, she made an intention to make healing her full time job.

Listen in for how this came about and what came next for Seher. From “manifesting broke-ness” to stepping into her power as a community facilitator, Seher’s experiences make for a conversation full of wisdom.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— We are dynamic. There is no need to describe yourself one way, forever. It is beautiful to embrace all parts of ourselves.

— You don’t always know how long it will take to heal.

— We teach what we need to hear ourselves.

— Free writing is a good tool to get in flow and get in touch with your creativity by writing whatever comes to mind; automatic writing is a way to channel “downloads” or messages from your higher self or Source.

— There is a difference between pushing yourself and forcing yourself when it comes to putting yourself out there on social media.

— You can be yourself, and go slow with yourself, and still be successful by doing things your own way.

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Website: http://www.seher.co

Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/seher/

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• “I made an intention to make healing my full-time job.”
• “Social media is a battle of the ego.”

Over the years, China Brooks has been known as a professional actor, spiritual teacher, yoni egg guru, sales expert, human design practitioner, course developer, etc. And now? China helps groups and individuals craft and sell high value offerings aligned with their Great Work so that they can live a balanced spiritual and material life congruent with Source Consciousness...and being very well paid for it. How’s that for a bio?

In this episode, we dive deep into some incredible empowerment topics:

• Proper payment for practitioners
• Human Design
• How to know when enough is enough
• How to listen to your body

This conversation is truly radical. Get ready to take notes, powerhouses.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— There should be a value for value exchange for modern spiritual leaders. The practitioners worth their salt should be well paid- and also decide how they want to give back to keep this work accessible.

— Grid workers work with energetic systems, within humans, buildings, spaces, or systems. The grids themselves can be shifted so that there is a better flow of energy.

— Keep track of your intake- the podcasts, videos, books, people you surround yourself with.

— If we feel like we’re not getting something from someone, look at yourself and see if you are giving it to yourself.

— Be present in your body. If you think you are too good to be in this world, you are likely in another. All the answers will come when you connect with the earth.

— The mind is very linear. Human Design helps you make decisions without being limited by your mind and focusing on the whole body.

— Removing blocks within the subconscious mind can help you get what you want. It may not always happen as quickly as we want, but it’s about putting in effort and personal responsibility. Remember to play and have fun in between the work.

Links!

Website: http://www.chinabrooks.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chinabrooks/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ChinaBrooks

Go! Exercise video: https://youtu.be/6gxV4U0Y1vw

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• “Your attention is your currency.”
• “What can you change for yourself today?”

This episode is close to my heart, as a conversation with close friend and inspiration: Kirileigh Lynch. Kirileigh is an energy worker, intuitive, and yoga teacher working specifically with women, who literally lives the Eat Pray Love lifestyle. Yes, those are roosters in the background because she is in Bali. As of the recording of this podcast, Kirileigh is 51 weeks into traveling with nothing but a backpack.

When I met Kirileigh in Berlin years ago, she was married and teaching yoga full-time. But eventually, despite having students who looked up to her and everything seemingly “together,” she realized she was in desperate need of change. Kirileigh realized she was in a relationship that wasn’t serving her anymore, and at first was hesitant to do anything about it. Change isn’t comfortable after all. It took two Ayahuasca ceremonies and a lot of self-compassion, but she eventually gave up all her worldly possessions to travel and embrace her new calling: energy work.

And now? There’s no spiritual bypassing with Kirileigh’s work. She helps women connect with the inner truth that we are worth it, even if we forget. She teaches that we are all connected, and helps us connect with the contentment we can experience once that is internalized. This one is juicy.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— Sometimes we get messages in life that show us a better path, but as humans it can be hard to get out of our own way. When you hit rock bottom, or become sick of the pain, that can be a great catalyst into a brighter future.

— When you feel wounded, self-compassion and acceptance can allow you to help yourself and others.

— Start where you are, use what you have, and do what you can. Everyone wants to get instant results. Staying slow is an art and takes practice.

— We live in the real world. Not everything will look good on social media.

— Intuition isn’t always comfortable or convenient.

— Hearing is one thing, but being able to deal with something uncomfortable is another. Going slow helps in the transition.

— Micro-changes can invite adventure and freshness into your life, without changing everything you know.

— If you find yourself struggling to make a change, even if you know you need one, start by cultivating a relationship with your Self. Acknowledge and give your problems space. Connect with like-minded people.

Links!

Website: https://www.dateyrself.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luminousawakenings/

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• “You are the one you’ve been waiting for.”
• “Teach from the wound.”

Danielle Leslie is a former Silicon Valley online marketing gone entrepreneur. Her popular online intensive, Course From Scratch, helps people achieve their dreams by creating their own profitable online courses. In fact,  fact she helped Michelle go from teaching one on one clients to working in a powerful group setting-- and change completely change her business for the better.

So how did this all go down? Danielle has always been adventurous, optimistic, and passionate about seeing what people are into and helping them turn that into a career. In 2015, she was laid off from her full-time start-tup job and went to a Friendsgiving. To her surprise, multiple friends wanted to hire her. Instead of finding another Director of Marketing job, she listened to what the Universe was telling her.

This year, Danielle hit over a million dollars in revenue. With over 50,000 people enrolled in her courses worldwide, her only direction is up. Her current mood? Grateful and motivated to keep going and help more people, since that is what got her here.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— If the Universe is giving you sign after sign, listen to it.

— Ask yourself why you got into something in the first place. Connect with your mission, and then go with the most simple solution. Don’t overcomplicate things with technology or create more problems than actual solutions. Cut out any excess.

— You don’t need to be on a different level to get something done. If your goal is to help people, help them right now with the resources you have.

— People who are transparent about their failures have the ability to be our greatest teachers.

— Social media is an incredible tool for us to connect with more diverse role models.

— Realize that what makes you different if more powerful than coming from a place of lack. Being different doesn’t make you “less than.”

— Instead of worrying if you are a “culture fit,” understand that you are a “culture add.” Your set of experiences give you a unique lens.

— Set goals for yourself and use real world manifestation through consistency, surrounding  yourself with challenging people, and connecting to your Why.

Links!

Website: https://www.danielleleslie.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielleleslie/

Course From Scratch: https://coursefromscratch.com/sales-page9908230

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With so many labels in the spiritual community, how does one describe themselves in a way that fully represents our brilliance and power? By Gabriella Flores’ own account, she has been brought onto a path for a purpose that has been divinely guided and leads you on your healing path. In other words, she taps into your energy.

Growing up in Queens, Gabriella knew she was different. She would receive downloads, or messages, that no one else could hear. Her Catholic upbringing shunned her powers, and along with anything else that could be perceived to be the “devil.” Knowing that she wanted to channel her gifts into helping other people, Gabriella set out to become a psychologist or a teacher. But ultimately she knew that these labels could not make her happy.

Gabriella began her own spiritual journey and let philosophies and tools like veganism and meditation guide her forward. Today she is both a life coach and hypnotherapist- but don’t let the labels fool you. Gabriella is chock-full of wisdom and gives us the full download on this episode.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— Don’t limit your work to a label. Your power is more than a title or job description.

— Fasts are a good way to detach yourself from materialism and get closer to the bare structure of your existence.

— There are a chain of events and tools that teach us to listen to ourselves, and develop a deep internal confidence. Let those signals guide you onwards and upwards.

— The “stuff” we do in between achieving the next goal is real life. Be grateful for the in between.

— Writing is a great process to record and hold a non-judgmental space for yourself.

— Anxiety is energy. You can ride it out and channel that energy instead of saying, “I’m anxious, I’m anxious” and making yourself nervous.

— Life’s challenges are a test to see if you truly have learned a lesson.

— Allow yourself the space to figure things out and truly love yourself by taking the things you don’t understand and honoring them anyway.

— Your judgment will keep you from moving forward and making your thought process more positive. Once that is eliminated, you can be free.

Links!

Website: www.soulexcelsior.com

Instagram: @soulexcelsior

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• “We’re not brought here just to exist, we’re brought here to live out a purpose.”
• "Within the struggle and the process, there are so many gifts.”
• “In the darkness, you are grounded.”
• “Surrender to your vulnerability.”

Have you ever had an idea, but told yourself it would never really work, or that you are too busy, or you felt like you couldn’t do it by yourself? Sisters-in-law Mimi Hecht and Mushky Notik had an idea and brought it to life, all while having busy, growing families and guided by their Orthodox Jewish culture and faith.

In fact, their culture is what inspired their growing business: Mimu Maxi. Mi and Mu’s faith promotes modest attire and as fashionable NYC women, they simply weren’t finding a lot of stylish options that fit their needs. The sisters-in-law/work wives started with designing just one maxi skirt - and before they knew it, were spearheading a Modest Fashion Movement, being featured in Refinery 29 and even Vogue. Using social media as a powerful tool for connection and community building, Mimu Maxi has inspired dialogue and created community with so many different types of women and cultures coming together around their designs. While their business is growing in leaps, they’ve never let it get in the way of their growing families or their faith. It’s all about balance.

This episode is a powerful example to women who are building their dream life - inclusive of family, faith AND success. When G-d is your business partner, can you really go wrong?

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— Take your dream day by day, if you focus too much on the end goal you'll get overwhelmed.

— We don’t have to go it alone, de-isolation is powerful to keep ourselves accountable, supported, and inspired.

— If something in your life isn't flowing, put it aside and work on things that are happening.

— There's a difference between working hard and balancing important aspects of your life, and truly being in a struggle. The struggle doesn’t need to be real.

— The only competition we have is ourselves.

— If you have an idea, listen to the positive voice inside you and go with what’s natural.

Start small, start with what’s within your reach.

— It’s not worth it to be totally attached to your phone if something in your real life is taking a hit.

— Believing in something bigger can help relieve stress and help prioritize your values.

Links!

Website: http://www.mimumaxi.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mimumaxi/

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• "If you have an idea and an inkling that it’s a good idea, just start."
• "If you're open to hearing the message, you'll know where to go."
• “If it’s not natural to you, don’t do it.”
• “Blessings bring blessings.”

Vanessa Codorniu is the very first psychic guest on the Radically Selfish podcast, and she brings it. A Psychic mentor and Hypnotherapist, Vanessa tells us about why it’s more important now more than ever to listen to our intuition, the reality of coaching, and how to make our dreams come true.

At 16, Vanessa’s mother tested her abilities with a Ouija Board, and her family revealed their own psychic capabilities- Vanessa is a 4th generation medium. Her desire to heal herself, and a feeling that the earth could simply be better, inspired her to share her gift.

But she wasn’t fully ready to step into her power until a family vacation turned into a traumatic car crash. Seeing her life flash before her eyes without her work being fulfilled, and coming out unscathed, shook her to finally take the plunge. She immediately created a 9 month online program and vowed to never settle for a job or relationship that was less than her true calling.

Come for the story, stay for the thrills. This episode is one for the books.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— We’re all capable of tapping into our intuition.

— Intuition is about tapping into translogical information- energetic information beyond time and space. We’re all wired to receive energetic information, it’s just a matter of listening.

— Spend time alone, without screens, and let yourself be. Ask: what do I need to know right now? It may come in the form of a message, feeling, or vision.

— Stress and anxiety have no place while listening to intuition, the information won’t be helpful if we process it with fear. This information is objective and it needs to be treated like this. It comes from a wise place.

— We have to be careful about our intuition triggering our ego. A great first step is to sit with, and not doing anything with, the guidance we may receive.

— Listen to the things you naturally gravitate towards and share with others. Are you holding circles or hosting dinners? Tap into what you are coming back to and makes you YOU.

— Some people can’t create when they feel constricted- you have to know yourself and do things your way.

— Not everyone who advertises that they have the answers do, and sometimes those who don’t advertise do that for a reason.

Links!

Website: http://www.vanessacodorniu.com/intuitiveleverage/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intuitiveevolution_vcodorniu/

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• “We truly do have what we need within us.”
• “We can’t receive a download if we’re not even opening a door to receive those messages.”
• “If you are receiving information that seems to big to handle, allow yourself to sit with it.”

Miki Agrawal is an entrepreneurial powerhouse. While Miki’s success didn’t happen over night, it happened her way. In this episode, we chat all things business, authenticity, and challenging the status quo.

You may have heard of a few of Miki’s projects. There’s Thinx, the period-proof underwear. There’s Icon, the pee-proof underwear. Then we have Tushy, an affordable bidet attachment. Or if you are local to New York or Guatemala, you may have visited her gluten-free pizza concept- Wild. Miki isn’t afraid to tackle taboos, fix broken shit, or challenge the status quo. But she cites her upbringing from immigrant, entrepreneurial parents, and 7 years of unsuccessful fundraising and tinkering as key elements in her success.

But the real secret to Miki’s entrepreneurial empire? In all her years of trial and error, she learned that she shines most bright when she is authentically herself. Miki’s journey is an inspiration to every woman who perceives a problem and has the courage to fix it. From a recent college grad with constant stomach aches to a nationally recognized entrepreneur with another book on the way, Miki’s shares how you can take any struggle and use it to build your dream.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— Going through periods of discomfort will help build muscles within yourself to get through something, and put things in perspective.

— The more we talk about these “taboo” topics- defecation, sex, menstruation, etc- the more we normalize them.

— Americans eat 100 acres of pizza every day.

— If you are dealing with a difficult thought, you can simply file it for a later time to work through.

— The act of verbally acknowledging something lets resentment and negative energy out of your body, instead of keeping it all inside.

— We can have our moments of “Human-ness,” as long as we pull ourselves back into alignment and integrity, which our thoughts, feelings, and actions are all in sync.

— We’re constantly keeping ourselves small, how do we challenge ourselves to be great?

Links!

Website: https://www.mikiagrawal.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikiagrawal/

Pre-order Disrupt Her: https://www.mikiagrawal.com/books/

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• “3 questions to ask yourself before starting a new business, What sucks in your world, does it suck for a lot of people, and can I be passionate about this issue for a long period of time?”
• “What do we do with this luck? Let's go and build things that really support other people, support the planet, and improve the lives of everyone we can.”
• “Why is this not working? Oh, I’m not comfortable.”
• “When we talk shit, or troll, it’s keeping ourselves small”

Today I’m talking to Ev’Yan Whitney- sexuality doula, educator, and creator of the Sensual Selfie Challenge. As a sexuality doula, Ev’Yan helps women and femme identifying people who want to transition out of a life of sexual shame, dysfunction, and confusion, to step into the full expression of who they want to be. She stands for women who want to have full ownership over their bodies - hell yes!

Ev’Yan got her start as a popular blogger writing about fashion, love, recipes, and lifestyle - who could no longer blog about her seemingly perfect life due to some distressing issues in her marriage. Struggling with intimacy as a result of a purity contract signed when she was young, Ev’yan decided to be open about her experience and found that there were many women who could relate. Through honesty and vulnerability and courage, Ev’Yan built up her own tribe of open-minded individuals seeking sexual freedom - overcoming disapproval to fully stand in her truth, and allowing her marriage and career to thrive.

This episode highlights  a powerful journey of being seen, and helping others to be seen as well. Our experiences are not singular, they are often shared. If we humanize ourselves and share our imperfections and struggles, we can achieve joy. Thank you so much to Ev’yan for being fully herself, and using her experience to teach and inspire others.

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— Because sex is so taboo, many of us are disconnected with this part of ourselves.

— We can step out of the stories that were passed on to us, from religious beliefs to cultural myths, and into the full expression of who we want to be as sexual beings.

— Don’t be afraid of proclaiming that you use pornography as a way to get off, it’s a tool like any other for your sex life.

— When we explore the parts of ourselves that need attention, we have the power to really nourish others on the same journey.

— We have a desire for our struggles to be witnessed, and today we have that power to create our own visibility and be seen through community.

— Shame can make us feel alone and isolated, and we can’t let it allow us to hide. We can use our voice to reclaim our power and stand in our truth.

— When we take our sexuality back into our own hands, we can redefine what women’s sexuality means from a cultural perspective.

Links!

Website: http://sexloveliberation.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evyan.whitney/

Soundcloud: https://soundcloud.com/evyanwhitney

Today’s episode is all about championing marginalized people, in whatever way you can. Here to inspire and enlighten us is the incredible Ericka Hart, self-described black queer femme, Sagittarius, popcorn connoisseur, breast cancer survivor, and sexuality educator.

After a double mastectomy, Ericka went viral a few years ago when she decided to go topless at Afropunk. The decision was rooted in a desire to show her scars, and to give a voice to the black, brown, queer, and trans people who are all too often left out of entire conversations — including breast cancer.

It was also an opportunity for Ericka to reclaim her body, both as a cancer survivor and black femme. She believes that anyone who exists in a black body is inherently an activist, and has dedicated herself to educating people about how to survive American white supremacy.

From beauty and sexuality to identity and racism; from social justice and healing to marginalization and discomfort; Ericka weaves the pieces of her own story together to share with us how she came to stand up for people who can’t always stand up for themselves.  

More Radical Lessons in this episode:

— There’s so much evidence in the world to tell you why you can’t or shouldn’t do a thing; don’t let it force you to take yourself out of the game before you’ve even tried.

— America loves beauty, and beauty is privilege. If you have it, use your privilege to fight for the people who don’t.

— It doesn’t matter what you do. What does matter is if you’re fulfilled, how you identify, and how you navigate your identity.

— There’s a lot of learning that has to be done on a regular basis. How we think about ourselves is institutional, ideological, and exists around a set of principles that are in place for no other reason than to keep some people comfortable — usually white cis men.

— If you’re white, don’t just acknowledge your privilege: use it. Talk to your landlord about gentrification, put your housing on the line, fight for equal pay at work, and give black and brown people whatever resources you can.

— Healing isn’t always the goal; sometimes it’s important just to disrupt things.

— The life expectancy for a black trans woman is 35. Black mothers are dying at higher rates in this country than any other mothers, because of the physical and emotional stress of racism on their bodies. This is an epidemic, and we all need to uplift and liberate black femmes.

— All beings, if they want it, are desiring or deserving of pleasure in whatever way that looks for them.

Links!

Website: http://www.ihartericka.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ihartericka/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/ihartericka

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• “I’m always asserting wh