Over It And On With It

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Apr 15, 2023

01:03:57

My friend Brooke Nichol joins me to talk about how to build a business by being great at relationships with people. Brooke is a registered nurse and the owner of Saving Face in Austin, TX. Her specialty is relationships and keeping clients looking natural and the best version of themselves. She has organically grown to two locations, becoming the most sought out feel good destination in Austin.

She has an extensive background and training from world renowned plastic surgeons and experts in the field of aesthetics.

She was named top 100 injector in the US in 2018. She is a national trainer for Allergan and was named top 10 lip expert in 2020. Brooke serves on Advisory Boards for Allergan and Revance.

Brooke is a true entrepreneur who wears many hats. She is mama to two beautiful children, Knox (5), Miller (8). She created Post Love Skincare and will soon launch Saving Face Academy. There is much growth for Saving Face in the future and Brooke is quite certain that goodness will bring about more goodness.

Apr 12, 2023

00:31:47

This episode is about healing anxiety, unworthiness, and shame. Today’s caller, Matt, recently came clean about some secrets about his past with his partner. He sabotaged his relationship but would like to date again, fully able to love and commit. Any listeners who felt instability in their childhood will benefit from this conversation.

[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode396]

Often, the people who are most free-spirited are the adults who as children wanted stability and didn’t have it. They’ve never known stability so they have to fall in love with freedom or fall in love with not having accountability.

If you were adopted, didn’t have time with your mother, or something happened, it doesn’t mean you are doomed for life. Give yourself the dignity of your process. Give yourself the compassion, TLC, mothering, and nurturing you didn’t receive. Having compassion for yourself and an understanding of why you are the way you are is important.

Adoption is a beautiful thing. There are so many people who have had much better lives because they’ve been adopted versus if they had stayed with their biological parents. And people who choose to give their child up for adoption because they know another family could give them a better life are angels in so many ways. Adoption can create a beautiful life for someone.

And if you do meditation, or a personal practice with the intention of fixing something, remember nothing heals in judgment. Go into modalities to feel, to heal, and to allow what is there, not try to get rid of it. Because nothing heals when we think we are broken.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

Did you grow up feeling a sense of not belonging? Perhaps you were adopted, you were a different race or culture and you had that feeling of where do I fit?
Do you deal with a sense of anxiety?
Do you ever feel a sense of unworthiness?
Have you shown up in relationships, friendships, or any aspects of your life that you haven’t been proud of or that you have shame about?
Have you held secrets and told lies?

Matt’s Question:

Matt wants to start dating again but would like guidance on how to heal from his deep childhood wounding.

Matt’s Key Insights and Ahas:

He moved into a van to pursue a new life.
He felt isolated after three months.
He kept his trauma a secret.
He was sexually abused.
He was adopted by parents of a different race.
He used drugs and alcohol to cope with his trauma.
He is on a self-awareness journey.
He opened up to his partner and they broke up.
He cheated on his partner during their time together.
He joined a 12-step program.
He is struggling with rejection and failure.
He doesn’t truly trust himself.
He has always felt like an outcast in many ways.
He hasn’t been able to love and commit in past relationships.
He knows he is loved and wanted but often forgets.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Use meditation and breathwork to rebirth himself and remove judgmental thoughts.
Have compassion for his journey.
Know that he deserves to be loved and accepted.
Find a practitioner to help him love his inner child.

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Apr 08, 2023

00:46:08

If you want to truly understand the power of surrender and acceptance, don't miss this episode! KUTE BLACKSON is a beloved inspirational speaker and transformational teacher. He speaks at countless events he organizes around the world as well as at outside events including A-Fest, YPO (Young Presidents’ Organization), and EO (Entrepreneurs’ Organization). He is a member of the Transformational Leadership Council, a select group of one hundred of the world’s foremost authorities in the personal development industry. Winner of the 2019 Unity New Thought Walden Award, Blackson is widely considered a next generation leader in the field of personal development. His mission is simple: To awaken and inspire people across the planet to access inner freedom, live authentically and fulfill their true life’s purpose. www.kuteblackson.com

Apr 05, 2023

00:31:29

This episode is about love and relationships. Today’s caller, Rocio, is in a pattern that is blocking her from calling in love. She would like guidance on how much of her dating is based on divine timing or if there are things she can do to date from a more empowered, emotionally available space.

[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode395]

A lot of times we think we are emotionally available because we want love and connection and we’ve done the work to make ourselves vulnerable. But, often, there is a hurt part of us that is a protective mechanism that makes us put a guard up so we are not completely emotionally available.

We are co-creators in our life. The spirit of the divine meets us at the point of action and intention. If we are not actively participating in getting what we desire, then we are not fully meeting the divine at the point of action and intention. If we have fear, it can block us. A lot of the time we spend avoiding love because we are afraid of rejection more than we are into opening ourselves up and putting ourselves out there.

When we have a parent that created an anxious attachment style, we draw in people who trigger that feeling inside of us because we are attempting to heal it. As children, we can’t advocate for ourselves as we can as adults.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

Are you frustrated with dating and want to know how you can shift it?
Did you think everything was going well with the last person you dated and then it just didn’t work out? If you look back at it, did you miss some red flags?
Did you have a parent you craved more from and you can see how that wound impacts how you date?
Are you willing to be vulnerable, emotionally available, and honest about what works for you and what doesn’t?

Rocio’s Question:

Rocio would like guidance about how much she should trust timing and intuition to call in love.

Rocio’s Key Insights and Ahas:

She has been meeting emotionally unavailable guys.
She fears rejection and being vulnerable.
Recently she thought she met someone and their energies aligned but there were inconsistencies.
She feels that she is putting herself out there and trusting her intuition.
There were inconsistencies in her relationship with her father.
She is not fully healed from an unmet need from her childhood.
She wants to call in a relationship.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

If triggered, call it out and stand up for herself right away.
Normalize being emotionally available and asking for what she wants.
Don’t let her fear of rejection stop her from speaking her truth.
Trust herself to express her needs.
Remember the guys she dates are not her father.

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Apr 01, 2023

00:50:50

McCall McPherson is a Physician Assistant, a thyroid-patient gone expert after suffering for years due to mismanagement of her own thyroid disorder. She is the founder of Modern Thyroid Clinic, a functional medicine practice in Austin, Texas specializing in complex thyroid disorders and a believer that with proper care and treatment there is no reason to still have thyroid symptoms.

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Mar 29, 2023

00:37:28

This episode is about relationships. Today’s caller, Anthony, feels ready to call in love and fulfill his purpose but is unsure why he feels blocked. He would like guidance about how to move past the blocks and step into the life he desires.

[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode394]

If you are in your 20s, remember you have time. Be patient with yourself and be patient with the way life is going to unfold. Especially, those of you who are on a personal development path. There is a co-creation aspect to growth and there is a part of you, a higher-self part of you, that may keep you from some of the things your ego and mind want right now because how you are meant to evolve is more important.

Trust the unfolding of your life. Trust divine timing. And, try not to put pressure on yourself to get something by a certain age. Put intention into yourself to know yourself, love, accept, and be a good partner to yourself.

We all have places inside where we might feel a little insecure and it’s normal to feel like that. When we have had challenges we can wonder who will want us in that state. Our unmet needs come up when we are dating until we really work on it.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

Are you wanting to call in a relationship but you don’t exactly know how?
Is there a part of you that is confident about what you have to offer but then a part of you wonders if someone will really love that one thing?
Did you have a super present parent, or did you have one or maybe both parents that weren’t so available and you may be looking for a relationship to fulfill that void?

Anthony’s Question:

Anthony wants to know how to find a committed relationship as well as walk fully into his purpose.

Anthony’s Key Insights and Ahas:

He is looking for someone to grow with.
He feels that something is missing.
He helps people take control of their health.
He’s never been in a relationship and feels like it is time.
He wants to be more emotionally secure.
He has trouble sleeping due to physical pain.
He had Lyme disease.
His father was emotionally unavailable.
He feels he can’t fully access love and compassion for himself.
He didn’t have a role model of emotional acceptance.
He has an unfulfilled childhood need.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Have compassion, love, and acceptance for himself.
Begin a meditation practice to get more in tune with his emotional self.
Do the things he loves to do.
Make it a priority to be the best father and partner to himself.

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