Imagine this for a moment: it’s Saturday afternoon. The week has been long, and you’ve finally carved out some time for yourself. You’re in your favorite cozy spot in the living room—maybe it’s the couch that perfectly hugs you or that recliner that’s seen better days but feels just right. You’ve got the TV on, ready to catch up on your favorite show, and for a moment, everything feels perfect.

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And then it happens.

Alexa’s voice cuts through your peaceful bubble: “Someone is at the front door.”

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Annoyed, you groan, thinking, “Who could it be now?” Maybe it’s a neighbor, or worse—a salesperson. You grudgingly get up, annoyed at the interruption. You’re already rehearsing your response in your head: “No, I’m not interested. I don’t care what you’re selling!”

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As you peek out the window, you realize it’s not a salesperson. It’s worse.

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Standing there are two people with smiles too wide for comfort, clutching those unmistakable pamphlets. You mutter to yourself, “Jehovah’s Witnesses. Great.” Your mind flashes to Sam from work—you know, the one who’s always leaving those flyers around the breakroom. You can’t help but roll your eyes.

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Now, you’re faced with a dilemma. Do you answer the door? Or do you pretend you’re not home and wait them out?

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My guest today, Nathan, has a unique perspective on this situation. He’s a second-generation Jehovah’s Witness who made the bold decision to leave the Kingdom Hall behind—a choice that came with enormous consequences. Why did he leave? What was it like to walk away from a faith that had been part of his family for generations?

Nathan’s story is one of courage, heartbreak, and rediscovery. There’s a reason he’s chosen not to share his last name, and as you’ll hear, his journey is as eye-opening as it is powerful.

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So, are you ready to find out what it’s really like to step away from a faith so deeply rooted in your identity? To hear the story of someone who chose to walk a different path despite the odds?

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Hit play and join me as I step into the shoes of Nathan, a former Jehovah’s Witness.

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Remember, when you walk in Other People's Shoes, you get a different perspective!

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💔 Abortion. A word that carries weight, controversy, pain, and shame. It’s a topic often whispered about, avoided in conversation, or shrouded in judgment. But what happens when the shame isn't just about the choice—but about who you are? This week, my guest, Tonya Bailey Jones, shares her powerful journey of self-discovery—one that took decades to fully embrace. For much of her life, she struggled with her identity, unable to confidently say the words: I am Tonya Bailey Jones. But today, she not only says them—she knows and loves who she is. From childhood, Tonya felt like an outsider, never truly accepted for who she was. As she moved through adulthood, she became a version of herself shaped by the validation of others—playing the role she thought she was supposed to. The distractions of military service, parenting, and everyday responsibilities allowed her to bury the unease deep inside. But when retirement brought stillness, its weight became undeniable. She could no longer outrun “the feeling.” The mask she had worn for so long began to crumble. Join us as Tonya opens up about the deep shame, the search for identity, and the moment she finally embraced her true self. Her story is one of resilience, self-acceptance, and the courage to face the person in the mirror. 👟 Join me as I walk in Tonya’s shoes.

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Loathing...The Duke vs. UNC rivalry is the sports equivalent of Loathing from Wicked—a relationship built on deep-seated animosity, unwavering contempt, and just a hint of begrudging respect. Much like Elphaba and Glinda’s cutting yet strangely harmonious duet, the Tar Heels and Blue Devils are forever intertwined, each defining the other through decades of battles on the hardwood. Every season, the Cameron Crazies' sneers and the Dean Dome’s roars echo the song’s theatrical vitriol—"Every little trait, however small, makes my very flesh begin to crawl!"—a sentiment any UNC fan can relate to when spotting Duke’s blue and white on the court. My guest today is Andy Bagwell. Andy Bagwell, co-author of Duke Sucks: A Completely Even-Handed, Unbiased Investigation into the Most Evil Team on Planet Earth, captured this dynamic perfectly, dissecting Duke’s infamous flopping, smug superiority, and, of course, their uncanny ability to get every foul call.

But in true Other People’s Shoes fashion, what happens if we step back and examine this rivalry from another angle? The loathing, after all, is what makes it great—what fuels the passion, the unforgettable moments, the pure ecstasy of victory and the gut-wrenching agony of defeat. Without Duke, there is no UNC dominance; without UNC, there is no Duke villainy. Just as Elphaba and Glinda’s friction drives Wicked’s story forward, this rivalry elevates college basketball itself. It’s a hatred that, deep down, every fan secretly loves. Because in the end, while loathing may be the foundation, the rivalry itself is pure magic. Join me as I step into Andy's shoes. 

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Which would you rather indulge in, lemons or tamales? I feel like it's a pretty easy choice, right? Life has a way of throwing challenges at us when we least expect it. Sometimes, it feels like all we have are lemons—sour, bitter, and hard to swallow. But what if, instead of making lemonade, we made something heartier, something rich with culture, love, and perseverance—like tamales? In this episode, I sit down with Leslie Alvarez, a woman whose life is a testament to resilience, hustle, and the power of staying true to oneself. From a young age, Leslie learned the value of hard work and determination. Whether it was selling homemade oatmeal cookies to buy a bike or making tamales to support her family, she embraced the philosophy: “Where there is a will, there is always a way.” This mantra has carried her through some of life’s toughest moments. Leslie’s journey is one of incredible highs and devastating lows—financial struggles, relationship breakdowns, health crises, and career setbacks. She has faced them all, from early motherhood and divorce to job loss and a terrifying incident involving her son. Yet, through every storm, she chose to rise, using each hardship as fuel for growth and transformation. Leslie reminds us that while life may hand us lemons, we can turn them into something meaningful. Whether it’s tamales, a new career, or a fresh perspective, there is always a way forward. Join me as I walk in Leslie’s shoes.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

The Power of Hustle: How a strong work ethic and creative problem-solving helped Leslie push through tough times.

Overcoming Adversity: Facing challenges head-on, from financial struggles to personal losses, and emerging stronger.

Authenticity as Strength: The importance of staying true to oneself in a world that often pressures us to wear masks.

Finding Hope in Hardship: Why struggles can be a catalyst for transformation rather than a reason to give up.

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In this episode of Other People's Shoes, we take an X-Ray look into the life and work of Mary Beth Schrudder, a transformational life coach with expertise in the Law of Attraction, relationship coaching, addiction recovery, and spiritual transformation.

Mary Beth’s journey has been anything but easy. After years in the corporate world, balancing life as a single mom while battling addictions to alcohol, food, and toxic relationships, she realized something had to change. Traditional 12-step recovery programs didn’t work for her, so she set out on a path of self-discovery, researching alternative and spiritual recovery methods that truly transformed her life.

Now, as a certified coach, she helps others break free from limiting beliefs and destructive cycles by applying the correct principles of the Law of Attraction—going beyond just “positive thinking” to become the deliberate creators of their own lives truly.

In our conversation, Mary Beth shared:👁️‍🗨️ How she turned her biggest struggles into stepping stones for success🌟 Why so many people misunderstand the Law of Attraction—and how to use it effectively💡 The power of taking quantum leaps instead of baby steps toward your dreams🛤️ Practical tools you can apply immediately to shift your mindset and transform your reality

If you’ve ever felt stuck in self-sabotage, struggled with addiction, or wondered how to attract the life you truly desire, this episode will give you a new perspective—an X-Ray view—into what’s possible when you embrace personal transformation.

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In this heartfelt episode of Other People's Shoes, I sit down with my good friend Mike Oppenheim from the podcast Coffin Talk. Mike has become a true friend in this podcasting space, and today he shares a deeply personal journey about anger, grief, and missing his son. He opens up about the invisible weight he carries—how, on the outside, you might not see the pain etched into his heart, but it's always there, shaping his days. Mike's story is a raw, emotional exploration of love, loss, and the resilience it takes to move forward. Through our conversation, we unpack the layers of his grief, understanding how it intertwines with hope and the belief in eventual reunion. As part of this episode, I wrote a poem titled Tomorrow, inspired by Mike's experience. It captures the enduring love of a father for his son, the ache of absence, and the unwavering hope for a reunion. Join me as I try on Mike's shoes.

Tomorrow

Tomorrow, I'll think of you just like today,With echoes of laughter that never fade away.Your name is carved deep within my chest,A sacred place where my heart finds rest.

Tomorrow, I'll stand by the door you once passed,Holding onto memories I pray will last.Not out of anger, not out of blame,But love unshaken, still burning the same.

Tomorrow, I'll sit in the room made for you,Though you've never seen it, it's always felt true.Walls whispering stories we never got through,Pillow untouched, sheets still neat,But in my dreams, I hear your feet.

Tomorrow, I'll feel the ache in my chest,Missing your voice, your smile, your jest.Yet hope's gentle whisper calls out to say,There will come our Reunion Day.

Tomorrow, I'll trace the stars in the sky,Imagining you're under the same, close by.Though miles may stretch and time may roam,You’ve never left the heart you call home.

Tomorrow, I'll believe in the thread unseen,Tied between hearts, strong and keen.No distance can break, no silence can sway,The love that grows stronger every day.

Tomorrow, I'll wait with arms open wide,No shadow of anger, just warmth inside.For deep down I know, come what may,We’ll find each other on that bright Reunion Day.

Tomorrow, and every day until then,I'll carry you softly, again and again.Not with sorrow, not with dismay—But with the hope of our tomorrow, lighting the way.

Tomorrow, and always, know this is true,No words could measure how much I love you.

Takeaways from This Episode:

Grief can be hidden beneath the surface; you never know the pain someone carries.

The power of friendship and authentic conversations in healing.

How hope can coexist with grief, offering a light in the darkest moments.

Connect with Mike Oppenheim:Listen to Coffin Talk wherever you get your podcasts.

If this episode touched your heart, please share it with someone who might need to hear Mike's story. Let's keep these conversations alive, making space for both grief and hope.

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Romeo, Romeo! Wherefore Art Thou? - A playful nod to Shakespeare sets the stage for a conversation about love, heartbreak, and the pursuit of healthy relationships. What comes to mind when you think of Valentine's Day? With Valentine's Day on the horizon, we're diving into the hilariously relatable world of modern dating. In this Other People’s Shoes episode, my guest Charity Sinclair joins me to share insights from her witty memoir, We're All Dating The Same Guy: Laughs, Lessons, and Love After Dating a Narcissist. 

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Surviving and Thriving After Toxic Relationships - Charity shares her journey from heartbreak to healing, including the time she called off her wedding to a sociopath and a date with a guy who ghosted her in person. 

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Navigating Modern Dating - Charity dishes out hilarious and heartfelt stories from her dating adventures, along with tips for thriving in the wild world of online dating.

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Buffalos have a unique instinct when facing storms—they don’t run away like other animals; instead, they charge directly into the storm. By doing this, they minimize their time in harsh conditions and emerge stronger on the other side. In life, we are constantly faced with challenges, and just like the buffalo, we have a choice: we can run from adversity and prolong our struggles, or we can face difficulties head-on, knowing that growth lies beyond the storm. Jill Ogle, a guest on Other People's Shoes, shares this powerful message of transformation, encouraging others to embrace life’s storms rather than run from them. Like the buffalo running into the storm, you have the power to transform your current reality into one of harmony and success. We believe in the power of synchronicity and know that you have found us for a reason. When the student is ready, the teacher appears, and your time for transformation is now. Step into the storm with courage, embrace all that you are, and watch as you emerge stronger than ever. Join me I try on Jill's sandals.

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Welcome to a very special episode of Other People’s Shoes! Today, we’re taking a moment to celebrate six incredible years of podcasting, over 300 episodes, and countless stories that have inspired, challenged, and encouraged us all. Thank you for walking alongside me on this journey—whether you’ve been here since day one or just laced up your shoes to join the adventure.

Reflecting on the Journey

Over the last six years, Other People’s Shoes has become more than just a podcast; it’s become a community. This milestone wouldn’t be possible without the support of so many amazing people:

My family — To my wife, Elizabeth, and our family, thank you for your endless encouragement and love. You’ve been my rock and biggest cheerleader.

Garrett — My all-in executive producer, your unwavering support and guidance have been invaluable. Thank you for keeping the wheels turning behind the scenes.

Christine, my mother-in-law — Your love and encouragement have been a steady source of strength. Thank you for believing in me and the show.

Eric Nevins — My podcast mentor, your wisdom and insights have shaped so much of what this podcast has become. I’m so grateful for your guidance.

Sean McCoy, Adria Wilkins, and Jodi Howe — Incredible friends who have shared your support and encouragement at every step. Your kindness means the world to me. With hearts of gold, your birthday greetings and on going encouragement inspire me to keep going.

Jessica Lewis, Ally Murphy, my voice gals,  Neil Getzlow, Rodney Olsen, James Early, Jennifer Sakata, Judi Meriam, Megan Newkirk, Kim Patton, and Alex from Podmatch — Your contributions, support, and friendship have made such a difference in this journey. Thank you for being part of the story.

So many other friends — To everyone who stopped by to give a birthday greeting, your words remind me why I continue this journey.

The Real Reason I Keep Moving Forward

This podcast has always been about progress—slow and steady, just like the tortoise in the fable of the tortoise and the hare. The journey hasn’t always been fast or easy, but it’s been consistent and meaningful. Every story shared, every lesson learned, and every listener touched fuels my determination to keep going. It’s not about the race; it’s about the journey.

A Big Announcement

Stay tuned until the end of the episode because we’re closing out with an exciting surprise announcement! I promise you won’t want to miss it.

Join the Celebration

I’d love to hear from YOU! What’s been your favorite episode or takeaway from the past six years? Feel free to share your thoughts, and let’s celebrate together.

Thank you for being part of this journey. Here’s to the next chapter of Other People’s Shoes! Let’s keep walking together, one story at a time.

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Imagine this for a moment: it’s Saturday afternoon. The week has been long, and you’ve finally carved out some time for yourself. You’re in your favorite cozy spot in the living room—maybe it’s the couch that perfectly hugs you or that recliner that’s seen better days but feels just right. You’ve got the TV on, ready to catch up on your favorite show, and for a moment, everything feels perfect.

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And then it happens.

Alexa’s voice cuts through your peaceful bubble: “Someone is at the front door.”

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Annoyed, you groan, thinking, “Who could it be now?” Maybe it’s a neighbor, or worse—a salesperson. You grudgingly get up, annoyed at the interruption. You’re already rehearsing your response in your head: “No, I’m not interested. I don’t care what you’re selling!”

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As you peek out the window, you realize it’s not a salesperson. It’s worse.

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Standing there are two people with smiles too wide for comfort, clutching those unmistakable pamphlets. You mutter to yourself, “Jehovah’s Witnesses. Great.” Your mind flashes to Sam from work—you know, the one who’s always leaving those flyers around the breakroom. You can’t help but roll your eyes.

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Now, you’re faced with a dilemma. Do you answer the door? Or do you pretend you’re not home and wait them out?

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My guest today, Amber, has a unique perspective on this situation. She’s a fifth-generation Jehovah’s Witness who made the bold decision to leave the Kingdom Hall behind—a choice that came with enormous consequences. Why did she leave? What was it like to walk away from a faith that had been part of her family for generations?

Amber’s story is one of courage, heartbreak, and rediscovery. There’s a reason she’s chosen not to share her last name, and as you’ll hear, her journey is as eye-opening as it is powerful.

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So, are you ready to find out what it’s really like to step away from a faith so deeply rooted in your identity? To hear the story of someone who chose to walk a different path despite the odds?

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Hit play and join me as I step into the shoes of Amber, a former Jehovah’s Witness. 

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