On this episode: Zak, Jamilah, and Elizabeth advise a listener who is fed up with her partner’s picky eating. His preferences have made it nearly impossible to meal prep, which he doesn’t help with. On top of that, he’s taken to complaining about the food in front of their kid. 

Recommendations: 

Jamilah: Cheetos’ Flamin’ Hot with Limón

Elizabeth: Self-Compassion Workbook for Kids 

Zak: Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin

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On this episode: Zak, Jamilah, and Elizabeth answer a question from an exhausted parent of two little kids. She is tired and ‘touched out.’ It has left her wanting to scale back physical intimacy on multiple levels but especially sex. Honestly, she says she’d love a pass to be celibate for a few years until they want to try for a third child. 

Then on Slate Plus, what public places should babies be banned from? 

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On this episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak answer a question from a family who has a very sick dog. The dog, who is two, has been experiencing chronic health issues and requires more care than the mom and her two daughters can provide. Our letter writer is thinking about rehoming the dog but doesn’t know how to break it to her girls who have bonded deeply with their dog. Also on this show, recommendations and advice from listeners.

Recommendations: 

Zak: Using a chafing dish to catch your kid’s throw up. 

Jamilah: America, Goddam: Violence, Black Women, and the Struggle for Justice by Treva B. Lindsey.

(Bonus, catch Jamilah on RapCaviar, available on Hulu.)

Elizabeth: Brains On episode with Emily Hanford

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On this episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak are joined by Natasha Nelson, who is known as Supernova Momma, to discuss positive parenting. Natasha explains what positive discipline actually entails, how to realistically use the approach, and what people misunderstand about gentle parenting. They also give advice to a listener who has been trying to adhere to a positive parenting philosophy but are finding themselves frustrated in the face of big temper tantrums. 

Then on Slate Plus, they play a round of parenting One Gotta Go. 

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On this episode: Jamilah, Zak, and Elizabeth answer a question from an overwhelmed listener who is doing most of the childcare and housework for her family. Her husband isn’t helping out and is citing his ADHD as the reason why. What can they do to make the workload more manageable for everyone? 

Recommendations: 

Zak recommends letting kids take the lead in the museum.

Elizabeth recommends Exit: The Game. 

Jamilah recommends Wellmania on Netflix

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On this episode: Jamilah, Zak, and Elizabeth answer a question about a six year old who asked his aunt why her belly is so big. The question surfaced some body image issues for our listener and she was left feeling bad about herself for over a week. Now she’s wondering if she should talk to her nephew about size diversity and why not everyone appreciates random questions about their bodies. 

Then on Slate Plus, they discuss How They See Us: The Humbling Tyranny of the Pictures Our Children Take of Us.

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On this episode: Zak and Jamilah are joined by Evan Urquhart. Evan covers anti-trans propaganda on Assigned Media, writes for Slate, and manages Slate’s comments section. 

Today we’re going to be talking with Evan about his recent piece, youth-health-care-debate-affirmative-new-york-times-jamie-reed.html">There Are Two Sides to the Debate on Health Care for Trans Kids. Here’s What You’re Missing About One of Them. People and resources mentioned: Julia Serano, Assigned Media, and Trans Safety Network. 

Recommendations: 

Jamilah recommends the Dear Culture podcast. 

Evan recommends the Washington Post-KFF Trans in America survey. 

Zak recommends letting kids watch TV during breakfast on school days. 

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On this episode: Zak and Jamilah are joined by Evan Urquhart. Evan manages Slate’s comments section, covers anti-trans propaganda on assignedmedia.org, and has experience fostering teens, which will be extraordinarily useful for today’s questions. We recently got two letters from listeners who are thinking about becoming foster parents and are specifically interested in caring for teens. We’ll dive into what they should know. Then on Slate Plus, we are talking about Utah’s new laws restricting minors' ability to access and use social media.

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On this episode: Jamilah, Elizabeth and Zak talk about their experience with video games — and then Elizabeth speaks with Ash Brandin, also known as @TheGamerEducator, about their tips for parenting young gamers. Then the hosts issue recommendations, and respond to a listener letter asking for tips on the latest and greatest in books for young eyes and ears.

Recommendations: 

Zak recommends: Abigail Lapell

Elizabeth recommends: Free Run Wild My Child Treasure Hunt 

Jamilah recommends: Swarm on Amazon Prime 

Books for beginning readers:

E: Usborne My First Readers  & Elephant & Piggie & Usborn Phonics Readers

Z: Richard Scarry's Cars and Trucks and Things that Go, The Color Monster: a story about Emotions. 

J: Can Read books, including Ty’s Travels and Amelia Bedelia

Graphic Novels:

E:  EL Deafo & This Was Our Pact & The Witch Boy (upper elementary & Middle) & Peter & Ernesto A Tale of Two Sloths (lower elementary)

J: Twins (lower elementary) The Baby Sitter’s Club (lower elementary)

Books about Loss:

E: One Wave At A Time  & The Invisible String & When Dinosaurs Die & Circus Mirandus (older readers) 

Z: Lilah Tov Good Night

J: A Kid’s Book About Death, The Sad Dragon

Just Really Good Books:

E: Hello Universe & We Dream of Space (both by Erin Entrada Kelly)& The Big Umbrella & Anything by Aaron Reynolds (Teddy’s favorite, see President Squid) 

Z:The Napping House

J: The People Could Fly, Mufaro’s Beautiful Daughters 

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On this episode: Elizabeth, Jamilah, and Zak help a listener who is having a family travel dilemma. The letter writer is wondering how to handle retired in-laws who live far away, while balancing full-time work, pets, and a child who hates flying. All of that, and dealing with a guilty spouse – who feels like they should prioritize visiting his family over taking vacations. Then on Slate Plus, they dive into a New York Times Opinion age-millennials.html">piece by Jessica Grose. It explores the unique challenges facing middle-aged millennials as they navigate parenthood, careers, and aging parents. 

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