What is dating like right now, from a science perspective? We are discussing the annual 'Singles in America' study with Dr. Helen Fisher (Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and Chief Science Advisor to Match.com) and Dr. Justin Garcia (Evolutionary Biologist, Sex Researcher, Professor of Gender Studies and Senior Scientist at The Kinsey Institute and Indiana University). Dr. Fisher and Dr. Garcia give us enlightening statistics on what today's singles are looking for, what they are willing to overlook in a relationship, and the impact that Covid had romantic love. 

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Remy and Robyn are joined by Ariana Nathani, founder of Drinks First-- a podcast and series of dating events for New York City singles. First we discuss the genius that is the format of her podcast, in which Ariana essentially goes on a "first date" with elligible NYC daters and listeners call in to date them. We talk about different forms of how to meet people romantically in 2023 from Love is Blind to rings that signify if you are single, the truth about being approached in public, and older forms of finding long-term love such as matchmaking. Ariana also tells us about growing up first generation in an Indian household, how to know when you are finally being respected in a relationship, and why it is imperitive to move out of your parents house when dating. 

You may notice our intro is FULL of Scandoval aka Vanderpump Rules drama surrounding our former guest the newly single, powerhouse, the other Ariana, Ariana Madix. A lot of it was cut for time but you can have access to the FULL unedited episode with VIDEO at patreon.com/howcum

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Today's guest is Ben Katzner, a stand up comedian and author whose debut graphic novel "Hello My Name Is Poop" is available now. Remy chats with Ben about adoption, foster care, and the importance of choosing to parent in a post Roe v Wade world. Ben shares his personal experience growing up as an adoptee, the efforts that adoptive parents should make before adopting, and his reaction to adoption TikTok.  Finally we discuss the pros and cons of what we've learned about the adoption industry via media and how it could be improved.

Lots of opinions in this one from us, and we're always interested to hear yours.

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This we are talking to comedian & TikToker Max Zavidow.   Max shares all about his experiences with homophobia at camp, learning what m*sturbation was with a bunch of boys (yes with, not from), along with how this impacted his own first time c*mming.  We talk about the societal pressure to like a certain "type" of person and Max tells us about how he felt he had to "come out" as his type being a more muscular woman.   We also chat coming out as bisexual, and how helpful Max found being in a queer friendly fraternity.

Finally, we discuss Max's TikToks about pegging, hear all about how they came to fruition. We also get a sneak peek into Max's dm requests - so if you're looking to peg someone, get in line because the queue is long (😏).

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Remy and Robyn chat with Cumpanion Britt about her unique first time story, penpals, reading erotica, and her many many toys.  We discuss Roe v Wade and Britt explains the reasons she hasn't had penetrative sex with a penis and why she may never want to. Britt also opens up about her history of chronic illness, endometriosis, lack of sex ed, and experience with SA. (TW)

Thank you to Britt for sharing your journey with us!

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Big announcement! Remy is taking over the iconic Betches media podcast 'Diet Starts Tomorrow,' with her NEW  co-host (and Cumpanion favorite) Emily Lubin. Cumgrats to them, and don't worry-- Remy will still continue How C*m! In this episode, Remy and Emily talk about what it means to each of them to take over a wellness and body positivity podcast. Emily shares her body journey with us and how she went from an eating disorder to loving her body fully and Remy opens up about how her body image has gotten in the way of How C*m endeavors. 

TW: ED, Negative self talk, SA

Post outro we talk House of Dragon (SPOILERS), and why their portrayal of foot fetishes is so much worse than the incest that happens regularly on the show. 

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Why is there a trend of young boys being taught to hate women, who is teaching them, and how do we stop them? We talk with Cyzor Church, a boudoir photographer and creator of the "Anti-Misogyny Podcast"  about how he has been combating the teachings of toxic creators through his videos. This episode was recorded right after a certain TikTok creator/ misogynistic leader/self-proclaimed "self-help guru" was ousted from all social media platforms and we chat about if the kicking off was effective, if cancelling people in real life is a thing,  and other creators who are still espousing his harmful rhetoric. We also talk about how people maniupulate others, the science of learning, and how boudoir photography goes against the patriarchy in its essence.

After the outro Remy and Robyn discuss the movies "Don't Worry Darling" + "Do Revenge" and how they relate to these topics as well as how Jordan Peterson feels about incels and forced monogamy. 

TW: SA, VIOLENCE, GENDERED LANGUAGE 

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This week the internet is aflurry with cheating scandals and we are talking to the fantastic Lexy Panterra about her latest single 'Girls,' which is about just that. We talk getting cheated on, double standards between genders when cheating is involved, and how to take back your power after a betrayal. We're also talking music; why Lexy releases hers on OnlyFans, what genres we like to bang to, and the best beats for thrusting. Remy tries a viral song that the internet swears is a horrible bang song and gives her two cents and Robyn chimes in with a special "Girls" update of her own! 

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Today's guest is Nicole Aniston, who after 12-13 years in the adult industry became a trailblazer with her project Closer to Nicole which aims to sell NFTs as access tokens to allow people to watch her ethically produced adult content, and be a part of her discord community.  We discuss how she took an antiquated business model and completely revamped it, and the many reasons why NFTs are better than OnlyFans, for creator and consumer. We also talk the similarities between the fight for reproductive rights and sex worker rights, cancel culture/ the Cut's culture-high-school-teens.html"> Cancelled at 17, and the patriarchy: what's it so afraid of?! 

TW: Sexual assault 

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We're talking top surgery, breast reduction, and SO much more with two second time cummers: award winning comedian Robby Hoffman and Girls Gotta Eat co-host + Vibes Only co-owner Rayna Greenberg! We hear about the differences and similarities of Rayna's breast reduction and Robby's top surgery; how long they've wanted their respective surgeries (and why), what healing was like, scars, cost, and post-surgery sex. We talk nipple sensitivity, the first big boobs Robby has ever played with, and everyone's feelings on 69. 

Finally, we celebrate National Orgasm Day (July 31) with a few of our cumpanion's favorite O stories and learn about Rayna's new O-inspiring c*mpany Vibes Only! 

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