The Internet is trying to figure out if RHOA’s Porsha Williams is engaged (yes!) to her friend’s husband (not sure); and Demi continues last week’s conversation on shame, this time with Tanya Denise Fields (Black Feminist Project).  Trigger warning: conversation includes descriptions of intimate partner violence and sexual abuse.   Check out my website: http://www.demetrialucas.com/about/. Follow me:  IG:  demetriallucas. Twitter: demetriallucas. FB: demetriallucas. YouTube: demetriallucas. Thanks to our sponsors: Switch to Cricket Wireless and get the plan that’s just right for you, starting at $30 per month!  Right now, Modern Fertility is offering our listeners $20 off the test when you go to modernfertility.com/ratchet.  I want you to start living a happier life today. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/ratchet. Ship more in less time. Go to ShipStation.com, just use my offer code, RESPECT to get a 60-day free trial. That’s 2 months FREE of no-hassle, stress-free shipping.  More about the Show:  Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or using this link: http://bit.ly/RatchetRespectablePodcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices