The Life Changing Difference Between Special and Unique Gamechanger: This one shift in thinking can immediately change how you see yourself and how you see the world. This one shift will stop or greatly decrease  you caring what other people think you comparing yourself to anyone you being constantly disappointed because of the unfairness of life or that you didn’t get something that you deserve While at the same time, this shift will immediately shift your focus into yourself, allowing for a way more clear perspective on things allow you to immediately relate better to other people (a relationship game changer) take the pressure off your unrealistic expectations for yourself, allowing you to be way more authentic and in the process, live a more fulfilled and successful life. Here is the shift: You are not special…You are unique Sadly, Barney and Mr. Rogers led us down the wrong path with all of their “special” talk. Now, even though their intentions were good, I think the message is confusing. Here’s the difference: Special defined… better, greater or different from what is usual Unique…being the only one of its kind. The perspective of special is outward looking, comparative while unique is inward. Thinking special or that the world revolves around you is all ego and it’s a weakness and you will constantly run into walls of unfairness or bias that will keep you from growing. Hope you enjoy the show...drop me a comment at tony@javabud.com if you would like to chime in on this subject or suggest something to talk about on a future show.   Like always, you can watch the video of this podcast here or listen to any of the previous 120+ podcasts here. You can also download my free mini-guide on 7 Phrases you need to know to immediately bring more fulfillment to your life...and... ...Or...you can now buy my book, "Surrounded by Idiots"