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Safe Words, Consent & Customizing Your Kink - Ep 193

Podcast |: American Sex
Publisher |: Pleasure Podcasts
Media Type |: audio
Podknife tags |: Health,; Sex,; Sexuality,; Society & Culture
Categories Via RSS |: Health & Fitness,; Sexuality,; Society & Culture
Publication Date |: Sep 16, 2022
Episode Duration |: 01:27:45

Safe words aren't as deep & complicated as we make them out to be. They aren’t necessarily as simple as we think either. In kink & sex, safe words are simple communication tools that stop the action & trigger a predetermined protocol. What they mean, how they're used & what you do after is up to you. How do you decide that? Episode 193 of American Sex Podcast will help you figure it out.

This convo was inspired by a listener suggestion to unpack some of the fiercest kink community debates about consent, how BDSM *should* be done, and the customizability of kink. Sunny Megatron explores ways you can evaluate BDSM rules and decide if, when, and how much to customize them to fit your own needs. She does this entirely through the lens of safe words and consent. This is also the first show back from summer hiatus and in the intro, Sunny announces some big changes for the future of both American Sex and their family.

Episode 193 Links

Everything You Need to Know About Safewords by Sunny Megatron https://zippermagazine.com/everything-you-need-to-know-about-safewords/
Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb
ZipperMagazine.com https://zippermagazine.com/
Zipper Magazine Instagram https://www.instagram.com/zippermagdotcom/
Zipper Magazine Twitter https://twitter.com/ZipperMagDotcom
Zipper Magazine Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Zipper-Magazine-113123824749292
Zipper Magazine Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxFDRtDhukxyQ_9t-Xfo2-w
Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com
Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron
Ken’s charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy
American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp
American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex
Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy

Episode 193 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links

*by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win!

For 40% off unlimited access to Calm’s entire library go to http://CALM.COM/Sunny
30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at http://dipseastories.com/sunny
20% off an at-home lab test at http://everlywell.com/sunny
Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass
Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore milking-for-beginners.html">https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html
Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation
10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts
10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear)
15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY
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10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout
15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY

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–Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com

–To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!)

–Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com

–Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter

Sunny & Ken, xo!

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