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Mariam Alayande: Only If You Look in the Mirror

Podcast |: MIRROR TALK
Publisher |: Tobi Ojekunle
Media Type |: audio
Podknife tags |: Interview,; Personal Journals,; Self-Help
Categories Via RSS |: Education,; Self-Improvement
Publication Date |: Feb 13, 2024
Episode Duration |: 00:44:11

In this episode, Mariam, a writer, poet, and doctor, discusses her book 'Only If You Look in the Mirror' with the host. The conversation covers various themes, including the inspiration behind the book, the impact of the poetic tale, the importance of forgiveness and journaling, dealing with infatuation, performing a reality check, embracing God, and finding a reason to live. Mariam shares her personal experiences and insights, offering encouragement to those going through tough times. The conversation highlights the relatability and depth of the book, emphasizing the power of self-reflection and the support of friends and the Holy Spirit.

Website: https://mariamalayande.com/

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction

01:04 Inspiration behind the book

02:22 Writing the book over seven years

03:21 The impact of the poetic tale

04:14 Reassurance and relatability

05:17 Chapter 1: Blooming

07:07 Finding happiness and wholeness

08:44 The depth of the book

09:11 The reality of life

09:41 Chapter 5: Forgiveness

11:04 The gift of writing

12:16 Writing about loss

13:08 The importance of expressing emotions

13:37 Chapter 7: Finding the truth

14:25 The struggle with journaling

17:05 Consistency in journaling

19:49 Benefits of journaling

22:46 Dealing with infatuation

23:30 Chapter 10: Reality check

25:04 Recognizing toxicity

25:31 Performing a reality check

26:45 Seeking guidance from friends and the Holy Spirit

28:08 The importance of true friends

29:46 Embracing God

30:47 The influence of embracing God

32:59 Finding a reason to live

36:27 Encouragement for those going through tough times

39:52 How to reach out to the author

41:16 Takeaways

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