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Lessons from a New Kinkster with Erik Gude & Catie Osborn - Ep 163

Podcast |: American Sex
Publisher |: Pleasure Podcasts
Media Type |: audio
Podknife tags |: Health,; Sex,; Sexuality,; Society & Culture
Categories Via RSS |: Health & Fitness,; Sexuality,; Society & Culture
Publication Date |: Jun 07, 2021
Episode Duration |: 01:22:49

Ep 163 of American Sex podcast is jampacked with so many practical tips and insights for new & experienced kinksters alike! When Erik got into kink less than a year ago, he didn’t realize how profoundly it would change his life both inside and outside the bedroom. Joined by his partner & mentor Catie, Erik walks us through his transformative journey of self-discovery. We discuss strategies for negotiating your first scene when you don’t know how kink tools feel or what experiencing a scene is like. Erik tells us about his unexpected feeling of mourning and how to handle expectations that don’t match up with reality, how Erik & Catie dealt with the common phenomenon known as frenzy, navigating kink with ADHD, and how it can help align your body and mind. We also get into switching and the similarities and differences between subspace, domspace, and their respective drops. This is a must-listen for those curious about or into kink.

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Episode 163 Links

Catie Osborn TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@catieosaurus
Catie Osborn Youtube http://youtube.com/catieadhd
Catie Osborn Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catieosaurus/
Catie Osborn Twitter https://twitter.com/CatieOsaurus
Catie Osborn Patreon http://patreon.com/catieadhd
Erik Gude Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@heygude
Erik Gude Instagram https://www.instagram.com/heygude/
Erik Gude Twitter https://twitter.com/erikgude
Infinite Quest Twitter https://twitter.com/Catieanderik
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American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp
American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast
American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex

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