Today my guests are Maria and Ammo from the podcast Philotimo Life, a podcast that aims to open up the conversation around death in order better come to terms with our own mortality, help us support those grieving, and to live a happier life.In this episode we talk about:How we as grievers shelter other people from the reality of our feelingsPeople think grief is contagiousWhat it’s like studying thanatologyAmmo gives insight into death in Punjabi cultureGenerational traumaMaria gives insight into her Greek-Canadian upbringing and how that influenced her views on deathNot being able to get life insurance as a terminally ill personBeing saddled with over $50k in debt as a widowWhy dark humor is so taboo in North AmericaToxic positivity doesn’t allow us to feel anything but happinessThe monetization and exploitation of Pride MonthJust because something is “better” doesn’t mean it’s “good”More on Philotimo Life:Maria's mom died when she was two. From an early age, she realized that talking about death was a huge no-no because people got really weird about it. As a way to avoid uncomfortable situations, she hardly spoke about her mom– let alone the way the loss impacted her. As she got older, she began to ask herself, "Why aren't I talking about this? Why aren't we talking about it?" This is what led to Philotimo Life– a place that breathes life into the conversation around death.As she was explaining it to Ammo, his response was one of the firsts that wasn't "that's kind of morbid." This led to him joining the project. His approach to the conversation around death was refreshing and helped shape Philotimo into what it is today.Together, they want you to share your experiences around death with family, friends, coworkers, and even strangers, with the goal that we change our policies around bereavement, and how we educate people about life, death, dying, and grief. By opening up this dialogue, they help others embrace the reality that everybody dies, and that's ok!
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