Host Julie Lythcott-Haims and special guest Gretchen Rubin explore how parents figure out their roles on the path to college and we hear updates from the families of two Getting In seniors. Amy and Martin Graves, August's parents and Jonathan Meyer, Jordana's father reflect on how they have navigated this roller coaster year. Special guest Gretchen Rubin is a writer and co-host of the podcast Happier. Her bestselling books include The Happiness Project and Better Than Before. She's also the mother of a high school junior, Eliza (who has her own podcast!). Gretchen admits its a tricky balance being helpful, but mostly hands-off as Eliza prepares for college. She offers several tips and examples from her own life about the habits and strategies she's trying to put into place right now. Some advice from this episode:1.    Trust your kid to make good decisions.2.    Do not make the college path a 24-7 conversation, schedule specific times to talk about it.3.    Give your kid the time and space for creative outlets that have *nothing* to do with college.4.    Avoid stoking the fires of worry when talking to other parents. Think of them as a resources for answering concrete questions (e.g. when should we schedule college tours?).  Find us on Twitter: @GettingInPod Send us an email or voice memo--to gettingin@slate.comOr, call our hotline and leave a message at (929) 999-4353. Getting In is supported by Squarespace, helping students create online portfolios and personal websites that show colleges who they are and what they can do. Learn more at Squarespace.com/gettingin Getting In is sponsored by Audible.com.Get a free audiobook of your choice at www.audible.com/college and use the promo code COLLEGE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices