Jordana and Nicole are back this week with a question many brides have asked: who should walk you down the aisle? They discuss why it is tradition for the father of the bride to fulfill that role and whether or not it makes sense to uphold that custom in modern weddings. The also talk about other things to consider while choosing somebody else for that moment and how to go about breaking the news to the people involved if you decide that’s the way to go. Then, a listener writes in about how involving her mother in the planning of the wedding has created an added layer of tension and stress, and Jordana and Nicole offer a few tips for how to go about making the process easier for everyone involved. After that, it's time for the Happily Ever After email of the week, which is all about how to handle toxic positivity in a relationship when dealing with stressful situations around wedding planning . They finish off the show by going through a few more listener submitted Unpopular Opinions! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices