The Ying Yang of life says you must suffer to enjoy the absence of suffering. You need to lose to appreciate the joys of winning. You need to be thirsty to truly feel quenched. The further the extreme in one direction will create more space for the opposing experience to take place in the other. Live life to the max inside your personal boundaries. Each person has a different level of comfort and require different stimuli to create discomfort. I have a problem with those of you who don't know what yours is. If you fall into this category it is time to push your comfort zone.