Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time. You can find Casey on: IG: @queersextherapy,  And you can learn more about her practice, as well as find LGBTQ counseling and gender therapy, on her organization’s website: https://www.theexpansivegroup.com/ Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgs Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting https://www.truebill.com/ashley Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5gKExymsCA0 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices