All my high-achieving single ladies out there, this one is for you! I’m joined by Cara Alwill, bestselling author and host of the top-rated podcast, Style Your Mind, to discuss why so many successful women have trouble dating. Cara sheds light on what’s happening in the dating scene and how women can approach it differently to have fun with it again.  We dig deep into why you need to deprogram all the unsolicited advice out there and start to follow your intuition instead. I also share my perspective about expanding and overcoming challenges in relationships as someone who has been married for almost 20 years.  IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT: Why ‘he’s just not that into you’ isn’t always the full answer (and sometimes not the answer at all) What it looks like to take a more feminine approach to dating, especially as a successful woman  The different psychological patterns behind how men and women think about building relationships  A small mindset shift that makes dating a completely different experience  How to start calling in the person or relationship that you want Getting really clear on your non-negotiables and nice-to-have qualities  RESOURCES Thanks to Indeed for supporting Earn Your Happy. Go to indeed.com/happy to redeem a $75 sponsored job credit.  Thanks to Issuu. Sign up for a premium account and get 50% off issuu.com/podcast and use promo code LORI.  The Love Gap: A Radical Plan to Win in Life and Love by Jenna Birch  Sign up for The Spritz newsletter at litepink.com! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations and journal prompts.  CONNECT WITH CARA Learn more about Cara: thechampagnediet.com  Follow Cara on Instagram: @thechampagnediet  Listen to Style Your Mind  CONNECT WITH LORI Follow me: @loriharder Follow Lite Pink: @drinklitepink Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness Listen to Girlfriends & Business