In Episode 239 Of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I talk about how BLAMING THE NARCISSIST WONT HELP YOU HEAL. BLAME THINGS THAT YOU CAN CONTROL AND WORK ON  Tony Robbins said "I'm not telling you to stop blaming, i'm telling you to blame more effectively". Blaming things that you can't change give those things power over you. If you blame things you can control you essentially take back your power and can start the healing process.    Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder  ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.   The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.    1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness    You can find me on -   Tiktok MentalHealness - https://www.tiktok.com/@mentalhealness?lang=en   Insta- Mentalhealnesss - https://www.instagram.com/mentalhealnesss/?hl=en   Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MentalHealness85   Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mentalhealness/support