Your words will create your life. In this episode, Allison and Alicia Dunams discuss:  The importance of showing what happens behind the scenes of your life, and sharing the truth of your life.  How to not compare yourself to others around you.  The responsibility of changing other people's lives.  How to change conversation into tangible results.    Key Takeaways:  You have to run your own race, the only thing you can compare yourself against is yourself. Focusing on other people is a great way to change people's lives for the better. Focusing on the end result does not create a good experience leading up to that end result.  What you say, you create.  "When you open your heart, it creates a connection to other people's hearts." — Alicia Dunams   Connect with Alicia Dunams:   Twitter:  @AliciaDunams Facebook:  @AliciaDunams Website:  www.AliciaDunams.com www.BestsellerInAWeekend.com www.TheBookFunnel.com Email:  alicia@aliciadunams.com Instagram: @AliciaDunams  Check out Allison's books: Married My Mom Birthed A Dog: How to be Resilient When Life Sucks and From Business Cards to Business Relationships: Personal Branding and Profitable Networking Made Easy  Connect with Allison Graham:  Website:r-ninja.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/allisondgraham?lang=en Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisondgraham/ LinkedIn:   https://www.linkedin.com/company/resiliency-ninja/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/AllisonDGraham Email: ninja.com">allison@r-ninja.com   Show Notes by Podcastologist/Show Producer: Jessie Taylor  Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices