Dave Ross confesses that he sometimes has violent thoughts, while in real life he is terrified of physical confrontation. We talk about the expectations of men to fight and where the thoughts come from when he has never actually been violent. They discuss how gender roles have affected their fantasies, and why the fear of getting beat up can seem worse than actually getting beat up. Dave Ross is a comedian that has appeared on The Late Show with James Corden, Comedy Central, and has a hilarious album out now called The Only Man Who Has Ever Had Sex available at guns.sex.beer. Follow him at @davetotheross. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youcantellmeanything/message