How can people navigate threesomes smoothly and ethically (and pleasurably!)? What about aftercare post threesome - what are the protocols? And how do you find that third person? Stella Harris answers all this and more. We also answer a sex question about HPV.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Stella Harris is changing the way people experience their sex lives. As a certified intimacy educator and sex coach, she gives her students the tools and confidence to explore their sexuality safely and free of shame. The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes discusses some of the most frequently asked questions she’s experienced in her work around one common topic: threesomes. A national and international speaker, Harris teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. To learn more visit stellaharris.net Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 15% off our favorite cute and compact safety alarm at shesbirdie.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast