Here's the notes for episode #202 of Well-Fed Women. Be sure to check back every Tuesday for a new episode, and head over to Apple Podcasts or Stitcher to subscribe!To leave a review for the podcast (HORRAY!), go to: https://coconutsandkettlebells.com/reviewIn this episode, Stefani and Noelle discuss when fitness is your identity, toxic friendships, and 1,700 calories and gaining weight.Got a question you'd like us to answer? Email us at wellfedwomen@gmail.com.10% of the funds we receive from our sponsors is donated directly to our partner charity, Thistle Farms, a place where women survivors of abuse, addiction, trafficking and prostitution receive help and support through residential programs, therapy, education, and employment opportunities. Because we get paid per download, you are actively supporting Thistle Farms by downloading our podcast each week.Topics![15:35] When Fitness is Your Identity[36:50] Toxic Friendship[52:53] 1,700 Calories and Gaining WeightLinks!Noelle's website: https://coconutsandkettlebells.comStefani's website: http://paleoforwomen.comBuy our Book Coconuts and Kettlebells  Thrive Market                         This podcast is supported by Thrive Market! As a special offer to our community, Thrive Market is offering 25% OFF YOUR FIRST ORDER. To take advantage of this special deal, go to thrivemarket.com/wellfedwomen Keep in mind that Thrive Market’s prices are already 25-50% below retail because they cut out the middleman, so this is an extraordinary deal.Thrive Market is an online marketplace with all the top premium healthy and organic products that you get from your grocery store but without the premium prices. It’s like the Costco of Whole Foods except you shop in your PJs from home and your bill ends up being up to 50% less! The best part is you can trust Thrive Market’s options will be sourced from the best of the best ingredients and you can shop based on your own dietary needs.Nutritional Therapy Association                        The Well Fed Women podcast is sponsored in part by the Nutritional Therapy Association. The NTA trains and certifies Nutritional Therapy Practitioners and Consultants, emphasizing bio-individuality and the range of dietary strategies that support wellness. The NTA emphasizes local, properly prepared, nutrient-dense foods as the key to restoring balance and enhancing the body’s ability to heal. The NTA's Nutritional Therapy Practitioner Program and fully online Nutritional Therapy Consultant Program empower graduates with the education and skills they need to launch successful, fulfilling careers in holistic nutrition.Registration is now open for February class and you can learn more and save your seat by going to: www.nutritionaltherapy.com. Don't forget to check out the NTA’s Annual Conference, Roots happening March 1-3 in Portland, Oregon. It’s one of the most empowering and educational holistic nutrition events of the year and all are welcome!Fabletics                                         This podcast is supported by Fabletics, a fashion focused activewear brand with a mission to empower women by making a healthy, active lifestyle accessible to everyone because of its exceptional price point. Fabletics was born in 2013 and co-founded by actress Kate Hudson. The founding team noticed a large disparity in the activewear market place—comfortable, on-trend gym wear that was priced affordably. Since then, Fabletics has been a one stop shop online for women pursuing all kinds of activities, yoga, running, gym workouts, and they have sports bras, shoes, and accessories.Fabletics is offering our listeners an incredible deal: Get 2 leggings for only $24 ($99 value) when you sign up for a VIP.