All of our children go through phases when they do things we wish they wouldn’t do.    Sometimes those things are relatively harmless but are pretty annoying, because they take extra time for us to clean up - things like eating (and making crumbs) in areas where we don’t want them to eat, shaving up a bar of soap, or piling up all the toys and refusing to help clean them up.    Other times it’s not so harmless.     They might hit us.   Or hit a (smaller) sibling, for what seems like no reason.   We want to get that behavior to stop…but how?   In this episode we’ll meet a parent who’s struggling with the annoying behaviors…and we’ll hear directly from two parents who have found ways to navigate resistance and hitting, and these are no longer the problem they once were.   There is hope.     We don’t have to keep walking on eggshells waiting for the next explosion, or worried about what our child is doing as soon as our back is turned.  

Setting Loving (& Effective!) Limits Workshop

   

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(00:50)  Introduction for today’s episode (01:33)  A member of Jen's community is seeking advice on how to manage her child’s frustrating behavior (04:23)  How Jen resolved her issues with her husband's frustrating behavior during the COVID lockdown (06:16)  The importance of understanding children's behavior and finding ways to meet their needs in a way that works for both the child and the parent (07:36)  One of the reasons why children engage in activities that they know are forbidden: Lack of Impulse control (09:20)  The importance of recognizing that our children are still learning how to regulate their emotions and impulses (11:17)  How setting fewer limits can create a more positive and respectful relationship...

All of our children go through phases when they do things we wish they wouldn’t do. Sometimes those things are relatively harmless but are pretty annoying, because they take extra time for us to clean up - things like eating (and making crumbs) in areas where we don’t want them to eat, shaving up a bar of soap, or piling up all the toys and refusing to help clean them up. Other times it’s not so harmless. They might hit us. Or hit a (smaller) sibling, for what seems like no reason. We want to get that behavior to stop…but how? In this episode we’ll meet a parent who’s struggling with the annoying behaviors…and we’ll hear directly from two parents who have found ways to navigate resistance and hitting, and these are no longer the problem they once were. There is hope. We don’t have to keep walking on eggshells waiting for the next explosion, or worried about what our child is doing as soon as our back is turned. FREE Setting Loving (and Effective!) Limits masterclass: Saturday May 6, 10am Pacific Did you miss the full 8-day Setting Loving (and Effective!) Limits workshop? Want to get all the good info…in just 90 minutes? Come and join me for a FREE 90 minute masterclass on Saturday May 6 at 10am Pacific. I’ll walk you through the strategies you need to set limits effectively…but also to set way fewer of them than you ever thought possible (without your children ruling the roost!). We’ll have a presentation, QandA, coaching of one lucky participant, and a valuable giveaway! We’ll send out a recording to everyone who registers, so please register even if you know you can’t make it live (although you will have to attend live to get your questions answered, be coached, and potentially win the giveaway…).