Dirty Lola joins us to chat all about how to navigate sex and relationships after a big life shift such as divorce, breakups/heartbreak, major health issues, and/or the passing of a loved one. Lola also helps us answer a sex question: Should I lose my virginity to an escort.  Want to fast forward to the interview? Go to minute 32:00. About our guest: Dirty Lola is a sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go and as co-host of New York Magazine’s The Cut’s “Sex Probz” web series, Lola has spent almost a decade working to end stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality. Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor and public platforms to teach the masses in-person and to rapt Internet audiences. She is also one of the ambassadors for hashtagopen.com. To learn more check out her website at sexedagogo.com Other Links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Get your health on plus 15% off with come SHAMELESS at yoursuper.com Be the first to try our fav wine maker's fall releases by signing up for her newsletter at marginswine.com