I don’t do coffee. I do orgasms. 

My legendary Meditate, Masturbate, Create three-step formula will help you to break out of the habit of using sex as a genital sneeze and sleep aid and instead show you how to rewire yourself to get high, tap your creative genius, and infuse ecstasy into all of your waking life. 

“Casual” sex is a massive contradiction and oxymoron. How casual sex really impacts you, in ways you’ve likely never thought of before.

• Casual sex vs. gourmet sex 
• What’s the true impact of casual sex 
• 10 reasons why to go f**k yourself instead
• The false liberation of The Pill 
• Do you need many partners to be “experienced”? 
• Are men and women built differently for casual sex? 
• Is it worth getting a "practice partner"? 

"You’re always wet!” 

This is one of the things my lovers have said to me most often.

They’re shocked. 

They aren’t used to touching a women and she’s already dripping wet. 

It’s normally something in the past that they have to work at to create, or need to squeeze out of a plastic tube.

Most men and women have been conditioned to think that lube doesn’t actually come from inside a woman’s vagina! 

Well. 

Me and thousands of vaginas are here to tell you that you’re wrong.

Lubrication definitely comes from vaginas.

Kung fu vaginas, anyway.

In this episode: 

• 5 tips for natural, gushing lubrication 
• Why women actually “dry up” 
• A woman can be wet at any age and stage of her life
• Lube and the American Dream 
• The great menopause psyop 

"I don't stargaze; I vagina-gaze." 

This is one of the most profound podcast episodes I've done. 

I interview our Well-F**ked All-Star Katie, who shares how she healed her sexual trauma primarily through using the jade yoni egg.

“I was one of those women you talk about who never even looked at my own vagina. I was terrified to. I couldn’t touch myself because of a longstanding history of childhood sexual trauma.”

She’d tried countless other therapies to address not only her trauma history, but the resulting expressions of it, like her endometriosis and painful periods. 

I always say that ALL—and I mean ALL—reproductive ailments are symptoms of stuck sexual energy. 

The source is often unresolved trauma. 

It gets lodged in the body. 

And to the body we must go, in order to find it, illuminate it, and transform it. 

Exactly as Katie has done. 

Through taking both VKF and WFW, Katie threw herself into this and applied ALL of the tools I offered her. 

“My endometriosis is gone. Gone! No heavy periods, no painful bleeding. It is normal and healthy. I had tried lots of remedies and herbs…It was healing the sexual trauma. That’s what my body was crying out for.”

I used to associate being a woman with pain and trauma and blood. But now I dance around the house naked, reveling in the magical, sacred, special witch-iness of this woman’s body.

I went from being a highly sensitive person, to having a highly sensitive pussy.”

Katie also has some words for the skeptical and self-doubting: 

“I know what it’s like to feel like you’re the one woman who can’t and who won’t. Now, from my experience, if I can, anyone can. If you keep showing up for yourself, your body will show up for you and you can be part of The Anami Guarantee.”

If you are new around these parts, The Anami Guarantee states that:

ALL people can.

All women can have ravenous libidos, experience multiple orgasms: G-Spot, ejaculatory and cervical. All women can have blissful periods and menopause. All men can last for hours in bed, have rock-hard erections into their 90s and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

I truly love this interview, because it shows you that all the healing power you need, is right inside you.

If you’re ready for your own vaginal odyssey, you can join Vaginal Kung Fu now.

In the salon, you receive:

- The tools and techniques to uncover and recover from sexual trauma.- Guided instructions to perform your own healing yoni massage- Full jade egg workout routines- Guided visualizations to help you with higher level subconscious healing and re-patterning: As above, so below.- Breast massage techniques to tone, lift and enlarge the breasts - Sexual position prescription mood guide—this tells you which sexual positions to be in to balance out different moods. For example, if you are angry, sad, depressed.- Taoist qi gong practices to rid yourself of difficult PMS, periods and menopause- How to use your sexual energy to create and attract abundance in your life 

All this and more! 

The salon is open for registration for another week, until Feb 4th.

Click here to signup!

I often use the hashtag: #poweredbyvagina

Which means: my vagina created this.

Vaginas aren’t just for making babies, you know!

They’re also for creating your dreams.

I’m always talking about how our sexual energy is creative, life-force energy.

If you aren’t creating babies with it, you can use it to build your life.

When your vagina is happy and healthy and it’s getting well-f**ked on a regular basis, it is very productive.

In fact, your life and work output is directly related to your vaginal satisfaction.

Turn on your vagina and you turn on your life.

With a switched on, aroused and activated vagina, your creative powers are at their maximum potential.

Your vagina is your mover and shaker. This is your ultimate power source.

Sexual energy is creative energy.

If you aren’t birthing babies with this energy, you can channel it out into the world and birth—and rebirth—every part of your life.

In this episode:

• The sex and money connection
• How I stabilized my weight and sculpted my body
• Attracting high caliber partners without even trying
• The evolution and elevation of my own business
• How deep throating leads to amazing business opportunities
• Where I get all my viral media campaign ideas from
• Four steps to manifest everything you want in your life

In this episode:

• My top FOUR tips for moving from the clitoris into the holy land of the vaginas 
• Not one, not two, but THREE epic all-star stories of women sharing their sexual and life transformations via their vaginas and cervical orgasms 
• Why do people fight for the right not to orgasm? 
• The fastest way to de-numb your vagina
• Why only having clitoral orgasms leaves you underf**ked 

Do you have an uplifting vagina?

Did you know that lifting weights with your vagina does all of the following?

• Creates an overall lift in your mood
• Lifts the pelvic floor, and all your internal organs so they don’t fall out—um yes, this is a thing that happens to 50% of women after childbirth
• Gives you a facelift. Bye bye Botox.
• Prevents leakage: energetic and otherwise. 

Yes, having a strong, uplifted vagina uplifts every part of your life.

When you lift at the genitals, you create an energetic uplift throughout the entire body.

In women, this translates into a natural facelift, breast lift.

Your sexual energy is one of your greatest and most creative tools.

When you are properly accessing it, you’ll see how it inspires your life, giving you a buoyancy, a resilience, and an ability to go with the flow.

It gets you high.

I always say—if you want to get high, have more sex.

If you want to get higher, have sex with a strong set of genitals that can pump up your sexual energy from your lower centres to your higher ones, cultivating higher potency encounters.

In this episode: 

• Natural face lifts and breast lifts: for realz. 
• How are you leaking energy? Seal it and pull it up.
• Tap into the Fountain of Youth
• Vaginal acupressure treatments with the jade egg 

All my vaginal power secrets and practices will be revealed in the upcoming Vaginal Kung Fu Salon.

The salon opens for registration on January 18th. Get on the list to be notified when it does, and check out my free preview video series for the salon now, which includes an exercise you can do tonight! Click here to signup. 

I did a podcast a couple of years back called “When One Person Wants to Grow”.

In it, I talked about what to do when one person in the relationship is more keen on growth and healing, and the other is not.

In Anami Land, a conscious, gourmet sex relationship requires both people to be actively participating. It doesn’t work if one person is consistently putting in more effort than the other.

The magic only happens when both people dive deep and commit to 150% effort.

I highly recommend listening to the “When One Person Wants to Grow” episode. Consider this a follow up. 

Let's say you tried what I suggested in that episode and your partner is still consistently uninterested in growing with you and cockblocks you and your relationship. 

Here is my straight Anami-style talk about what I suggest. 

In this episode:

• At what point do you call it quits in a relationship
• What is an acceptable pace to move and grow at
• The lie of limbo 
• The impact of stagnation on your overall life 
• What it looks and feels like in a relationship where both people are committed to growth. Hint: it’s sheer jubilation and nothing less. 

There are so many pregnancy myths and misinformation that it’s truly a delight to bust them all. 

Birth is painful? 

Nope. Birth is actually meant to be the biggest orgasm of your life. 

The safest place to have a baby is in a hospital? 

Nope. It’s actually the most dangerous. The safest place to have a baby is at home. 

You need an OBYGN to “deliver” your baby for you. 

Lol, nope. 

Your body and eons of encoded wisdom know exactly what to do if you can remove all of the bullshit programming and in-doctor-nation that tells you otherwise. 

It’s “risky” to have a baby over the age of 30 or 35 or whatever the arbitrary number is they invent. 

NOPE. So long as you are healthy and create space, you can get pregnant whenever you want. 

And that is the topic of today’s podcast: 

Conscious conception and a woman who is pregnant with her first child at age 45. 

Today’s well-f**ked all star interview features Katalin, a first time mother who conceived her baby at age 45. 

She’s taken a few of my salons and then signed up for Sexy Mama. 

Within months of trying, she and her partner conceived. In her words: 

“We never went to see a doctor, we just trusted that it will happen naturally.”

She was terrified of birth prior to taking Sexy Mama. 

She’d bought into the fear mongering for most of her life—the sole purpose of which is to shepherd women into hospitals by convincing them of the lie that childbirth is far too dangerous to go through on their own—and she transcended it to the point where now after completing the salon she is “totally comfortable and will not even consider a hospital birth.”

In today’s episode: 

• My top 3 tips for natural conception at any age and stage 
• The deeper problem with IVF and forced fertility 
• The role of the quality of your relationship in your fertility journey 
• Vaginal reconnaissance 
• Well-f**ked all star Katarin shares how she went from skeptical to firmly committed to home birth and how she conceived naturally at age 45

The Sexy Mama Salon begins today! 

This is my 8-week online salon on all things holistic pregnancy and ecstatic childbirth.

It's my view and experience that just like all women can have vaginal orgasms and voracious libidos, so too can they have orgasmic, transcendent, blissful births.

Yes, every woman can.

She just need to clear the blockages and programming she's taken on via a corrupt medical system and culture at large that seeks to remove a woman from this power.

I seek to restore her to it.

That's what we do in Sexy Mama. We systematically go through every stage from conception through pregnancy, birth and postpartum to "reprogram" you with all the strength and power and ecstasy to make these peak, life-affirming experiences and create an imprint of bliss for life.

Yes, it's possible for everyone.

These women are living proof. And so too can you be.

Even if you aren't currently pregnant or have immediate plans for children, I would suggest signing up so you can begin the "reprogramming" process and create confidence in your choices, knowing they are backed up by facts and impeccable research.

See you inside! 

~Kxx

In this episode I chat with Rachelle Garcia Seliga of Innate Traditions and we discuss: 

• The five pillars of a restorative postpartum
• The role of birth trauma in postpartum depression
• Indigenous traditions in postpartum care around the world
• The role of community and how to create it 
• A man’s role and its impact on their relationship overall