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Dateable: Your insiders look into modern datinginactive

Publisher |: Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

Media Type |: audio

Podknife tags |: Comedy,; Mental Health,; Millennials,; Relationships,; Sexuality,; Society & Culture

Categories Via RSS |: Health & Fitness,; Relationships,; Science,; Sexuality,; Social Sciences,; Society & Culture

Is monogamy dead? Are we expecting too much of Tinder? Do we even want to find love anymore? Get all the answers and more with Dateable, your insider’s look into modern dating that the HuffPost and the New York Times calls one of the ‘Top 10 podcasts about love and sex’. Listen in as Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick dig into why we date the way we do as they talk with real daters and experts about everything from sex parties to sex droughts, date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves. Whether you’re looking to DTR or DTF, you’ll have moments of “OMG-that-also-happened-to-me” to “I-never-thought-of-it-that-way-before.”

Tune in every Wednesday to challenge the way you date in this crazy Dateable world.

Follow us @dateablepodcast on IG and join the private 'Love in the time of Corona' Facebook groupCheck out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

People |: Julie Krafchick,; Yue Xu (@singlefiedyue)
Country Of Origin |: USA
Produced In |: San Francisco, CA
Premiere Date |: 2016-02-04
Related Hashtags |: #dating
Frequency |: Weekly
Explicit |: Yes

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387 Available Episodes (387 Total) / Average duration: 00:51:37

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387 Available Episodes (387 Total)Average duration: 00:51:37

Apr 23, 2023

00:16:41

How much do you need to share about yourself, your upbringing, or your past relationships in the early stages of dating? In this week’s brunch talk we’re chatting about the line between oversharing and not sharing enough, how you can spin conversations you’d rather veer away from, and why the last thing you want to do is trauma dump on a first date.

Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 19, 2023

01:03:21

If you were to take sex and attraction off the table, what does it mean to have a relationship? We're diving in with David and Yasmin about their experience being asexual and how that plays into dating, relationships, and falling in love. We discuss what it's like not to experience sexual attraction in a world so driven by it, the difference between being asexual and aromantic, and how you can have a relationship that works for you.

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 16, 2023

00:21:51

How well does ChatGPT work for dating app convos? Is it ethical? We're diving in to discuss (and find out!) in this week's brunch talk. We’re discussing how you'd even use AI (artificial intelligence) from the opening line to the whole conversation, how this compares to a bot or hiring a human to have conversations on your behalf, and the line between using this technology in an authentic and inauthentic way. Plus, we test out ChatGPT in real-time and give you a verdict if this is a helpful tool or not (in the context of dating app convos). Buckle up as this is a fun one!

Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 12, 2023

01:06:47

Whether you're screaming YES or you're extremely skeptical, this episode is going to be relatable for all as we chat with Kate about her experience meeting her wife, and how she had that gut feeling when they first met –despite being in a serious relationship with her boyfriend. We discuss why we need to listen to our bodies (and hearts) while dating, why it's important to take it slow when you have this intense feeling, and ways to get out of the should so you can start having the love life you deserve.

This episode is sponsored by:

HoneyLove: Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com with the code DATEABLE

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 09, 2023

00:15:03

So you met someone who seems fantastic and everything has been moving along well...except that you don't talk much between dates. Should you be communicating more? Or is just setting up the next date sufficient in the early stages? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how different people operate with texting/calling/video chats, etc, ways you can up your text game to build connection, and how to bring up the fact that you'd like to talk more.

Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 05, 2023

00:57:56

We all have a story about ourselves that explains why our love lives aren't falling into place...but are they even true? We're chatting with Ben about how his lack of dating and sexual experience has caused him to identify as undateable – and how he's letting his past get in the way of his future. We discuss why we struggle to see ourselves the way others often do, how to let go of the past so it doesn't take over your present, and ways to date in a way that brings you closer to having the love life you want.

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 02, 2023

00:17:53

Maybe you had a date or a series of them that were fine. You *could* see them again but would also be perfectly OK if your paths never crossed again. But all this does is make you apathetic about dating and seeing them again. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to start having great dates, why giving people more chances can work if you change your approach to each date, and ways to make the whole process a lot more enjoyable.

Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Hers: Get access to medical providers for help with anxiety and depression. For more information visit forhers.com/spring

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 29, 2023

01:02:17

What happens when the sexual wellness community you're part of starts to feel like a cult? We're chatting with Rebecca, who is still coming to terms with her experience with orgasmic meditation and the organization OneTaste, which got profiled in the Netflix documentary Orgasm Inc. We discuss what attracted her to the practice in the first place, the tipping point of when this experience started to not feel right, and how she's recovering from the disturbing allegations vs. missing the woman she was at this time.

This episode is sponsored by:

BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Hers: Get access to medical providers for help with anxiety and depression. For more information visit forhers.com/spring

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 26, 2023

00:18:25

So you’re dating someone new and when it comes time to meet the friends…there are none. Is this a major red flag or not a huge deal? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing the many ways that friends play into the equation, why the relational skills you learn through friendship, and how to determine if this is a problem or not for your relationship.

Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.com

Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboard

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Hers: Get access to medical providers for help with anxiety and depression. For more information visit forhers.com/spring

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Mar 22, 2023

00:59:01

What happens when your "type" doesn't seem to work, yet you keep gravitating towards people with similar characteristics over and over again? We're here to learn how to reset our romantic GPS with Marc Sholes so we don't keep steering toward the wrong partners. We discuss how attachment style plays into the partners you choose, when to work through a rough patch vs. accept it's not the right partner for you, and how to start making different choices that lead to different outcomes for your love life.

Learn more about Marc's work at https://www.marcsholeslcsw.com/ and check out his book 'Reset Your Romantic GPS'

This episode is sponsored by:

Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.

Hers: Get access to medical providers for help with anxiety and depression. For more information visit forhers.com/spring

Nux Activeware: Get 20% off your purchase at nuxactive.com and use the code DATEABLE20 at checkout.

Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts

Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Apr 23 | 00:16:41

#brunchtalk: How Much Should You Share On A Date

Apr 19 | 01:03:21

S16E10: Taking Sexual Attraction Out Of The Equation

Apr 16 | 00:21:51

#brunchtalk: Can I Use ChatGPT On Dating Apps?

Apr 12 | 01:06:47

S16E9: Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?

Apr 09 | 00:15:03

#brunchtalk: How Much Communication Should Happen Between Dates

Apr 05 | 00:57:56

S16E8: Healing Your Past to Feel Dateable

Apr 02 | 00:17:53

#brunchtalk: How To Go From "Fine" Dates To Great Ones

Mar 29 | 01:02:17

S16E7: What It's Like To Be In A Sex Cult

Mar 26 | 00:18:25

#brunchtalk: Is It A Red Flag If They Don't Have Friends?

Mar 22 | 00:59:01

S16E6: Why You're Choosing The Wrong Partners w/ Psychotherapist Marc Sholes

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