Do you have a partner who craves attention? Do you love getting attention? How do you feel when your partner gets attention from outside sources? Jess and Brandon discuss the Ayesha and Steph Curry case and share their experience with managing insecurity, neediness, attention-seeking and more. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.       If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Why We All Seek Attention & Feel Insecure: The Ayesha & Steph Curry Case 00:00:05 - 00:05:01 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sacks. And relationship advice. You can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr Jess podcast. I am Brandon wear here with my lovely partner. Dr. Jess, hey, hey, I'm in a very good mood today was a well. I'm playing in an ultimate frisbee tournament this weekend. Rigo ultimate frisbee. It's an all women's team that I love and we do a big cookout after what are they called? We are the joy Huck club. We're mostly Asian women. And we did have one girl on the team. She didn't get it. You know, the Joy Luck Club. Right. I know it now because I had to ask about it. You did. Yeah. I did. I didn't watch movies in the eighty s it was a book. They're exactly it was also a movie, but Landa good mood because of that. I'm also in a good mood because this week all week long from late late Sunday night when I came home to midday Saturday, Brandon, and I have our house all to ourselves. And for those of you who don't know why that so exciting Justice father lives in our house and has lived with us for about the last ten years, but he is on a tour of the holy land this week. I hope he's having a good time. I do too. 'cause I am having a good time. Having a house to myself walking around in the nude. I'm breaking all the rules that I set. Yeah. I mean, I don't think we have a ton of rules to begin with. I do have a lot of rules in the house. You know, I do know computers at the table. No newspapers at the table. I have a lot of rules. No, Fox News on the main floor, Fox News period. Yeah. Well, that that's on my dad's computer, so yeah, we're enjoying the week loan. And I'm also in a really good mood because the Toronto Raptors are still in the play offs. And I bring up the wraps not only because we're Toronto fan. So we've the north and all that jazz. But also because today, I wanna talk about a USA. Hurry. And I show is a cookbook author. She's a television host and personality, and she is also. The wife of NBA star Steph curry who has a reputation for being just a super nice guy any specifically has a reputation for not cheating on his wife, which is somehow lauded to get a biscuit for not cheating on your partner. Apparently, if you're a superstar and show was on red table talk recently, and she opened up about her insecurities in this is what she said. She says something that really bothers me. And honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of insecurity is the fact that. Yeah, there are all these women like throwing themselves at him. But me for the last ten years. I don't have any of that. I have zero and this might sound weird. But I have I don't have male attention. And so then I begin to internalize it and unlike is something wrong with me. There's a lot when package there. I don't I don't know much about the curry family.