Bryan and Chris are back! Chris has finally returned from his odyssey across the Atlantic which included a wedding, a bad mushroom trip, and an encounter with an aggressive London business man. At 12:30 a listener in the closet writes in wondering how to shake self hateful feelings about their own sexuality. At 28:30 a listener writes in wondering how to get a guy he’s casually seeing to take their relationship as seriously as he does. Bryan and Chris both agree that having a boyfriend is actually pretty cool and it’s not a crime to admit that you want one.   Thanks to our sponsors   Lola-LOLA is a female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners and all-natural cleansing wipes. “For 40% off all subscriptions, visit mylola.com and enter "GAY" when you subscribe!”   Scentbird- Scentbird dot com keeps you smelling good month after month. Go to scentbird.com/gay for 50 percent off your first month.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices