This week, Nicole is joined by Chris Burns, AKA @fatcarriebradshaw to talk all about what it’s like being a bridesman, best man, groomsman, and soon-to-be wedding officiant. We kick off with some listener questions, starting with how he affords attending so many weddings, whether you have to buy a wedding gift if you’re a bridesmaid, and if it's ever okay to not go to a bridal shower. Plus, Chris shares his favorite bridesman outfit, the best tips to keep the bride calm, and the number one thing a bride should never forget on the wedding day. Then, it’s time for a listener email all about how to line up your bridesmaids when everyone just can’t seem to agree (does the order really matter?). Finally, they close with their “Unpopular Opinions” segment, this one about gifting etiquette, who’s really supposed to pay for the bachelorette party, and couples showers vs. bridal showers (which one’s better?).  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices