Once upon a time, two girls packed their bags full of make-up, their "finest gowns", and left their former lives behind in hopes to fall in love with a pro football player/reality tv contestant/virgin on a little show we like to call The Bachelor. Spoiler Alert: they didn't, but they did manage to pull it together and find boyfriends IRL. This episode breaks down Nicole and Sydney's life pre Bachelor, the mistakes they made and lessons learned on the show, and how they went from dating and getting ghosted in the real world and the Bachelor to finding the real deals they have today. They want to help ya'll out! Hopefully hearing their own stories of fails in dating and eventual successes can give you the hope that your person is out there and how you can be living your best life until then! hosts: @nicolelovar @sydneylotuaco Follow us! @blackbeansandricepod --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/somethingtosharewithsyd/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices