There are three types of assholes in the world, and after reading Robert Sutton's book, The Asshole Survival Guide: How To Deal With People Who Treat You Like Dirt, Em is concerned that she may be one. So how do you know whether or not you’re an asshole? And is being an asshole really that bad? Lucy and Em break it down Plus, a dating diary that goes from bad, to worse, to outright embarrassing. Find out how The Undone producer, Mel, wriggles out of this sticky situation. The End Bits  The Asshole Survival Guide: How to Deal with People Who Treat You Like Dirt - Robert I. Sutton 'Don’t EVER use cat emojis.' A 2020 guide to dating through emojis. - Emily Vernem If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.  Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey  Slide into our DMs @emilyvernem & @lucymneville  If you want to share your dating story email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386 Send us a voice memo to podcast@mamamia.com.au  This episode was produced by Elissa Ratliff & Mel Sauer. Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.