This week we are joined by chaotic bottom legend and Queen of Anal Asa Akira (@asahole) where she really unpacks what it's like to work in porn as an Asian person. She also discusses her relationship to her Japanese parents and how she gets jealous of her white colleagues with parents that accompany them to AVN (but why tho?). Asa talks about who she has sex with and how porn helped with her body dysmorphia, and we awkwardly try to compliment each other. Brian chats about running into old dates at yoga, and Youngmi discusses how women in their thirties are brainwashed to feel bad about not having kids. Subscribe to thingsiwishicouldinstagram.com to check out Asa's new work and follower her on Instagram and Twitter @asahole. Follow us at: @itsbrianpark, @ymmayer and @feelingasianpodcast!