“I know a strong and good person when I see one. You were given this life, not by accident, but because you are strong enough to live it. You were given those babies because they need you to be their mom. You can let your struggles destroy you or you can let them motivate you. It's not the struggle that defines us, but what we do after that matters.” Rock Your Kindness highlights extraordinary stories of everyday people experiencing life-changing kindness. Whether it's a random act, saves a life, or helps you be kinder to yourself, these stories will increase empathy, compassion, and hope. You never know how your kindness can change the trajectory of your life or the life of another. Rock Your Kindness is hosted by Tracey Ferrin. Tracey is a mother, wife, best-selling author, and TikTok superstar. She is often called a "breath of fresh air" by those who know and meet her. She is a mom of 4 and has been married to the love of her life for 18 years. Together, they call Texas home. Show Notes:  [0:00] Welcome back to Rock Your Kindness Podcast, hosted by Tracey Ferrin [0:40] Introduction to episode with guest Sarah [2:41] “There is two sides to every story” [4:03] Sarah leads into the relationship details with her son’s father [5:14] Question: What were these warning signs that you wish you would've seen or that people were telling you about? [7:51] “I kept saying, ‘Something's not right. Something's not right.’ But nobody would listen.“ [10:04] “We were in the elevator and she was in labor too, but she was super early. And like in between contractions, she looked at me and she was like, `I don't know why I feel the need to tell you this, but that baby is about to change your life.’ ” [19:24] How could something so beautiful come out of such a sad situation? [24:04] “This is the first person to ask me if I was okay in like a year. Literally.” [26:00] “I know a strong and good person when I see one. You were given this life, not by accident, but because you are strong enough to live it. You were given those babies because they need you to be their mom. You can let your struggles destroy you or you can let them motivate you. It's not the struggle that defines us, but what we do after that matters.” [28:35] After some light at the end of the tunnel… Sarah found herself in a dark situation again [32:34] Sarah recalls the moment she felt like she failed her children [38:16] “There was someone I needed to thank before closing this chapter”... [44:11] Question: Have you asked your patients what she has asked you? Have you asked them? How are you? [46:28] “If you feel like no one else believes in you. I hope you remember that, I do.” [47:08] Thanks for listening to this episode of Rock Your Kindness. If you know someone this story might resonate with, send them a link to this episode. Also tag me Tracey Ferrin on Instagram at @Traceyferrin and let me know what part of this story resonated with you the most. The best way to help support this show is to rate, review and subscribe. :) Until next time.. Rock Your Kindness --- Social Links: Website: https://www.lovewhatmatters.com/  Instagram: @lovewhatmatters  Facebook: @lovewhatmatters YouTube: @lovewhatmatters  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices