If popular lore is to be believed, long-term sexual satisfaction is a rare beast. But a new study in The Journal of Sex Research suggests that it's actually reassuringly alive and well; it just takes some effort. Lori talks with two experts about what sexually satisfied couples are doing right, and what we can learn from them. Ian Kerner is a therapist who specializes in sexuality and relationships. He is the author of several books, including She Comes First. He is also the founder of GoodinBed.com, a website and publishing company that brings together many of the country’s leading sex experts. Vanessa Marin is an Ivy-League educated psychotherapist, coach, and writer who helps people stop feeling embarrassed and start having more fun into the bedroom. She has been featured in publications like The New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, and The Times of London. Whether in her work coaching clients one-on-one or through her innovative online sex education programs like Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm, she helps people discover (or rediscover!) their spark.