Sex therapist Vanessa Marin helps Jess and Brandon to explore their sex personality types and how we can use them to better understand our own needs and our partners’. The 11 sex personality types include: The Explorer : sex is your playground, the element of unknown The Prioritizer: to know that sex is something you and your partner are willing to prioritize The Decompresser: sex is a form of stress relief The Fair Trader: generosity is the most important quality of sex, balance of giving and receiving The Giver: sex and pleasure is a gift to give to their partner The Guardian: safety and security is of the utmost importance during sex The Passion Pursuer: you want sex to feel all encompassing, losing yourself in the moment and letting go The Pleasure Seeker: the pure physical pleasure to sex The Romantic: sex is all about connection, emotional intimacy with your partner The Spiritualist: a way to connect to a higher purpose, sex feeling like a transcendent experience The Thrill Seeker: taboo or forbidden element to sex, this can contrast with the explorer They also discuss learning to orgasm, communication and the many dimensions of sexual fulfilment. Follow Vanessa on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram! This podcast is brought to you by Let’s Get Checked. Use code DRJESS to save at checkout!       If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. The 11 Sex Personality Types 00:00:05 - 00:05:08 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast, sacks and relationship advice. You can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr, podcasts. I'm your Co Host Brandon? We're here with my lovely other half. Dr Jess how you doing? Amazing amazing was that. Last. Good life is good. Not, as good, as it was a couple of months ago, but it's good, no so healthy still here, still feeling good. We're going to be talking about sexual personality types today. How would you describe my sexual personality? Adventurous. Wanting Pleasure wanting an orgasm. Yes, greedy. Yes, thank you and me you. You, you're give her. Which is nice, but also can be annoying. Yes and we've had that conversation before. You didn't say annoying for Mine I don't know why I was just thinking of annoying always ends well. How are you in bed? You're annoying. Do I know you in bed? No, you don't annoy. Tap on your shoulder while you're sleeping. TAP stuff the. Yield On your flap of skin. There you go, thank you. Yeah, I would say. You're very open. Okay and I would also say that you. I don't know the the adjective for it, but you. You push through sort of like even if if it doesn't work out in the first five seconds, you kind of work at it. Does that like I don't WanNa? Say. How do I say it? Listen I'm struggling here but I. think that you put a lot of effort into it. We've been there before where you have not been in the mood or perhaps been in the mood initially and then fallen out of the mood and. It's not working. Or You? Haven't said anything. I'm not into this anymore so I do think that I'll make a second or third effort. To try and get us there so now we've broadly and kind of Messily described care, sexual personality types, but Now. Let's figure out what our actual sexual personality types are before we invite our guests on to join US I.