Urologist and sexual wellness expert Dr. Jed Kaminetsky joins us to talk about all things sex including: Multiple approaches to lasting longer in bed The role or testosterone in sexual desire and functioning Orgasm difficulties Premature ejaculation Delayed orgasm The role of muscle memory and neuropathways in orgasm Promescent (Use code JESS15 at checkout for 15% off!) Follow Dr. Jed Kaminetsky and University Urology on Instagram. Not everyone wants to last longer in bed, but if you’re interested in learning more about ejaculatory control, check out our Last Longer in Bed: 6 Steps to Master Premature Ejaculation course which includes exercises in mindfulness, muscle mastery and communication. This podcast is brought to you by Let’s Get Checked. Use code DRJESS to save at checkout! If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Testosterone, Muscle Memory & Lasting Longer in Bed 00:00:05 - 00:05:01 You're listening to the sacs with Dr, Jess, podcast, sacks and relationship advice. You can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr Chess podcast I'm your co Host Brandon? Where here with my lovely other half Dr Jess. How you doing I'm hanging in there. Seems to be the trend lately. Yeah, doing pretty well, actually so today we're going to be talking about lasting longer in bed seems like it's the topic on many men's mind. Yeah, and so many women as well people of all genders and I hear from women who have sex with men I hear split. Some of them complained that their partners don't last long enough. And some of them complained that their partners last too long. We're GONNA. Talk about that as well. It's very interesting to hear because I remember growing up that the thing was. You need to last long. It's never. Focus on her pleasure or your partner's pleasure. You learn growing up. No I was saying I didn't if I said that I meant the opposite, it was like we didn't learn about that. We learned about the idea that you should just last a long time because that was what you needed to do. And that's what you saw in porn. You saw these videos. People lasted forty five minutes and you watch porn for forty five minutes. No I didn't. I knew that there were forty five minute long porn videos we're done with. The listen I watched the squiggly late at night. You needed late thirty seconds and a half boob. So. was there pressure when you think about early on in your? In your sex life. Is there pressure to last longer? You embarrassed if you didn't did you talk about? It certainly did not talk about it with my first few partners I. Remember the first time that I ever had sex that I was embarrassed after because it was not my most memorable performance and you know open book Brandon here. Disclosing all the details I remember feeling embarrassed after because it wasn't what I had. had seen on the videos, or at least my performance was, and so I was performance well I. Mean You mean by that performance I? Just mean how long I lasted and what I did, and and no I I mean listen. It was a short initial experience and I remember thinking feeling embarrassed, being around my partners friends after because I thought to myself if she had said something to them. Wow, that was not. At all what it was supposed to be now, I remember and I'm not just saying this to redeem...