E69 - Julianne meets Paul Shaw and discusses his fascinating life as an intimacy coach and surrogate partner for those needing to work through overcoming sexual barriers. He is a former born again Christian, but now gives people physical sessions for their intimate issues, their empowerment, and their self-love. Hear stories about clients with disabilities that he has worked with, and what he has to say about human sexuality, psychology, relationships, and healing. This is a powerful episode in which we learn about sex and anatomy, with one of Paul’s goals being to teach men, women, and couples how to communicate and have better more meaningful sex. At A Glance: 1:00 - Introduction 4:30 - Definition of sex surrogate partner 7:00 - His background 14:00 - Clientele 22:00 - In your head, into your body (pro tip #1) 25:30 - Insecurities, being in the moment (pro tip #2) 28:00 - Religion & purpose 29:30 - Exploring (pro tip #3) 30:00 - Vulva v. vagina (pro tip #4) 30:15 - Tantric sex 32:00 - G-spot, labia 33:15 - Labiaplasty, porn 35:30 - Orgasm, patriarchy 36:45 - Classes for men 38:15 - Intimacy coaching, trauma 41:00 - Touch and somatic therapy 43:30 - Settling down, girlfriend 44:30 - Conclusion Song credit: “Love Is A Mess” by Julianne Eggold Paul Shaw: www.surrogatepartner.care Part 2 of this Episode on Patreon.com/mouseandweens Website | Email | Gear | Instagram | Twitter |  Facebook | Behind the Scenes