This week Clemmie explores selfishness and why it might actually be a good thing, with five-board accredited life coach, broadcaster and public speaker Michelle Elman. Named as one of The Sun’s most inspirational women in the UK, Michelle quickly established herself as the Queen of Boundaries. With a huge following she shares her experiences and expertise with an engaged audience who have followed Michelle’s journey and rise in popularity with pride.  She has written 3 books: “Am I Ugly?”, “The Joy of Being Selfish?’” and, most recently,“The Selfish Romantic: how to date without feeling bad about yourself” . Michelle and Clemmie delve into what it means to be selfish, why boundaries are important and how being selfish can impact, and benefit, your dating life. You can find Michelle on Instagram @michelleelman and while you're there, check out Clemmie @Clemmie_Telford and more pod content @butwhy_podcast. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices