Poppy & Rubina speak to Raj Kaur from the Pink Ladoo about growing up as daughters. How much of an impact does sexism still have on South Asian women? And is there a solution? They discuss double standards, the lack of male allies growing up, the Pink Ladoo project and Angela Saini's 'The Patriarchs'. Have a message for Poppy and Rubina? If you’re over 16, you can message the BGDIT team via WhatsApp for free on 07968100822. Or email us at browngirlsdoittoo@bbc.co.uk