The Internet is trying to figure out if RHOA’s Porsha Williams is engaged (yes!) to her friend’s husband (not sure); and Demi continues last week’s conversation on shame, this time with Tanya Denise Fields (Black Feminist Project).  Trigger warning: conversation includes descriptions of intimate partner violence and sexual abuse.   Check out my website: http://www.demetrialucas.com/about/. Follow me:  IG:  demetriallucas. Twitter: demetriallucas. FB: demetriallucas. YouTube: demetriallucas. More about the Show:  Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or using this link: http://bit.ly/RatchetRespectablePodcast. Thanks to our sponsors: Sprite Winter Spiced Cranberry is BACK,  and now available with Zero Sugar!  This episode is brought to you by Ruffles® – yes, the original Ruffles® with ridges.  I absolutely recommend checking out Ana Luisa at https://shop.analuisa.com/ratchet. Now at 10% off and last chance items with up to 60% off. Go to bombas.com/RATCHET, and get 20% off your first purchase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices