Jordana and Nicole are back this week to talk all about the tricky subject of making sure others are happy with your wedding while staying true to your own priorities. They kick it off with a listener email about a bride whose controlling mother who has been giving pushback on almost every decision she has made so far. She's struggling to keep her involved while planning the wedding she wants. Then, they breakdown another email from a bride about how to avoid the competitive nature surrounding weddings, especially when several of her friends are also getting married around the same time period. Next, they go into a third email about a bride who is forgoing a big wedding in favor of a small ceremony, but is struggling to explain the change to her friends and family without feeling guilty for not having a big event. They end the episode with another round of Unpopular Opinions, discussing rehearsal dinners, after wedding snacks, and floral centerpieces. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices