Comedian and "new gay" Paris Sashay joins the guys to talk about the essence of soft doms, her elaborate eyeglasses collection, and why she wasn't necessarily "born this way," but has no qualms about "eating filet with Polynesian sauce" (*cough* PUSSY *cough*). Plus, Brent, Eliot and H. Alan tackle the "gay dad anxiety" provoked by the Andy Cohens and Anderson Coopers of the world, the Power Gays who make the pressure to adopt look far too easy. And when it comes to the Jerry Falwell Jr. controversy, are we really that surprised? And get the inside scoop on what it's like to be Brent Sullivan on Grindr in DC (grab an umbrella -- you're gonna need it)! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices