Bryan and Chris sit down with a gay man in a 7-year open marriage. You'd think that after meeting on Grindr, this fling would've been a lot shorter. This secret guest stresses the importance of honesty, communication, and mentions the bed rule, a since-outdated rule where suitors were outcalls only (the bed was a sacred place). At 27:11, they take a letter from a listner whose partner of five years doesn't want sex anymore. Are they asexual and what gives? Bryan offends their secret guest by suggesting that gay sex is only 10 minutes long, which segues into a general discussion of how long gay sex should take. Chris encourages listeners to send him hate mail because the engagement is through the roof. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices