Natalie Wynn (ContraPoints) is a YouTuber, ex-philosopher, transgender woman, and all-round genius who has decided to put down the books for some sexy times with the gang! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality, managing overwhelming romantic feelings, and our glorious new algorithm overlords. Ashley meets a true “chucklefucker.” Kate celebrates the New Year, COLOMBIAN STYLE! Natalie can be found @contrapoints on IG and Twitter, and you can support her amazing and thoughtful content on YouTube or her Patreon:  https://www.youtube.com/c/ContraPoints https://www.patreon.com/contrapoints Ashley is touring over 30 CITIES; be the first to know when tickets drop in your area by texting “tour” to +1 (877) 497-0441, or visit www.ashleygavin.com/tourdates. Win a dinner with Ashley by visiting https://www.ashleygavin.com/win, or text "notadate" to +1 (877) 497-0441.   Want to hear more? Check out the following links: Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates Newsletter & Live Events: ashleygavin.com/firstdibs @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok. @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter       Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Try Green Chef, and get $130 off + FREE shipping on the most sustainable meal kit by visiting our special link and using code “ashley130”: https://www.greenchef.com/ashley130  Use BetterHelp to live a happier life today, and get 10% off your first month by visiting our special link: https://www.betterhelp.com/whgs Want to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch this episode on YouTube at the following link: https://youtu.be/rtLy4sAJbRo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices