James Parr was diagnosed with cancer a week after he came out.

At the same time that James was exploring himself as an out, bisexual man, he was also figuring out what his life would look like if he lost a limb.

Now James takes pride in his disability and he will challenge anyone who tries to pity him or tell him that his life is "sad".

James shares with Sean about running away from home as a kid, coming to terms with his sexuality in a hyper-masculine regional town, how he's gained confidence in his disability, and how he weeds out the men on Grindr who want to get to know him...and the men who want to fetishise him.

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