Have you ever been cat-fished? Former Bachelor, contestant, Mary Viturino, has. In dating diary this week, she tells us how she had the last laugh. Plus, nobody likes it, yet everybody does it. But in 2021, Lucy and Em think it's time to abolish reciprocal gift-giving and invites and their words of wisdom won't make you feel guilty about it. The End Bits  With special thanks to our dating diary guest, Mary Viturino https://www.instagram.com/maryviturino18/?hl=e Have a confession? We want to hear it:  forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9 If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.  Also, if you feel like winning a $100 voucher, tell us your thoughts here: https://survey.alchemer.com/s3/5987033/The-Undone-2020-Survey  Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville  If you want to share your dating story email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386 Send us a voice memo to podcast@mamamia.com.au  This episode was produced by Mel Sauer & Elissa Ratliff Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.